Fernande Valmé - Soeur Valmé
23 Juillet 1924 - 19 Mai 2008
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missing you so much right now. I still can hear your voice but I am forgetting your scent...so sad
Mafifi
- Monday, March 31, 2014 at 10:51:28
Another holiday without you...I still drive around the neighborhood and judge the homes with the best and worst christmas decorations. You'd be happy to know people have gotten better; not as much of the blue christmas lights you disliked so much. lol Cant tell you how much it still hurts not to have you with me. I wish you were around to see our home. Its GORGEOUS! This year we bought a 10 foot live tree. The house is all decked out and christmas music plays 24hrs...it drives Woodley crazy. lol Cant wait till we meet again grandma. I miss your smell
Mafifi
- Tuesday, December 24, 2013 at 13:38:12
hi grandma I wish you were here now things are hard for me. Very close to the point of giving up I don't know what else to do...that's all I want for Christmas or my Bday. can you please speak with the man upstairs I make it happen for me.
mafifi
- Friday, December 6, 2013 at 18:9:46
Hi Meme. You know I couldn't end this day without acknowledging the date. I know this day and want it meant to you...more than your own birthday happy 71st water baptism Anniversary. I love you I miss you so much.
Mafifi
- Thursday, October 17, 2013 at 23:2:18
Waiting patiently...alas
Mafifi
- Thursday, August 22, 2013 at 16:7:18
Hi Meme... I returned from Haiti last night. The rest will return soon. It was an amazing experience. You would be so proud of the work we're continuing. I really wish you were here to enjoy it with us. 58 missionaries traveled with us this year. The clinic is amazing, all 30 arces is fenced, the school is completed, the Church is looking great...we're getting there!
Mafifi
- Thursday, July 25, 2013 at 12:35:44
Wow Meme...thus far its been just you and I in 2013. Honestly, its always been you and I (and the big man upstairs)
Mafifi
- Wednesday, May 22, 2013 at 17:33:16
Oh, the things I would give up just to have you back...
Mafifi
- Wednesday, May 22, 2013 at 17:28:55
A la traka pour Fernande!
Mafifi
- Wednesday, May 22, 2013 at 17:27:26
Hi Meme. I know you wouldn't approve but we had to do it.
Mafifi
- Sunday, May 19, 2013 at 22:13:59
hi grandma. I was awoken this morning about 8:29 with the sound of tante Mireille screaming mama'm mouri... I thought it was a really bad dream. Alas...RIP Meme. Gone but never forgotten.
Mafifi
- Sunday, May 19, 2013 at 9:23:23
Happy Flag day...I know how much your country meant to you. So much that you held of passing away on the 18th. Lol I miss you so much. I wish I can get a do over I'd love to go back to April 5th 2008.
Mafifi
- Saturday, May 18, 2013 at 18:6:49
I really miss you so much...you'd make everything better.
Mafifi
- Tuesday, January 29, 2013 at 0:2:11
Meme, sometimes it seems like asking God for forgiveness just isn't enough. I just cant anymore.
Mafifi
- Monday, January 14, 2013 at 13:13:57
Miss you so much. I really could use a hug from you
Mafifi
- Sunday, January 13, 2013 at 23:45:45
Happy New Year Meme...miss you so much
Mafifi
- Tuesday, January 1, 2013 at 0:28:25
Hi Meme, Thanksgiving Dinner was hosted at our house this year. I still cant get over you not being here. Our last Thanksgiving dinner with you was so sad...I wish we could do it over. Anyway, Im still waiting patiently; that's really hard to do. Love you and miss you much
Mafifi
- Tuesday, December 11, 2012 at 12:43:36
Hi Meme, its been a little crazy for me at home and work. wish you were here to talk with about it.
Mafifi
- Friday, November 9, 2012 at 17:33:12
Leve non mouin avek soley la.... thinking about you singing that song today. Im gonna start singing it every morning before i pray. I cant tell you how much I miss you. You were taken far too soon.
Mafifi
- Wednesday, October 24, 2012 at 13:1:17
Cant stop thinking about you...I miss you so much. Part of me wants this feeling to stop and another part of me is afraid that if it stops then I'll forget. Would love for you to visit me in my dreams tonight or any night this up coming week.
Mafifi
- Saturday, September 15, 2012 at 18:17:37
My condoleances to the Valme's family,from a old friend of the family.
Pastor Tony Danastor <adanastor1@yahoo.com>
willingboro , nj - Saturday, August 25, 2012 at 18:51:27
Miss you so much right now...
Mafifi
- Saturday, August 25, 2012 at 11:10:56
By the way Meme, Haiti was amazing!! Over 80 people were saved and this year was extremely well organized. Also, we celebrated our 3rd wedding anniversary I can not belive it's already 3 years. Seems like just yesterday we went to St. Lucia and had an amazing time!! Wish you were here for me to tell all this to in person.
Mafifi
- Wednesday, August 15, 2012 at 11:46:35
Hi Meme, AB is all grown up and still very funny. He's matured into a handsome, God fearing man. But he's a riot. You would be proud of him. As for me, I miss you something awful!
Mafifi
- Wednesday, August 15, 2012 at 11:31:45
hi meme its been a while how you been yea same here im good haiti was real fun food was not even to bad if it wasnt for GOD you would have seen me up there with you today lol but not yet ill be there some day but yea haiti was great and yeaa bye ^__^
abraham bertoni <abrahambertoni@yahoo.com>
brooklyn, - Tuesday, August 14, 2012 at 12:8:55
Happy Birthday Grandma!! Love you so much!!
Mafifi
- Monday, July 23, 2012 at 16:47:8
Hi Meme, The 3rd group of missionaries landed in Haiti....can you believe this year we have a group of 61!!! I know its so amazing. I will be leaving soon. I love you and I miss you so much!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Mafifi
- Monday, July 16, 2012 at 13:45:0
Hello my love...I leave for Haiti in a few days. This year close to 61 volunteers will travel to Leogane for missionary work. I wish you were here to see it all. You would be so happy.
Mafifi
- Wednesday, July 11, 2012 at 22:45:30
Happy Father's Day grandma.
Mafifi
- Sunday, June 17, 2012 at 20:44:46
I am (along with FVM) in the middle of 21 day fast. Today is day 15! No bouche pour parle. lol Love you meme
Mafifi
- Friday, June 15, 2012 at 15:10:3
just thinking about you
Mafifi
- Saturday, June 2, 2012 at 19:15:49
Chere mere:Mother Mother and Mother. Le temps est si long,les annees passent, pour moi c'etait comme maintenant. Mais helas tu es parti,tu n'es plus la a mes cotes" Que ton reste toujours en paix" Bebe Doc
Bebe Doc <myrlande11203@yahoo.com>
Bklyn NY, - Saturday, May 19, 2012 at 14:40:18
i have no words or emotions to say or describe how much i miss u daily!it's soooooo hard that u are no longer here in person but NOW i understand why God took our ROCK from us .yes alot has happen and yes we are learning the hardest lesson in life(living without you)and i know u would be soooo proud!But i would give anything just to .... ... ....!
tascha coeur
- Saturday, May 19, 2012 at 10:57:45
Missing you...still Meme, I can't believe it's already 4 years since you left, I miss you so much ...still. I am married now and we have a beautiful home, but I miss you so much ...still. He makes me smile and makes me laugh, but I miss you so much...still. I bury myself in personal and ministry work , since I miss you so much ...still. When he hugs me tight and doesn't let go, I miss you so much ...still. The void is there and will never be filled, that's because I'll miss you forever...still
Mafifi
- Saturday, May 19, 2012 at 10:10:17
Missing you...still Meme, I can't believe it's already 4 years since you left, I miss you so much ...still. I am married now and we have a beautiful home, but I miss you so much ...still. He makes me smile and makes me laugh, but I miss you so much...still. I bury myself in personal and ministry work , since I miss you so much ...still. When he hugs me tight and doesn't let go, I miss you so much ...still. The void is there and will never be filled, that's because I'll miss you forever...I will
Mafifi
- Saturday, May 19, 2012 at 10:8:40
I can't believe it's already 4 years...I miss you still. I find myself still asking why did you leave so soon, although now I don't ask as often. I am sorry to say, life continued without you...though I wish it did not. I can'twait to see you again... I love you...RIP.
Mafifi
- Saturday, May 19, 2012 at 9:43:12
Ala traka papa!
Mafifi
- Thursday, April 26, 2012 at 12:12:3
Meme... the gala was a huge success! I cant wish enough that you were here to enjoy. I love you so much!
Mafifi
- Tuesday, March 27, 2012 at 13:45:1
Hi Meme...I know you see it all. Please help!
Mafifi
- Sunday, March 18, 2012 at 22:44:26
By the way Meme...today is Frero's birthday.
Mafifi
- Tuesday, February 21, 2012 at 14:58:8
Hi Meme, You missed Sr. Margo's birthday on 2/17. She turned 85!!! Can you believe it??? And you ....you would have been 88 this July. We were so looking forward to your 90th birthday. Well, I was looking forward to your 90th birthday. I was gonna..well doesnt matter anymore. Just wanted to remind you of a birthday like I always do. Miss you much
Mafifi
- Tuesday, February 21, 2012 at 14:51:50
By the way Meme...I remember Mom passing away the day before the 40 days was scheduled to end..similiarly to today. I also remember you drying your eyes waking up bright and early Saturday 2/11/84 and concluding the 40days. "The Lord knew we were in the mist of a 40day when he decided to take Suze so I have to do what he called me to do". And with that said you went to the temple and praised God like I've never seen you praise him before! WOW God giveth and God taketh away...may his name be glorified.
Mafifi
- Friday, February 10, 2012 at 12:2:39
Hi grandma, Cant believe its been 28yrs since Mom passed away. She's with you now and having a great time. Please tell her we all miss her, tell her she has 12 grandchildren, tell her she would be proud of her kids (well some of her kid lol). Continue to RIP, see you soon...but not TOO soon. lol
Mafifi
- Friday, February 10, 2012 at 11:58:3
Hi Meme...just missing you that's all. I can still hear your voice but I am barely able to remember your scent. Alas So sorry
Mafifi
- Thursday, February 9, 2012 at 19:37:45
Hi Meme Cherie, You know it was my birthday on 1/11 and I was so hoping you would visit. Alas...Your 40days is doing GREAT!!! I cant continue to tell you how much I miss you
Mafifi
- Wednesday, January 18, 2012 at 18:1:40
Here we go again...please lord give me patience.
Mafifi
- Wednesday, December 28, 2011 at 15:51:5
Merry Christmas...
Mafifi
- Monday, December 26, 2011 at 14:16:15
By the way Meme, sometimes the pain in my chest is less but it hasnt gone away. I would be soooo excited to pick up your Xmas gift...alas
Mafifi
- Friday, December 23, 2011 at 14:10:26
Meme, Im missing you for the holidays :(
Mafifi
- Friday, December 23, 2011 at 14:6:2
Miss you so much...wish you were here to make everything better and brighter
Mafifi
- Sunday, November 20, 2011 at 14:45:54
MIss you
MafIfI
- Tuesday, November 15, 2011 at 18:30:56
Hi Meme, I have good news and not so good news. The good news is Woodley and I are getting baptized. The not so good news is I could get them to agree to do it on October 17t...just like your baptism date. Instead it's November 4th. But I am sure that you are happy anyway. You've always wanted this for me...and to do this along with my husband is priceless. Hope the big man up there allows you to peek down and look in on that day. Miss you too too much
Mafifi
- Friday, October 21, 2011 at 17:14:48
Gadé ki jan pou yon moun miss yon lòt ?
Mafifi
- Thursday, October 6, 2011 at 15:41:55
Hello Meme...can you believe that my stiff neck to 4 days to go away? I cant tell you how uncomfortable it was. Anyway, I am hanging in there. Today is Kiki's bday (the big 30) and yesterday was Gerry's bday; I dont know his age i think he's 30 also. Well, Suzy starting 1st Grade she's doing well and everyone else is managing. I really hate that life goes on without you. Miss you much. Love you more
Mafifi
- Friday, September 30, 2011 at 13:49:25
Hi meme, not feeling too well. I so wish you were here to make me better. Miss you mucho
Mafifi
- Thursday, September 22, 2011 at 10:28:32
By the way Meme...you know we celebrated our 2nd year anniversary right? I cant believe its already 2 years. We went to Jamaica and had a BLAST!!! Its really getting better. Thank you
Mafifi
- Thursday, September 15, 2011 at 17:48:30
Wow Meme...still can not believe that you are actually gone. Really Meme???? Dead?? I still feel that this is a reallllly bad dream that I will awaken from any minute now. But the minutes turn to hours and the hours turn to days and the days are turning into years. I am sad to say that i think I've forgotten your scent. I mean Im sure if you walked by me I would recognize it but I dont smell it in my head anymore. But your voice...OH BOY I dont think I can ever forget THAT voice. I can hear you calling out my name now. I really can not wait to see you. Misss you and love you much.
Mafifi
- Thursday, September 15, 2011 at 17:36:22
Wish you were here!
Mafifi
- Thursday, September 8, 2011 at 15:26:26
Can't tell you you how much I miss you.
mafIfI
- Sunday, September 4, 2011 at 9:32:51
Miss u
mafifi
- Tuesday, August 16, 2011 at 18:22:22
Wooosaaaaaaaaaa
Mafifi
- Thursday, July 7, 2011 at 22:20:26
Hi Meme. The countdown continues till Haiti. I am SOOOOOOOO excited! Cant tell you how much I long to kiss your face
Mafifi
- Friday, July 1, 2011 at 10:58:13
Hi Meme, I am just really missing you right now. I STILL cant believe that you are gone. Cant wait to see you.
Mafifi
- Monday, June 27, 2011 at 22:38:55
Meme one more day and I would have complete the 21 day fast! It wasnt easy in the begining but grew easier and the blessings are unbelieveable. I think I'll do another 21! lol Miss you meme
Mafifi
- Monday, June 20, 2011 at 19:28:55
Hi Meme 21 days going really well. But like many things in life...the road is rocky.
Mafifi
- Wednesday, June 8, 2011 at 5:6:34
Hi Meme 21 days going really well. But with many things in life...the road is rocky.
Mafifi
- Wednesday, June 8, 2011 at 5:5:43
Just thinking of you. Yesterday made it 3 yrs since we buried you...i remember it all as if it were yesterday.
Mafifi
- Thursday, May 26, 2011 at 7:7:9
Meme sometimes I swear this website was created just for me...lol But that's okay, it our forum! Love you to pieces!!!
Mafifi
- Thursday, May 19, 2011 at 9:45:4
Gone but never forgotten! Meme I CAN NOT believe it has been 3yrs already! I remember it as if it was just this morning. I miss you so much and I am doing my best to live the Christian life so I can see you soon. Because not seeing you again is NOT an option! RIP Meme
Mafifi
- Thursday, May 19, 2011 at 9:42:16
By the way Meme. This year's revival theme for the temple's anniversary is "If you believe" John 11 v.40 and I really do believe!
Mafifi
- Friday, April 29, 2011 at 15:25:14
Okay Meme, this is the highlight of my month!! Auntie Rhode was ORDAINED as an Evangelist last night. Pastor Obas was the guest preacher and he said he heard The Lord's voice telling him to ordain Rhode!!!!! I know you were ordained in June 1978 @ the age of 54...she was a little late. lol
Mafifi
- Friday, April 29, 2011 at 15:20:19
Hello Grandma. I am keeping myself busy with work and activities at the Temple. Things are foggy and I miss you terribly. I cant tell you enough how i miss you
Mafifi
- Wednesday, April 27, 2011 at 11:3:43
Meme, 3 years ago yesterday you went to the hospital and never returned home! The marks the begining of the end. I was so hurt and down yesterday that I could not breathe well. But then I read something that made me smile and feel warm inside. You would really be proud of what we are trying to accomplish for Haiti. I love you so much and I miss you!
Mafifi
- Thursday, April 7, 2011 at 9:25:15
Meme, the 2nd annual Fernande Valme Gala is going well. I am trying my best to get many officials to come and get the FVM name out there. I wish you were here to see all this..."gade Fernande" is probably what you'd say. I miss you soooo much. It really still hurts!
Mafifi
- Wednesday, March 2, 2011 at 14:52:47
Hi Meme...as YOU know yesterday was moms 27 year anniversary of Moms death. A las... I miss u.
Mafifi
- Friday, February 11, 2011 at 17:54:12
Just thinking of you...
Mafifi
- Friday, February 4, 2011 at 15:18:4
Hi Grandma, just want to tell you grandpa passed away on Friday.
Mafifi
- Monday, January 24, 2011 at 11:27:57
Actually Meme, I lied...If I were called to see you tomorrow, I am willing to go. Ready and willing. I cant wait to see you again. I know you and mother are just having a great time praising and sing with our Father. Love you
Mafifi
- Friday, January 14, 2011 at 12:0:14
Okay Meme, where do I begin? So much to tell you! 1. Fredy is now a Decon! We call Rodney (Deconson) and Kati (Decondaughter) they hate it but we love it! 2. Uncle Yonel’s bday was on 10/5 3. Tante Mireille & JnJn bday was on 11/16 4. My husband’s (hehe) bday was on 11/15 5. Thanksgiving was at Steve’s house in Georgia. We rented a Greyhound bus and all 28 of us went. It was sooooooo much fun!! Even Jaus Sane went. He had a blast 6. Benjamin’s birthday was 12/5 (he’s so big now you wont recognize him) 7. Christmas was amazzzzzing. We started a new tradition since you left….we now all go over to Tasha’s house (except this year Jaus Sane wanted to host) for Breakfast in our PAJAMAS!!! It was lot of fun. 8. New Years was very special! 9. The 40 days began “The Result of Divine Anointing” 10. MY BIRTHDAY WAS 1/11/11!!!!!!!!!!! I TURNED 42. Oh my gosh where did the time go. I still remember my Sweet 16 Birthday at the house. I feel like I’m in my late 20’s…and a lot of people think I am (THANKS FOR THE GREAT GENES) 11. AND FINALLY TODAY IS KATIANA’S BIRTHDAY. I can’t believe she’s already 19!!!! Do you believe it 19!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! WOW. Well I somewhat updated you, the other stuff you and I have already talked about. Miss you sooooo much and I love you more. I had no idea how much it would still hurt after all this time. RIP MEME. See you soon…but not too soon. lol
Mafifi
- Friday, January 14, 2011 at 11:56:29
Meme...we are back on board! Sorry for the delay. The system was down for a while and I couldnt post anything. I have sooooooooooo much to tell you
Mafifi
- Friday, January 14, 2011 at 11:24:42
I try my BEST to avoid this one word when I'm missing u BUT sometimes I just need to let it out b4 i go insane! WHY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
natascha coeur <tcoeur@optonline.net>
B'klyn, ny - Tuesday, September 28, 2010 at 22:43:32
Oh by the way Meme...today is Chico's birthday.
Mafifi
- Sunday, September 12, 2010 at 20:50:2
Meme, my mind is playing tricks on me again. I just picked up the phone to tell you something and as I dialed 434...I remembered you were gone. JESUS, when does it get easier!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Mafif
- Sunday, September 12, 2010 at 20:48:6
Meme...please help me and give me strength
mafifi
- Friday, September 3, 2010 at 19:49:38
Meme...please help me and give me strength
mafifi
- Friday, September 3, 2010 at 19:49:22
I miss you sooooo much Meme!
Mafifi
- Friday, August 13, 2010 at 15:46:3
Well Meme, I've been married for 1 year now. I cant believe how fast its going. I will never stop wishing you were here to witness it all.
Mafifi
- Sunday, August 1, 2010 at 3:18:58
Happy Birthday Meme...you would have been 86 today. I miss you more then you calculated.
Mafifi
- Friday, July 23, 2010 at 0:0:23
Happy Birthday Meme...you would have been 86 today. I miss you more then you calculated.
Mafifi
- Friday, July 23, 2010 at 0:0:8
Hi Meme... so much is new I dont know were to begin. First, Benjamin & Isabelle graduated from Elementary school, Zariya graduated from Junior High School, Kati & Natalie graduated from High School. ALOT of kids from the temple graduated this year! One kid did EXCEPTIONALLY well. He is now in a gifted program and received $5000 from the STate..and he credits the pencils that was prayed on and distributed before the first day of school. Well tomorrow is our 11 month anniversary. I cant believe we are already approaching a year! We have a "jeune" bus outing scheduled for 7/31/10. In the name of Jesus everything should go smoothly!!! We'll gotta go back to work now. Talk to you later
Mafifi
- Wednesday, June 30, 2010 at 10:55:8
Hi Meme... so much is new I dont know were to begin. First, Benjamin & Isabelle graduated from Elementary school, Zariya graduated from Junior High School, Kati & Natalie graduated from High School. ALOT of kids from the temple graduated this year! One kid did EXCEPTIONALLY well. He is now in a gifted program and received $5000 from the STate..and he credits the pencils that was prayed on and distributed before the first day of school. Well tomorrow is our 11 month anniversary. I cant believe we are already approaching a year! We have a "jeune" bus outing scheduled for 7/31/10. In the name of Jesus everything should go smoothly!!! We'll gotta go back to work now. Take to you later
Mafifi
- Wednesday, June 30, 2010 at 10:54:53
Hi Meme...Woodley is cleaning your backyard. A neigbor from the otherside of the fence asked for you..Woodley answered "she passed". It really hurts to hear those words even now.
Mafifi
- Saturday, June 19, 2010 at 14:2:58
Oh my gosh Meme...you were so full of life. Just remembering your walk, your smell and the way you dressed. So neat, clean and sharp. You had women of all ages admiring your clothing. I really miss you.
Mafifi
- Thursday, June 10, 2010 at 13:56:35
TOUGH TIME SLEEPING...MISS You.
Mafifi
- Wednesday, June 9, 2010 at 0:27:56
Okay Meme, here's what you would have wanted me to say instead...I just saw a woman who celebrated her 97th birthday yesterday. God Bless her and I am so thankful that the Lord allow me to share in the 83 years he granted you. Better right? Just so you know, Im sticking my tongue out at you right now.
Mafifi
- Friday, June 4, 2010 at 10:17:31
Okay Meme...I just saw a patient who celebrated her 97th birthday yesterday...97!!!!! Im trying not to ask why okay...Im reallllllly trying not to ask why. But for *@$%^?!!! sakes 97 years old. REALLY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Mafifi
- Friday, June 4, 2010 at 10:13:51
Hi grandmama. Acapulco was amazing. The country reminds me so much of Haiti...well at least what Haiti COULD be. Soon Meme, your Haiti Cherie will be. We had a very nice, relaxing time. Love you much. By the way, Happy Mother's Day
Mafifi
- Friday, June 4, 2010 at 9:35:1
...I meant ask him. Please ASK him to fix inside ASAP. They are really counting on it. Thanks
Mafifi
- Wednesday, May 26, 2010 at 10:11:59
Hi grandma... I had a dream or something like that about you last night. Sometimes its so real that I cant recall if its a dream or me remenincing about the old days. Anyway, it made me feel nice and warm inside. Miss you much. PS. Please tell him to fix inside ASAP. Thanks
Mafifi
- Wednesday, May 26, 2010 at 10:10:49
Everything I do is in honor of you...
Mafifi
- Wednesday, May 19, 2010 at 12:4:15
I remember her stealing cheesecake too. It was the first day she met Nick. I came in the house and she said to me so you in the car talking to a boy for two hours and you are not going to introduce him? All I thought to myself was why didn't Nick eat the sandwich at home, but no he wanted to stay outside meme's house and eat it there. ... See MoreTante Rode said well go get him. I walked so slowly to the door hoping he would have driven away by then. I had bought some french cheesecake for the fam and some low sodium low salt no sugar no flavor ginger cookies for grandma. Nick came in with his busted lip from playing flag football and he was so nervous. I knew the interrogation was coming. After the women of the family gave him the thrid degree Edmond asked where was meme? I turned and she was in the kitchen with the cheesecake in her mouth. I laughed so hard and she gave me that look like what your the idiot that left it unattended. So I took the box and took it into the living room. Before I could turn around she swiped another piece. We began fighting back and fourth and Nick was looking at us like we were the silliest family in the world. I am glad he saw her like that. I miss you but thank you for all that you left me with. If I said I don't suck my teeth at God every once in a while I would be lying but you already knew that. Let's dance just one more time. Fine I will keep my clothes on this time, I was lying again they will drop the way ..the way the always do.
Tanisha on FB
- Wednesday, May 19, 2010 at 12:2:19
Two yrs TODAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!I kept Suzlyn home today, I ask her do you rememder MEME she said Mommy Meme is SLEEPING! I told her yes today made Meme 2yrs since she's been asleep.The more I remember the more I MISS YOU!So much has happen and I didn't know how life would continue for me without you PHYSICALLY here!U would be so proud that your work has continued. Every breath that we take we rememeber you ,your walk ,your talk,the way you sat Oh my gosh this soooooooooooo...........................OK I love and miss so!
natascha coeur <tcoeur@optonline.net>
B'klyn, ny - Wednesday, May 19, 2010 at 11:27:7
No way to address this letter, Hidden is the truth, for you brought me light Bind by evil Potential hidden, cursed, tied Your light brought me to HIS, I come to you ashamed and hidden Unable to speak in your presence, Better because of HIM, known because of you Through your vision came a ministry, Touched around the world Languages spoken yet to be enumerated, Lives touched, infinite Taught by God you educated many, Your mission included saving lives, Like mineWith no education, Built families of doctors, lawyers, teachers, healed relationships Even when it meant leaving behind all that I knew, When things were meek, their backs turned When I needed help Kicked, battered, bruised, torn With one hand you reached for my hand to help me up With the other you handed me HIS WORD and a cloth A new beginning No time and space for yourself I am ashamed, head hung lowWith every look at that door Eleven hundred and twenty shards of glass pierce my skin Blood leaks from my heart I have fallen I need your hands Again I see the black in their eyes and the fire in their words They spit at me Like acid it rips through my skin I have fallen I have fallen For me you have fallen For me HE died I am ashamed, too ashamed to let you see what I have become Low are my eyes When they pass, pass right by the only place that embraced meScars and wounds they will never see Their backs are turned away I had nothing You gave me reason I have nothing He gave me purpose I am nothing I can not enter The white sheets You fasted with me for my prosperity to come HE shed HIS blood for my salvation My head is low My heart is heavy They don't know me I don't know HIM When you knew me You took me in Eleven hundred and twenty shards in my back They pierce my skin Tears burn as they roll down my cheeks I owe you everything I have given you nothing Days and nights 40 Your knees bled for me My tears I shed I am ashamed, I am ashamed I walk away I walk away No words to speak in this letter of silence I am ashamed so I walk away ....SignedOnce again Lost
Mafifi
- Wednesday, May 19, 2010 at 9:51:18
Though I try not to ask why; I still question “how come?” I miss you Meme…rest in peace
Mafifi
- Wednesday, May 19, 2010 at 9:43:24
I approach day 730 the same way I approached day 1. Afraid, upset, relieved and heartbroken. I would cry if you didn't take my tears with you. I want to tell you so much but I want to feel so little. We sang to you like the Queen you are to bid you farewell. They said goodbye, I whispered and smiled and said see you later; never wanting to let go. Never facing day 1 completely, I approach day 730. Funny they tell me everyday you never left, my heart grows cold because I did. I took my last breath of fresh air when you took yours. My lungs collapsed and my heart steadied, slowly and slowly until it stopped completely. I wash my hands with case law and legal jargon to help me forget. How can I forget, forget me? Forget we? What we had? I can still smell you when I close my eyes, never knew that was the reason it was so difficult to awaken. You had the cure for everything from a sore throat to a bad attitude. Funny you cured them both with a pinch and a smile. You took me with you when you left. Now all I can do is write and hope you read my letters. My silence roars so quietly. My song screams with no direction. Nothing has ever been so hard. I clothe myself in your smile, your warm welcome and bathe in your acceptance of everyone. I tried all that I could to remove this knot in my belly when I think of you but nothing works. I tried laughter, love, hate, angry, acceptance and rejection. My grief whispers and my silence scream. May 19th 2008 at 9:42am your body left, forever you will stay in this space I left in my heart where I saved your smile. RIP grandmaWritten by Tanisha R. Michel
Mafifi
- Wednesday, May 19, 2010 at 9:42:47
I remember that day as if it was just yesterday. I remember the call around 8am. I remembered the drive to pick up Tascha then the drive to the hospital. I remember the elevator ride with Kiki and the hug I gave him as he cried. I remember the maintenance guy saying “I’m sorry for your lost” before I even knew you were gone. I remember Tante Ketty sitting on the chair with the oxygen mask over her face. I remember Tante Merry sitting on the floor saying “you didn’t wait for me; today’s our day together”. I remember your sweet scent filling the room and that white sheet that covered your body reaching right under your neck. I remember all the nurses and doctors in the room and the EKG machine to the right. I remember the nurse pulling the curtain then opening it minutes later and official announcing you were gone. I remember members of the family coming in one at a time as the news got out. I remember Jean-Jean fainting and hitting the floor so hard I thought he was hurt. I remember the nurses coming in to pay their last respect. I remember the nurse asking me to leave so they can prepare to take you to the morgue. I remember that sharp pain I felt in my chest when I saw that tag on your toe. I remember begging them not to cover your face when they removed you from the room. I remember the family forming a line and saluting you as the nursing staff bought you out. I remember that nosy lady who must have recognized the family peaking through and Auntie Rhode saying “yes, she’s died Sr. Valmé is gone…go tell everyone. I remember laughing inside. I remember the family singing “Oh when the saints go marching in” as you came down the hallway and into the elevator. I remember hearing people ask “who was that” as you went by. I remember the entire family taking the elevator ride down & escorting you to the morgue. I remember everything as if it were just yesterday. That day repeats itself over and over again in my mind. Meme, we were all there with you till the very end; just as you were with us till the very end….I remember it all.
Mafifi
- Wednesday, May 19, 2010 at 9:42:7
Meme...just want you to see what has been written by you thus for on Facebook. All this in just 42minutesComment·Gabrielle Merveille and Abraham Massvie Xl like this.Abraham Massvie Xl I remeber those nights at home sleeping downstairs because I had work in the morning, and hearing you telling grandma no frero is sleeping, and she said she only wanted me to pick her up because Claudy was tired. Then I just waited til I heared it, FRERO on the intercom, and I rushed upstairs. Tht happened every night until she left for the hospital. I would do it 10 times over.
38 minutes ago via Facebook Mobile · Anita Ragsdale I remember the smile she gave me when I came to visit! That was her stamp of approval! She touched us all in her own way! Although I didn't understand her- her smile said it all! So today smile at someone you don't know and imagine the everlasting impact you just placed in there life! :0)
37 minutes ago · Abraham Massvie Xl I remember every day I would stop at the hospital when I was at work and come thru the er because I was ems and they would never say nothing to me. I remember our favorite nurse saying whts up baby brother because Claudya said yeah thts the baby he's getting married in July.
35 minutes ago via Facebook Mobile · Steve Coeur I remember hearing the last time she utters to me I Love You....
30 minutes ago · Claudya C. Verdiner LOL Frero...that's my big boy she would say. Fumny how she could say some English phrases with noooo problem. Anita..Wow. Thank you! I will do just that.
27 minutes ago · Abraham Massvie Xl I remember Steve calling every Sunday like clock work after church. I remember when we took her out the room and put her in her roocking chair and sat her by the window, she did not want to leave tht window
26 minutes ago via Facebook Mobile · Abraham Massvie Xl I remember Mafifi taking her on car rides for hrs and she did not want to go inside
26 minutes ago via Facebook Mobile · Claudya C. Verdiner I remember that too Steve...it took all the little strength she had. I remember her Sunday calls to you; funny how you guys grew closer when you moved further away. SMH
26 minutes ago · Abraham Massvie Xl I remeber her sneaking and taking a big chunk of the cheese cake and the look she had on her face when the Michel's modeled there pj's
24 minutes ago via Facebook Mobile · Steve Coeur I remember she used to ask claudya to go with her to get a Big Mac lol... are u for real meme lol..
23 minutes ago · Abraham Massvie Xl I remeber her last legume she made for the family
23 minutes ago via Facebook Mobile · Katiana Joseph I remember the times in the temple where I was soo tired & you would tell me cherie vin dormi and tap your lap or when I was little and you would save me when my mom was beating me & this day 2yrs ago when I got the call to go into the office in school to hear the news or that long ride up the elevator to pay my last respects I was soo shakin up cuz I jus couldn't believe what I was hearing could it be true and if it is WHY?????
20 minutes ago via Facebook Mobile · Claudya C. Verdiner Her stealing a piece of that cheesecake is one of my fondest moments. I cant believe how fast she ran. She said, "what I was looking for in the heavens I found on earth...wont you take it too if you were me?" I didnt even bother to check her sugar after that. If she could out run us...she deserved that cheesecake. lol
20 minutes ago · Claudya C. Verdiner She NEVER had a Big Mac without an Apple Pie. She had to have dessert...whats the point she'd say
18 minutes ago · Claudya C. Verdiner Kati- I remember the look on your face. You were in a daze; its as if you werent there. I was so afraid you were gonna collapse. But you held it together...thats the Capricorn in you.
16 minutes ago · Steve Coeur Its amazing how meme has so many children, grandchildren and great-grandchildren and was able to make each one of us feel special in her own way... Im sure everyone would say they were her favorite one... You would think she would bring each one of us aside and whisper, your my favorite.. when i see her, i saw purity, Sainthood and i will go as far as saying she was our Mother Theresa our Big Momma!!! I cant wait to reach in Heaven!!!!
16 minutes ago · Tania Cooper Well, Claudya I remember sitting in Cornell Medical College in the Urology Department and you telling me stories about your grandmother. I feel ya....
16 minutes ago · Claudya C. Verdiner Honestly, I think she did pull each of us aside and convince us that we were hear favorite. Nothing else explains how confident we were when we said "Im her favorite".
13 minutes ago · Marc Anthony I remember her asking to see me a month or so before she went to the hosptial. She asked me, pouchon when are u gonna cut your hair and I looked at her and said meme never...... She looked back at me and said u will..... What hurt most was that I had no clue of what was going on and no one informed me, but then again I blame myself cause she is ... See Morewhat home means to me!! The first step I've already taken for her.... Now my next step is coming back home to the foundation she set for us..... Love u meme!!!!
13 minutes ago · Claudya C. Verdiner Tania- I remember tell her of a problem you had and her praying for you. The next day you'd come in and tell me the good news before I even told you she prayed for you...prayer has NO distance you'd say.
11 minutes ago · Tania Cooper Yes, and I still need your prayers.
9 minutes ago · Steve Coeur I am just glad to be part of her genes and for that alone, I am truly blessed...
9 minutes ago · Claudya C. Verdiner Pouchon- I know she did that dance when you finally cut your hair. I could even hear her saying...I told you so
9 minutes ago · Anita Ragsdale To the entire family and friends - a family that prays together stays together! Continue to strengthen and encourage one another for mame name sake_ !speak life to every situation! Although she's not here she's smiling down on each and every one of you! :0)
6 minutes ago · Abraham Massvie Xl For the record I was her favorite, everybody know tht. I was tht only one well..... let me keep my secrets to myself. Let's just say pockets was fat lol
6 minutes ago via Facebook Mobile · Claudya C. Verdiner You got that right Steve. The blood of Royalty runs through my veins..our veins.
6 minutes ago · Steve Coeur Claudya we sholud've cloned her lol....
2 minutes ago · Claudya C. Verdiner LOL- Abe...hate to break it to you but she's done that no look pass, slip some dollars in your pockets or hands move to many! LMBO
2 minutes ago · Claudya C. Verdiner Steve we did! If you put us ALL together...we're her!about a minute ago ·

Mafifi
- Wednesday, May 19, 2010 at 9:26:52
"a la traka pour Fernande"... RIP
Mafifi
- Wednesday, May 19, 2010 at 0:10:28
On May 18th, 2008 at 9:42pm I had NO idea what was ahead in just 12 hours.
Mafifi
- Tuesday, May 18, 2010 at 21:42:7
Wish you were here, it feels like yesterday you were here. Miss you! Miss you! We all miss you!
Jean-Jean
Canada - Tuesday, May 18, 2010 at 0:17:4
Hi Meme...well here we go again! The count down begins. Two years ago today I had NO IDEA what was waiting for me/us in the up coming days...NO IDEA. I was probably still confident that GOD IS ABLE. Dont get me wrong Meme, I know he's still able; he just decided not to that particular time. So, here we go again.
Mafifi
- Monday, May 17, 2010 at 15:43:9
Happy Mother's Day Mom! Miss you.
Mafifi
- Sunday, May 9, 2010 at 0:0:4
...and the count down begins. Sunday is Mother's Day. I no longer have a mother to say thank you to. I remembered our last REAL Mother's Day together. Its was our final good bye to you. I had a GREAT time. I remembered as if it was yesterday.
Mafifi
- Friday, May 7, 2010 at 11:45:43
Miss you.
Mafifi
- Tuesday, May 4, 2010 at 20:19:22
Meme today is Tante Myrlande's Birthday...she misses you so. Wish you were here, wish you could have been there last night in service it was amazing!!
Mafifi
- Friday, April 30, 2010 at 10:51:12
April 29th, 2010Happy 38th Anniversary to FVM!!! Meme you worked hard...now rest in peace.
Mafifi
- Thursday, April 29, 2010 at 14:42:59
Hello Meme...its been a while. Last week we celebrated Tanisha's birthday. We gave her a little surprise party, although it wasnt much of a surprise (I know Nick told her). Anyway, FVM's 38th Anniversary revival began this week. Its been great. I am a little tired but its been great. I can recall when you were ill you still found the strenght to invite everyone you could to celebrate what the Lord has done for them. I still cant believe you were able to collect $3000 for the Temple's anniversary right from your bed. "Pa bleye fete L'eternel la" you would tell everyone. I watched and was amazed! This years theme is "The Tabernacle of Praise". How amazing is it for the Lord to consider the Temple a Tabernacle of Praise!!! I cant tell you enough how much I miss you. Continue to Rest In Peace. Love you
Mafifi
- Wednesday, April 28, 2010 at 9:49:44
Hey Grandma...today is Tanisha's bday as you know. She misses your pinches lol. You should give her one tonight...oh my gosh that would freak her out. Too funny. Miss you much and I love you more.
Mafifi
- Wednesday, April 21, 2010 at 14:43:28
What am I suppose to do when the best part of me was always you... and what am I suppose to say when Im down here and you're okay. Im falling to pieces! Miss you
Mafifi
- Tuesday, April 20, 2010 at 8:15:52
Who would have imagine that Im one month away from the 2yrs a since you've gone HOME! Sooooooo MUCH has happen and I feel.......................well u know .Thank u my ROCK for giving us such a strong foundation.I feel this SHARP pain every single time ,I try to keep myself distracted with Suzy but today and this MONTH it is stronger and I can't hold back.Just like you've help me take it one day @ a time pleas help me get through this month.I know it is selfish but if only we had 1,2,or the more months!I say that but I know it would never be ENOUGH and I would continue to ask for an extension!PLEASE visit me soon I need it.I try not to talk to Mafifi about u because she has it tough too .MY MEME je t'aime toujour et a jamais ta fille
natascha coeur <tcoeur@optonline.net>
B'klyn, ny - Monday, April 19, 2010 at 21:6:43
Well today's the 19th...next month this time.....
Mafifi
- Monday, April 19, 2010 at 13:25:6
Hi Meme. I am growing very frustrated. I am trying to stay patient but its getting harder and harder. I prayed to God for patience but alas...
Mafifi
- Wednesday, April 14, 2010 at 12:49:36
Hello Meme... I have to attend a funeral service tonight at Pastor Thomas' church. I cant tell you how hard its going to be for me especially how I've been feeling these days. I miss you soooo much that it hurts like a sharp stab!
Mafifi
- Friday, April 9, 2010 at 9:42:23
Hello Grandma,I am up and thinking of you. I just listened to one of your voice recordings. It was as if you were in the room with me.. I miss you sooooo much.
Mafifi
- Thursday, April 8, 2010 at 2:46:19
Hi grandma, tomorrow marks the begining of the end. It all started going down hill. Yesterday marked the day that Woodley and I went on our first date. Two days later you went into the hospital and never came home.
Mafifi
- Tuesday, April 6, 2010 at 16:4:59
Meme...Happy Easter! I miss you.
Mafifi
- Sunday, April 4, 2010 at 17:43:37
MEME i miss you how u doing up there i know you doing good tell jesus i said hi hey when are u coming back down i didnt see you in a long time when i get up there can i live next to you or can i live with you =) plzz when i get up there im going to cook for you i just learned how to make rice =) im going to cook for you when i get up there because you used to cook some great food oh how i miss your food so well this is go buy i dont want to take up alot of space MEME if i can can u find out the angel that protects NY plzz and thank you well as u know we are in the last days so ill see u very soon i dont think thats fair that i wont be able to see my kids but its whatever lol speak to god for me..lol i loveeeee youuuuu
Abraham Beroni <abrahambertoni@yahoo.com>
brooklyn, america - Saturday, April 3, 2010 at 10:51:28
MEME i miss you how u doing up there i know you doing good tell jesus i said hi hey when are u coming back down i didnt see you in a long time when i get up there can i live next to you or can i live with you =) plzz when i get up there im going to cook for you i just learned how to make rice =) im going to cook for you when i get up there because you used to cook some great food oh how i miss your food so well this is go buy i dont want to take up alot of space MEME if i can can u find out the angel that protects NY plzz and thank you well as u know we are in the last days so ill see u very soon i dont think thats fair that i wont be able to see my kiss but its whatever lol speak to god for me..lol i loveeeee youuuuu
Abraham Beroni <abrahambertoni@yahoo.com>
brooklyn, america - Saturday, April 3, 2010 at 10:50:47
I miss you sooooo much that its painful. I miss your smell your voice, your hands and ugly feet (lol). I miss how you always crossed your legs not to be fancy but because " se youn kap support lot la". I miss how you combed your hair, I miss how you hate being late. Today is Tuesday, and there's service at the temple, and although its pouring rain outside you would have been at the temple by 6:30am because...."moin ge youn rendevor avec bon dieu". I loved it! I miss you Mama cherie! I really do....Mafifi
Mafifi
- Tuesday, March 30, 2010 at 9:16:13
Hi Meme... Today was a good day. We visited 2 churches and received very warm responses. God is Good!
Mafifi
- Sunday, March 21, 2010 at 21:31:8
Wow grandma..it was 32 yrs ago today that I became a young woman.WOW THAT's A LONG TIME!! Lol
Mafifii
- Wednesday, March 17, 2010 at 7:17:29
Hey Grandma...you can and one more great grandchild to the list.That makes 25 great grandkids..I guess. You know I really stopped counting after you left.
Mafifi
- Tuesday, March 16, 2010 at 21:14:37
Oh by the way, Saturday's storm was a doozer. Our neighbor had this huge tree fall across his entire lawn blocking the entrance to his house. I thank the Lord for sparing our home.
Mafifi
- Tuesday, March 16, 2010 at 13:47:11
Gosh Meme, I miss you so much! This woman just left my center she's 94!!! 94, grandma!!!!! Why not you!!!!!!!!!!!I tell myself that the "Heavenly Executive Board" has a major project underway and they need all the "heavy weights" on board. I tell myself that...but myself doesnt believe me.
Mafifi
- Tuesday, March 16, 2010 at 13:45:14
Hi Meme...missing you alot right now. Which Woodley ha the chance to know you, hug you and spoil you
Mafiifi
- Thursday, March 11, 2010 at 23:44:8
Wooooosaaaaaaaaaa.....Or as you use to say, weechoo, weechoo
Mafifi
- Wednesday, March 10, 2010 at 13:56:9
Hello Grandma, I dreamt of you last night and you were dancing. I bet it a consistent party up there huh? Hey, we could have parties down here too. Which you were around to do so. Anyway, This morning a patient walked into the clinic and starting sing creole song...Roule rouche-la seigneur. Then she approached me and asked what church I attended because I looked familiar. I told her I dont belong to any particular church. Then she said, but I've seen you somewhere before. I said maybe this clinic, but I kinda knew where she was going with it. Finally, I told her I was your granddaughter...she almost past out. OH MY GOSH, Im so blessed to know you and touch you...really ME. I guess, its blessing by association....ha ha. Love you meme
Mafifi
- Tuesday, March 9, 2010 at 10:23:15
Meme..meeting went well last night. Today is a beautiful day...Spring is in the air. I almost lost you this day 2 yeaars ago...you came home ut it was for the last time.....because 2months and 13 days later I lost you for good! Still missing you
Mafifi
- Sunday, March 7, 2010 at 11:56:38
Hey meme...went on a date with my husband last night. Had a very nice time.
Mafifi
- Saturday, March 6, 2010 at 14:26:10
Good morning mama cherie...
Mafifi
- Thursday, March 4, 2010 at 7:55:42
Patiently waiting until I give up
Mafifi
- Wednesday, March 3, 2010 at 11:11:47
Good morning my love...hope youre enjoying your time up there. Wish you we with me down here
Mafifi
- Tuesday, March 2, 2010 at 9:12:9
Good morning Grandma..well it's 7months today...time really does fly
Mafifi
- Monday, March 1, 2010 at 11:26:13
Good morning Grandma..well it's 7months today...time really does fly
Mafifi
- Monday, March 1, 2010 at 10:20:6
Meme, today ur grandson Frero and ur grandson Woodley are making you proud!
Mafifi
- Sunday, February 28, 2010 at 11:44:46
Good morning meme...I need your help and intervention. Please plead my case for me
Mafifi
- Saturday, February 27, 2010 at 9:54:20
Meme the snow is RIDICULOUS!!! But yet and still, I am happy to shovel snow from in front of "our home". I thank God, everyday for giving us a BEAUTIFUL house. You living next door is the only thing that's missing!
Mafifi
- Friday, February 26, 2010 at 10:48:31
Mama cherie...miss ou anpil, anpil anpil. Plus chak jour.
Mafifi
- Thursday, February 25, 2010 at 10:5:29
Hello Grandma! Just took advantage of a free promotion and changed my phone. So now I can go online anytime and anywhere I please....you should be hearing from me alot more often now. Thanks.
Mafifi
- Tuesday, February 23, 2010 at 16:15:11
Good morning, Meme....after shocks continue.
Mafifi
- Monday, February 22, 2010 at 11:49:32
Waiting patiently... miss you so much it hurts. I still cant believe you're gone; the pain is alot!
Mafifi
- Friday, February 19, 2010 at 10:26:30
Good Morning Meme...today's a very cold & icy day, but its a Wednesday and so you would have been home from the Temple. I dont know if I told you this but I really hate looking out my window and knowing your house is NOT occupied by you! I really hate it. Oh by the way, today is Sr. Margo's birthday! I love that woman so much...I can't even tell you. Well, gotta go back to work now. Love you more!!!
Mafifi
- Wednesday, February 17, 2010 at 8:41:30
Hello Meme...Home computer is not working so I have to write from work. The last day of the 40days was amazing. I got home around 10pm! There were sooooo many peole there it was unbelievable. Woodley was there until 7:30pm. He enjoyed himself. Well, gotta go back to work now. Love you
Mafifi
- Tuesday, February 16, 2010 at 11:12:36
One more day to go meme....40days is almost over! And again, you'd be proud of your daughter. She did well. Maybe that fall she took on her head helped her after all...lol. Miss you much.
Mafifi
- Friday, February 12, 2010 at 10:34:22
BTW- Meme...how did you do it? How did you continue with the 40 days while your child lay in the morgue? 40 days will be over this Saturday; it seems to go by so fast now that Im older. When I was younger it seemed to take forever! You would really enjoy the 40 days if you were still around. The amount of people who attend each night is unbelievable. Last night there were so many people for a Tuesday and the 24hours was AMAZING! Inside the temple was completely packed for the entire duration of the 24hours, outside was full, inside the day care was full we even had a few people downstairs...guess what...I think we're gonna need a bigger house of prayer if this continues. Oh and by the way, the amount of YOUNG who attends is AMAZING!! You would be proud. Well, gotta go back to work now.
Mafifi
- Wednesday, February 10, 2010 at 12:44:48
Hello Meme...cant believe its been 26 years since my mother passed away. I feel sad and sorry that she's gone but I was so young. I'm almost embarassed to say that the pain of losing you is far greater. I still cry for YOU! Please ask my mom to understand and forgive me for feeling this way. Take care of each other and continue to RIP.
Mafifi
- Wednesday, February 10, 2010 at 12:31:29
Hello Grandma...I had a dream about you the other day but I didnt remember the dream. I just remembered speaking with you and I can remember the warm feeling of closeness. Well, it was nice anyway. Oh by the way Meme....Monday we celebrated our 6 month anniversary. I texted everyone and drove them crazy. I cant believe its been six months already. We reminiced about our wedding day but mostly gave thanks to God for bringing us together and for everything he has given us. Gotta go now Meme....talk to you later. Love you
Mafifi
- Wednesday, February 3, 2010 at 10:24:37
For the very very first time since 5/19/08, I am happy that you went home. If you were alive today to see what Haiti is going through...knowing you, it would kill you. Watching you suffer wasnt easy but at times I was able to give you tyneol or something but this type of suffering I would not be able to control and watch. Rest in Peace Grandma....Im glad you are sleeping through this entire disaster! I still miss you terrible though.......
Mafifi
- Tuesday, January 26, 2010 at 16:53:19
Meme...I am so glad your not here to see what's happened to your country...our country. I have some bad news that I cant bring myself to say.
Mafifi
- Friday, January 22, 2010 at 10:22:48
Meme...another earthquake hit Haiti...6.1 JEZU!!! ENOUGH!!!!!!!!!
Mafifi
- Wednesday, January 20, 2010 at 12:26:3
I was devastated to hear the passing of a mighty woman of God; who help me a lot with my walk in Christ. I will always be grateful to her ministry, her dedication to the calling of God. This is where I learned to Pray, Fast , Giving and her prophecy over my life. I will always be grateful. My prayer goes to her families and I love you guys..hopefully God will release me as a result I can one day visit. As always be bless. For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says the Lord, thoughts of peace and not of evil, to give you a future and a hope. Jeremiah 29:11.GOD BLESS.
Yolene Lorient <ylorient@tampabay.rr.com>
Tampa, Florida, USA - Saturday, January 16, 2010 at 22:39:58
I was devastated to hear the passing of a mighty woman of God; who help me a lot with my walk in Christ. I will always be grateful to her ministry, her dedication to the calling of God. This is where I learned to Pray, Fast , Giving and her prophecy over my life. I will always be grateful. My prayer goes to her families and I love you guys..hopefully God will release me as a result I can one day visit. As always be bless. For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says the Lord, thoughts of peace and not of evil, to give you a future and a hope. Jeremiah 29:11.GOD BLESS.
Yolene Lorient <yllorient@tampabay.rr.com>
Tampa, Florida, USA - Saturday, January 16, 2010 at 22:38:47
Meme....dire Bon Dieu pitié pour Haïti.
Mafifi
- Wednesday, January 13, 2010 at 9:51:28
Hey Grandma....Happy Birthday to me!
Mafifi
- Monday, January 11, 2010 at 14:10:48
Hi grandma. January 1st, 2010 wasnt what I expected so lets just move on... I went to service that night. I think I already mentioned the theme to you but just in case, its "The Power of Prayer". I think you'd be very happy to know that I went to church on the first Sunday of the year. I remembered you going to church on Easter Sunday, in pain and everything. My heart was ripping out because you were in so much pain. And as you sat there waiting for Sonny to pick you up you said to God.."you see, I am going to church because you've done too much for me for me not to go". You then asked him to "sauve" your family and the ministry and to help you become a better Christian. I tell you boy, you were some lady. I would have watched a service on TV and called it George! Well, anyway, the pastor preached on the "Power of Prayer". Im told that Pastor Thomas preached on the same theme...pretty scary uh! Well, I gotta go now my lunch break is almost over. Oh, I dreamt of you last night. Woodley woke me up because he said I was crying in my sleep. I dont really remember the dream, I just remember saying I miss you over and over again. I really do miss you. Love you. Talk to you later.P.S. Junie...I cooked Black Rice on Sunday. Im told it came out pretty good!!
Mafifi
- Tuesday, January 5, 2010 at 15:26:2
Hello Meme...Well there's just about 8 hours and 20 minutes left of this year. Wish you were here!
Mafifi
- Thursday, December 31, 2009 at 15:40:59
Good morning Meme...well there's just 2 days left in the year. And as we usually do it...today starts the countdown to cleaning, fixing, rearranging etc before the January 1st, 12am mark. Since our home is practically new there's not much fixing and rearranging to do. But I am feeling the pressure to purchase new sheets and new PJs like we did in the past even though funds are tight. I do have the chandeliers to clean and parts of some doors that were scraped that Woodley will need to paint over. But other then that we're ready for The New Year. By the way, we had to change traditions a bit. The family will now meet at Tante Myrlande's house for soup...Im sorry.
Mafifi
- Wednesday, December 30, 2009 at 10:27:25
Good morning meme...Christmas was not the same without you.
Mafifi
- Tuesday, December 29, 2009 at 9:53:40
Merry Christmas Meme!
Mafifi
- Saturday, December 26, 2009 at 13:25:16
Meme...Im not ungrateful! I am thankful that this year I'm not spending Christmas alone but with my husband in our new house. I just wish you were next door...that's all.
Mafifi
- Thursday, December 24, 2009 at 11:8:34
Oh by the way, The theme for this years 40 days is "The Power of Prayer". Something tells me the congregation will be praying alot and not asking alot like they might think.
Mafifi
- Thursday, December 24, 2009 at 11:5:13
Hi Meme...just one more day till Christmas. I cried on my way to work this morning. I thought of you and the last Christmas we spent together. Remember...we were snowed in and Tanisha spent the night. She made you laugh so much. She's such a bad girl. Meme, I miss you so much that at times I feel as if Im having a heart attack. The pain in my chest is so unbearable. I usually find myself holding my chest and I have to start singing or something just to forget. Miss you much!
Mafifi
- Thursday, December 24, 2009 at 11:3:3
Hi Meme... Just 3 more days till Christmas and 14 more days till my birthday. You resurrecting would be the BEST Birthday present EVER!!!!! I would never ask for another gift for the rest of my life!!!!!!!! So, can you see what you can do about that....please. I'd really appreciate it. Thanks! Love you, Love you, Love you!!!
Mafifi
- Tuesday, December 22, 2009 at 15:35:55
Good Morning Meme...well Christmas is almost here and you are not. I miss the drives that we took around the neighborhood judging the decorations. I must say this year there isnt must to judge because the neighbors just didnt decorate their homes like the old day...I guess the recession is really affecting everyone. Having said that, I think our house would take first prize. Its simply and very classy. I purchased our christmas tree on Friday and I guess I should be excited because it's our first christmas as husband and wife but its just not the same....DARN GRANDMA!!! This was NOT how the story was suppose to end!!!
Mafifi
- Monday, December 21, 2009 at 12:20:42
Hi Meme..."no bouche pou pale".Miss you much
Mafifi
- Friday, December 18, 2009 at 12:2:47
By the way, I talk to your picture often. Not often like, I need pyschiatric help or anything like that but often enough. If I accidently hit the picture, I say... "sorry Meme", I say good morning or good afternoon depending on the time I walk by it. Its therapeutic for me. Im not scared by it and of course I dont expect you to respond and believe you me, I love you and all but the day you respond I will rebuke you in the name of Jesus! LOL. It just keeps me sane thats all. The 40 days is about to start soon that's the 2nd 40 days without you. I miss you Meme. I miss you a whole lot.
Mafifi
- Monday, December 7, 2009 at 14:24:13
Hi grandma...yesterday I asked Nennen to teach me how to make black rice guess what your smart mouth daughter told me....she told me to go post it on your website and ask you how to make it. Now we both know you can't respond and she does too; but as usual she's being smart and making fun of me writting on your website as often as I do. Meme, I know you dont want to admit it but I KNOW NENNEN FELL AND HIT HER HEAD AS A BABY...that's the only thing that explains everything. But seriously, she's doing a good job with service; and she's sounding more and more like you everyday. The other day she asked me when am I going to start to go to church...ha, ha, ha. It's not just what she said, but its how she said it. Oh boy, it was too funny you just had to be there.
Mafifi
- Monday, December 7, 2009 at 14:15:15
Hello Meme Today I experience something that was OVERWHELMING! I was thinking about you and I remebered something that made me laughed! So without any hestiation I pick up the phone and dial a number to call YOU when the phone started ringing I then snap out of it and said to myself what are u doing I had to leave my desk and go to the bathroom to get myself together!If only you knew how your absence would affect us.................You KNEW that's why you did NOT want to LEAVE US! I MISS YOU and LOVE YOU!
natascha coeur <tcoeur@optonline.net>
B'klyn, ny - Wednesday, December 2, 2009 at 20:28:32
Hello Meme Today I experience something that was OVERWHELMING! I was thinking about you and I remebered something that made me laughed! So without any hestiation I pick up the phone and dial a number to call YOU when the phone started ringing I then snap out of it and said to myself what are u doing I had to leave my desk and go to the bathroom to get myself together!If only you knew how your absence would affect us.................You KNEW that's why you did NOT want to LEAVE US! I MISS YOU and LOVE YOU!
natascha coeur <tcoeur@optonline.net>
B'klyn, ny - Wednesday, December 2, 2009 at 20:28:21
Hello Meme Today I experience something that was OVERWHELMING! I was thinking about you and I remebered something that made me laughed! So without any hestiation I pick up the phone and dial a number to call YOU when the phone started ringing I then snap out of it and said to myself what are u doing I had to leave my desk and go to the bathroom to get myself together!If only you knew how your absence would affect us.................You KNEW that's why you did NOT want to LEAVE US! I MISS YOU and LOVE YOU!
natascha coeur <tcoeur@optonline.net>
B'klyn, ny - Wednesday, December 2, 2009 at 20:28:9
Hello Meme... Thanksgiving dinner was nice. It wasnt great, but then again I dont think it will ever be great again now that you are gone. I must say, I was very thankful to have my HUSBAND sitting besides me. Last year he joined us for dinner as my boyfriend and this year he comes as my HUSBAND. I do love the feeling. Miss you more and more each day. I LOVE YOU!
Mafifi
- Tuesday, December 1, 2009 at 14:24:1
Hello Meme....its hard work!
Mafifi
- Tuesday, November 24, 2009 at 13:51:56
Meme YOUR DREAM became our REALITY our eyes has seen the GLORY of GOD! I am speechless! BRAVO! BRAVO! BRAVO! You will always live not only in ME but ALL over HAITI!I'm PROUD to be part of all that has happen and what will happen. EVERY INCH OF MY BODY AND SOUL MISS MY MEME! I LOVE YOU.
natascha coeur <tcoeur@optonline.net>
B'klyn, ny - Sunday, November 22, 2009 at 11:48:50
Hi Grandma, we'll Im back in New York now. The school is AMAZZZZZZZZZZZZZING! I cried when I saw all those kids walking into the school for the first time. It was beautiful. And you can see the school on top of the mountain when you first enter Leogane or when you are leaving Jacmel. Its an amazing site. The name FERNANDE VALME MINISTIRES is mounted in big red letters just like the Hollywood sign. I so wish you were there to see it.
Mafifi
- Saturday, November 21, 2009 at 21:4:1
I pretend that I'm glad you went away and I tell everyone "she's no longer in pain" but I'm dying inside and nobody knows it but me. Like a clown I put on a show the pain is real even if nobody knows and I'm crying inside, and nobody knows it but me. I carry a smile when I'm broken in two, I'm nobody without someone like you. I'm trembling inside and nobody knows it but me. I lie awake, it's a quarter past three I'd scream out at night if I thought you'd hear me. My heart is calling you and nobody knows it but me. Billion words just cant say how I feel and a million years from now you know I'll be missing you still....
Mafifi
- Thursday, November 12, 2009 at 15:34:3
Hi Meme...I just met a Haitian patient at my clinic...she's 94 years old. She walks without a cane, she speaks in complete sentences, she insist on bathing herself, she told me she packs her own luggage when she travels to Haiti and her hair is COMPLETELY grey! She even wore a dress similar to the pleated blue and yellow dress you have that I love so much. Why couldnt that be you? Her daughter was right beside her, just as I was beside you. The daughter was so proud of her because everyone crowded around to look. Just as they did with you and me. Everyone wanted to touch you and hug you and wanted you as their grandmother. I was so proud that you were mine. I am trying to hold back the tears while at work. I miss you so damn much!!!
Mafifi
- Wednesday, November 11, 2009 at 11:53:15
Meme, my mind was playing tricks on me today. I catch myself saying I havent spoken to you all day...then I picked up the phone to call.
Mafifi
- Monday, November 9, 2009 at 17:27:40
Just missing you...
Mafifi
- Friday, November 6, 2009 at 15:32:56
Well Grandma... you almost have the entire old gang with you now. I know that you are meeting her at the gates of heaven. I just need for you to please ask your father to hold off calling Papi Ford. I love him so much. Well, gotta go...have a blast up there. Love you
Mafifi
- Thursday, October 29, 2009 at 21:0:2
I believe...in the name of Jesus.
Mafifi
- Wednesday, October 28, 2009 at 11:16:54
Good morning Meme. I laid in bed last night and watched the reflection from the light in your TV room. Its really hard seeing the lights at your house lite when I know that youre not home...this was not the plan. I was to be at my house with my husband and you were suppose to be next door with Vio. We had our monitors set up, so you could just talk to me without picking up the phone. We had plans to look out the window and speak with one another. We joked about my husband ringing your bell and coming to get me from your house. Meme, you would have really loved Woodley. I think you would have spoiled him just as much as he would have spoiled you. He really loves the family especially Tante Rhode and Tante Ketty, Kati, Jonathan and Benjamin. He adores Suzy and cant stop teasing Tascha. He loves his brother in laws and has a nickname for EVERYONE in the family. There's Kenny Rogers and Minouch (lol), Bee, little Bee, twin Bee and Sister Bee. Dont ask...long story. He looks up to Pastor Bob and Jaus Saine and knows to bend over backwards for Sr. Margo. Wow...just 15 more months and you would have been able to see EVERYTHING you were waiting for...15 more months. Alas
Mafifi
- Wednesday, October 28, 2009 at 11:5:57
Hello Grandma,I want you to know that I did not forget about the 17th. It would have been the 66th anniversary of your baptism. I KNOW how important that day was to you. You preferred celebrating it over your own birthday. I am so glad we had a chance to celebrate your 65th anniversary...cake, wine, food, ballons you had the works. I am so sorry that you are not with us. I wish there was more I could have done to keep you here. At times I get upset at myself for the times I wasted. Time which could have been spent with you. I lie to myself when I say, I refused you nothing. I refused your request to move back home after moving out. I promised you that you would not even notice that I was gone and I would do my best to give you everything and do anything for you. I kept my word and came whenever you called. Be it 2 in the afternoon or 12 midnight with milk. I moved back home some 7yrs later but oh boy the time that I lost. At times, I lay awake at night wondering how often you wanted or needed something and DIDNT call me. So you see, I did refuse you and for that I am truly sorry. I said once, that I had no regrets and I gave you my all but I lied...I have that one regret. And that shall be my cross to carry.
Mafifi
- Wednesday, October 21, 2009 at 13:13:4
Hello Meme...I think you'd be very happy to know that you now have 22 great grandkids! Jean-Jean and Gabby had a baby girl!With 14 grandchildren yet to bear children you may reach 50 plus great grandkids!!
Mafifi
- Friday, October 16, 2009 at 10:26:56
Meme Kiki passed his RT exam! He is now a licensed Radiology Technologist. I am so proud of him...I cried. I wish you were here to witness all these things. Its really not fair that life goes on without you! By the way, I gave him the graduation present you had for him.. I knew you would have wanted him to have it. Love you Meme
Mafifi
- Wednesday, October 7, 2009 at 10:27:5
Hi Meme...well I dont have to tell you all which has occurred in the last 2 1/2 weeks. I am and emotional wreck! I grow very sad each monday....today is no exception. Well, maybe next time. I miss you much..I know your taking care of her up there. Talk to you soon. I love you
Mafifi
- Monday, October 5, 2009 at 14:14:58
HI MEME HOW YOU DOING GOOD GOOD AND YOUR SELF I KNOW I DID NOT WRITE IN A LONG TIME SORRY ABOUT THAT BUT ANYWAYS I SEE YOU DOING GOOD UP THERE SO ILL LEAVE YOU SEE YOU VERY SOON ILL BE UP THERE AND TELL GOD I WANT A POOL IN THE BACK OF MY HOUSE PLEASE AND THANK YOU...I LOVE YOU REALLY REALLY MISS YOU... WELL THIS IS GOOD BYE FOR NOW TODAY IS THE 20 THANK GOD TOMORROW IS THE LAST DAY THEN I WILL EAT..LOL I HAVE BEEN WAITING FOR THIS DAY SINCE THE FIRST DAY BUT ANYWAY BYE LOVE PEACE CHICKEN GREASE..LOL
Abraham Bertoni <abrahambertoni@yahoo.com>
brooklyn, United States - Sunday, September 20, 2009 at 20:44:38
Meme..I didnt forget about Sept 18th... TRUST ME. Its just I was going through alot these last few days. And again today is the 19th. Meme, I dislike the 19th of EVERY Month. This week was very difficult for me...I hope next week, next month is better. Miss you and I cant wait to see you again...but not quite yet
Mafifi
- Saturday, September 19, 2009 at 23:18:0
Meme, as you always say...God knows best and he does as he please. I learned and continue to learn this the hard way. But Meme, I try very hard not to ask him why. Doesnt mean I havent...just means I dont as often as you know I could. She's in your arms now...take care of her.
Mafifi
- Saturday, September 19, 2009 at 23:14:8
I miss you, I wish you were here. Im at a crossroad and I could use some help. Love you!JJ
Jean-Jean
- Friday, September 18, 2009 at 2:5:10
Meme...Im preparing for the worst....hoping for the best.
Mafifi
- Thursday, September 17, 2009 at 14:8:3
Meme...God is good, and he's good all the time.
Mafifi
- Thursday, September 17, 2009 at 12:21:22
Hi Grandma, just finding it a little tough to fall asleep. Miss our 5am bathroom trips.
Mafifi
- Tuesday, September 15, 2009 at 5:32:37
Good morning meme. I have a stift neck which is going on its 3rd day now. Thank goodness it allows me some motion, about 45 degree or so. I wish you were here to rub it or just simply touch it with your blessed hands. I cant tell you how much I miss you. Tante Mireille and Bobby stopped by our house last night. Let me tell you, your daughter is soooo funny. She prayed for us and you know how her prays go... first she starts of serious then she starts casting everyone and everything who tried to harm her family then she gets realllly silly. I laughed so much last night. I miss you meme...I miss you soooo much. Just 16months....I wish you could have held on for just 16 more months. There's so much you would have seen that would have made you very happy.
Mafifi
- Friday, September 11, 2009 at 9:57:19
Hi Meme....I dreamt of you last night and you spoke to me and we danced!!!!!!!! Wow...9 months after the first dream you visited me again. You really have to do this more often. Maybe once a month. And by the way your visit was just too short. Please ask for permission to stay longer next time. I love you so much. Great seeing you again.
Mafifi
- Thursday, September 10, 2009 at 7:58:49
Hello my love,Just thinking about you and wanted to let you know just how much!
Mafifi
- Tuesday, September 8, 2009 at 13:2:34
Hello my love,Just thinking about you and wanted to let you know just how much!
Mafifi
- Tuesday, September 8, 2009 at 13:2:28
Hello my love,Just thinking about you and wanted to let you know just how much!
Mafifi
- Tuesday, September 8, 2009 at 13:1:43
Good morning Meme,Not starting the day off right. I came across some apple sauce in the cabinet at work and I broke down crying. I can not begin to tell you how much I miss you. I really believe you had an idea on now difficult it would be that why you hung on for so long.
Mafifi
- Thursday, September 3, 2009 at 11:48:11
Meme....you didnt visit last night!!! Im really upset with you. I hope you see everything, hope you see things I cant speak about. I wish you were here to help. I have to cook again tonight and Im very diappointed about that. That wasnt our plan. I moved next door to you so I wont have to deal with that; remember you were gonna spoil my husband. Well alas, I would give anything to have you for one more day. I need to hug you right now.
Mafifi
- Wednesday, September 2, 2009 at 9:37:40
Hi again Meme...well I've been married for a MONTH now! Wow, I cant believe it. It was just yesterday I was going over seating arrangements and now Ive been married for a month. So, much has happened, I have so much to tell you. I wish you would visit me so we could talk. Never too early....hope to see you tonight. I love you so much Meme!
Mafifi
- Tuesday, September 1, 2009 at 11:53:37
Hello Grandma, I wish you were around to talk to and to share things with. I also, miss your la-bou-ye banana. Woodley, made some for me last night and meme....he wont include the skin of the plantain like did. I wish you were here to make it for me just the way I like it. I love you so much.
Mafifi
- Monday, August 31, 2009 at 21:14:21
Hello Meme, i wish you were here for me to touch and talk with.
Mafifi
- Sunday, August 30, 2009 at 20:34:27
Hi grandma, I really wish you were here right now for me. I really need you. Please help me.
Mafifi
- Friday, August 28, 2009 at 20:23:39
Hi Meme,Today I saw this beautiful elderly woman, not as beautiful as you of course, she had beautiful grey hair and she was dressed like a respectable, gracious elderly woman should dress. I stared and stared at her as she crossed the street with a younger woman. I thought of you and I together. I still cant get over the fact that youre gone. Meme, when you look down at me, are you at all sad that you left me? Do you miss me? Or are you having so much fun and so happy that you dont even think about me? Please visit me in my dreams soon. I long to see your face, stand beside you and smell your scent. Please visit soon...tonight would be great! I love you
Mafifi
- Monday, August 24, 2009 at 23:41:59
Good Morning Meme. I was looking at our wedding pictures...again and I couldnt help but becoming overwhelmed with grief at the fact that you were not there. I will try to have my photographer crop you into a picture or two but its not the same thing. I am very happy for what God has done for me but ohhhh boy what a trade off! I miss you to no end!
Mafifi
- Thursday, August 20, 2009 at 9:22:19
Hello Meme,Married life is great. I wish you were here so I can talk too.
Mafifi
- Tuesday, August 18, 2009 at 22:21:27
Meme...Im a married woman now!
Mafifi
- Thursday, August 13, 2009 at 10:55:40
Meme, Im having a great time on my honeymoon. WOW, I never thought I would say that! Our honeymoon suite is GORGEOUS! They had champagne and strawberries waiting for us in our room. Well Meme....I am a married woman now!!! Mrs. Woodley Verdiner! Im having a great time. Wish you were home for me to come running to and tell everything to.
Mafifi
- Tuesday, August 4, 2009 at 20:6:10
Hi Grandma,The wedding was beautiful! I only cried the morning of the wedding. My gown, veil and shoes were hanging and Tasha laid your dress and hat on a chair beside them. I walked in not expecting to see them and I lost it!
Mafifi
- Tuesday, August 4, 2009 at 20:3:41
Good morning Meme. Last nite I did a practice run of my hair duo for Saturday. It came out beautifully! But oddly enough, the hair style I selected is EXACTLY the same duo my mother wore when she was the matron of honor at Tante Myrlande's wedding! Isnt that just funny...just goes to prove how strong one's gene's are. I reviewed the entire album and smiled at your pictures. You wore blue (of course) and you looked soooo young. I kept it together until I got to the last two pages. There I saw a picture of you seating one a bed, Tante Myrlande kneeling and listening as you were giving some advise. The other picture was of you giving both Tante Myrlande and Uncle Jaus Sane advise. I just broke down. Your hands were so life like; I could see each vein and pores, the expression in your face was so vivid. I really really cant believe Im gonna get married and you wont be there...I really cant
Mafifi
- Tuesday, July 28, 2009 at 10:40:38
Hello Meme. I know you see and know everything that's going on. I dont have the right to complain. I just wish you were here right now. All the promises that were made could not be kept...I guess promises were made to be broken.
Mafifi
- Monday, July 27, 2009 at 1:17:43
meme i really miss you i wish you were here right now. you are the best grandma i ever had. kisses and hugs.
benjamin
- Saturday, July 25, 2009 at 21:8:3
Good morning for you I hope, you probably have a heavenly hangover. I wish I had one more birthday with you. I know you wanted me there last night but I couldn't bring myself to celebrate without you. Let's put it on the line. I am not doing well emotionally because I am jealous. Jealous of all the cousins we have seen wed and bare children I will NEVER get that. Quite frankly that "She is always there" thing isn't holding water.I need you to give my newborn coffee, I need you to tell my husband treat me well. Yes I have others but its not the same. Everyone's children will have stories and mine won't have any. Even if it was a mere memory at least something. What I am trying to say is I miss you a lot and happy birthday. Now I will do as I have been and act like all is well. I love you.
Choubouloutte <TheFutureOfLaw@yahoo.com>
Brooklyn, New York - Friday, July 24, 2009 at 12:8:41
Meme, The date on the permit reads....July 23rd, 2009
Mafifi
- Thursday, July 23, 2009 at 12:34:33
Happy Birthday MY ROCK! I Love you and I miss you more than WORDS can ever DESCRIBE!
natascha coeur <tcoeur@optonline.net>
B'klyn, ny - Thursday, July 23, 2009 at 7:32:2
Happy Birthday Mêmê. I love you and I miss you so much. I hope you like your birthday present!
Mafifi
- Thursday, July 23, 2009 at 0:0:50
Oh my dear sweet Meme. I have so much to tell you and so much to show you. Saturday the 11th, was a blast. Everyone told me how happy I looked. I cried just once then tried to shake out of it. Saturday the 18th was too funny. Im doing everything Ive read about in the papers and in books but never thought would happen to me! I wish I could tell you about them face to face
Mafifi
- Tuesday, July 21, 2009 at 17:26:15
Meme, you should have seen me on Friday....oh my gosh I was soooooo beautiful. I think you would approve of my choice. I wish you were here so badly! Its really just not fair
Mafifi
- Tuesday, July 21, 2009 at 17:22:51
Good morning Meme.. Just 10 more days till your birthday. I know you will be very happy with the birthday gift I got you!Meme, I had a great time Saturday night. I smiled so much that my mouth hurt. The last time I was that happy was when you were alive. I miss you more then you estimated! Please readminister the dose of anesthesia, its growing weak and Im starting to feel the pain. I thank you in advance!
Mafifi
- Monday, July 13, 2009 at 11:14:59
Well the days are grewing closer! Just 17 more days till your birthday! I cant await. I hope youre happy with your birthday gift. Love you!
Mafifi
- Tuesday, July 7, 2009 at 0:33:31
Good Morning Meme,Today is the 1st of July. In 22 days it will be your birthday and you would have been 85!!!!!! Wow! At your 80th birthday party, I promised to give you a BIG 90th Birthday party but I didnt get the chance. I know you were really shocked by the 82nd "red and white" birthday party we gave you. Well, guess what Im gonna through you a BIG 85th birthday bash at the temple on 7/23/09!!!!!!!!! Wish you were here
Mafifi
- Wednesday, July 1, 2009 at 10:10:56
Tonight I drove by the Baskin & Robbins store that we use to drive to at 1am to get you Rum Raisin. I cried
Mafifi
- Saturday, June 27, 2009 at 21:53:12
Meme...July 23rd, 2009 is all for your "people"! I thought you'd like that.
Mafifi
- Thursday, June 25, 2009 at 11:56:0
Meme,Had a really bad migrain last night...woke up with the headache again this morning. Just alittle stressed.
Mafifi
- Thursday, June 25, 2009 at 9:33:41
I know its been a while since I've shared with you, but I've been going through and have been doing it the way you've always taught us. Praying, listening and watching to see what God has to say and will say. A lot has changed since you've gone and I guess it should have been expected. Zach is growing up. I wish you were here to see him grow. He amazes me all the time. He is so smart and he has so much to say. I wish you were here to hear him ask and say some of the things that he's been saying. He's gonna make a great big brother! I miss you!
Jean-Jean
- Wednesday, June 24, 2009 at 3:14:42
40 days grandma....40 days!
Mafifi
- Tuesday, June 23, 2009 at 10:34:10
Good morning Meme... talk is cheap! Promises, promises, promises. I just wish you were here. I wouldnt care about anyone or anything.
Mafifi
- Tuesday, June 23, 2009 at 10:33:28
Meme, Happy Father's Day!You were and are both my mother and father Wish you were here for me to hug and kiss and bring a gift to. I love you!
Mafifi
- Sunday, June 21, 2009 at 16:21:19
Hello Meme...as you know today is Tante Ketty's birthday. I am sure she misses you alot right now. So...please comfort her. Thank you
Mafifi
- Friday, June 19, 2009 at 11:46:56
Oh by the way Meme...Abby graduated from elementary school today. She looks sooooo cute. I had them cut the front of her hair and gave her a bang. What are big cousins for?!
Mafifi
- Thursday, June 18, 2009 at 13:11:43
Great is his faithfullness Meme.....I believe everything will work out just find. He always keep his promise. Im just getting impatient.
Mafifi
- Thursday, June 18, 2009 at 13:9:53
By the way Meme, please tell mommy happy birthday for me. She would have been 60 on June 13th.
Mafifi
- Thursday, June 18, 2009 at 13:7:54
By the way Meme, please tell mommy happy birthday for me. I she would have been 60 on June 13th.
Mafifi
- Thursday, June 18, 2009 at 13:7:36
Hi Meme. Doing some work at the house and I had to pack away some things. I came across several of your pictures and I broke down in tears. In the pictures you look so full of life. The picture seemed so real I felt I could just reach out and touch you. Many times I still find it hard to believe that you are gone. You warned me that this would happen but I just didnt know how soon. I thought you were just being an "old lady" and talking too much. But I guess you knew. I remember the nights when I would stay up with you and walk around the house. I can still see your hands holding mind and you telling me that this will all end soon. I had NO clue this was what you meant. I thought for SURE God was gonna step in and make everything better....after all he's done it for so many other people you prayed for. AHHHHHHHHH that's it. The reason that God healed and delievered is because it was YOU who prayed to him. I dont think any of us were/are sactified enough to approach him for with a request and have it granted. But wait, you approached him for yourself. Why wasnt that request granted. Oh, I give up. I know the Lord is grown and he does whatever he pleases so I should just stop trying to figure it out. Boy, when I get to heaven he's got alot of explaining to do!!!! I miss you and I love you more.
Mafifi
- Thursday, June 18, 2009 at 13:6:43
MEME I miss u soooooooooooooooooo MUCH it HURTS today was NOT a good day I need MY angel to help me get thru this HARD ,VERY HARD TIME.MEME I know if you were HERE what we need would NOT be an ISSUE !Time is running out!I love u and miss .
natascha coeur <tcoeur@optonline.com>
brooklyn, ny - Wednesday, June 17, 2009 at 20:13:48
Good morning Grandma,I know you had a good night...I know, I know, no more sleep or tireness or fatigue were you're at. You always said you could not wait till the day when all worries, pain, having to take medication was over. I miss you Mom. You were not the only mother I knew...but you were the mother who raised me.
Mafifi
- Wednesday, June 10, 2009 at 10:2:23
Good morning, Meme. I try to write to you everyday because it makes me feel better. Some say it’s wrong and I should let go and begin the healing process. By the way, they’re the same people who log on everyday to read what is being written. Sometimes, I get really frustrated that I’m the only one writing. WHAT DID THEY ALL FORGET ABOUT YOU ALREADY!!I get so angry at times. I understand that everyone expresses their frustration in they’re own way and I guess I should just respect that. But as you use to say “weechoooo, weechoooo”! I am looking at your picture right now as I sit in my office and I can’t tell you how I wish I could just pick up the phone and call you at the temple. I never took any of those phone calls for granted (I feel sorry for anyone who did) but now it seems as if those calls were not enough. I CANT BELIEVE YOU ARE REALLY GONE! OH MY GOODNESS, I AM HAVING A TOUGH TIME GRABBING THAT CONCEPT TODAY. By the way, you’ll NEVER guess who reached out and volunteered to pay for my wedding gown on your behalf….well maybe you could guess. I accepted of course, but I really which you were here to pay for it yourself and to see me when I try it on. I’m so hurt and upset that you're not here right now….I could hit or break something!!!
Mafifi
- Tuesday, June 9, 2009 at 10:47:1
Hi Meme...guess what? Im wearing that GREEN & Brown skirt you bought me. It felt weird wearing it but that's what I felt to wear today...you know why. You would have been really proud to see it on me. You alway's loved seeing your kids dressed nicely. Please come visit me soon. I miss you so much
Mafifi
- Monday, June 8, 2009 at 10:59:29
Hello Meme...well today is the 8th. I cant believe that youre gone. Everything seemed so promising after the 8th. We had our entire future ahead of us. An well now youre gone. I cried so much this weekend. Its really hard for me. I know that its suppose to be a happy time but I cant be completely happy...youre not here.
Mafifi
- Monday, June 8, 2009 at 0:34:2
Hello Meme. Well, as you know alot of work is being done to my house. A window was moved and now I can see straight into your room. Its just was we planned. From my room I could just sit and watch you while you sit on your favorite chair.I miss you and I hate that these plans wont be lived out.
Mafifi
- Saturday, June 6, 2009 at 19:30:29
Good morning Meme. Today I am in desperate need of a hug. The kind that only you can give. I miss you more then you ever anticipated.
Mafifi
- Thursday, June 4, 2009 at 9:43:31
Good Morning, I had a dream about you the other day but could not remember the dream in its entirety. Please come back and speak with me.
Mafifi
- Tuesday, June 2, 2009 at 11:32:30
Bonne fete des meres!!!
Martin
- Sunday, May 31, 2009 at 19:51:53
Hello Meme....well all is mailed out! I wish you were here to be excited with me. I dont have anyone to get excited with. I miss you more and more each day!
Mafifi
- Saturday, May 30, 2009 at 10:51:23
Hello Meme....well with is mailed out! I wish you were here to be excited with me. I dont have anyone to get excited with. I miss you more and more each day!
Mafifi
- Saturday, May 30, 2009 at 10:49:14
Hello grandma..Malachi came home on Monday. I swear he's just the cutest little baby I've seen in a very long time; and Im not just saying that because he's my nephrew. You would be happy to know that I didnt have to do much work with on his nose. He came out with the cutest button nose and the deepest dimples! Frero said it was sad bringing him home cause you know we always stop by the temple for you to pray for the babies before ANYONE brings them home. You werent there. Frero and the others prayed for him themselves but I know it just isnt the same. You had a way of holding the babies, lifting them up to God then ending it with a kiss on the cheeks. No one can do it like you can...
Mafifi
- Wednesday, May 27, 2009 at 9:45:38
Nane, I have a secret to share with you....MEME understood English. She just pretended not to know.
Mafifi
- Monday, May 25, 2009 at 20:12:29
1010: remember meme doesn't speak english.
Rhode valme <Rhode valme@yahoo.com>
Brooklyn, new york - Sunday, May 24, 2009 at 15:0:5
Meme....The Prince is here! Frero just had a baby boy!!!!!!
Mafifi
- Saturday, May 23, 2009 at 7:44:1
Meme....The Prince is here! Frero just had a baby boy!!!!!!
Mafifi
- Saturday, May 23, 2009 at 4:59:6
Oh by the way Meme...Im back to wearing black again. I couldnt stand wearing brown. I felt funny. I think I will slowly try to stop wearing black. Maybe by the end of this month or this summer. All I know is I couldnt do it today.
Mafifi
- Friday, May 22, 2009 at 16:21:31
Hi Meme. This time last year we were busy preparing for your home going celebration. This year we're counting down the minutes until a new life arrives. Soon you will have 21 great grandchildren. You always liked keeping track of the number of grandchildren and greatg grandchildren you had. YOu were really proud of that. WOW... what a difference a year makes. I wish you were here...
Mafifi
- Friday, May 22, 2009 at 16:18:51
Hi Meme...today Im wearing brown. I havent worn anything but black since May 19th, 2008. It felt weird to wear another color. I wore black for a solid year...it really went by fast. I dont think I can ever wear red again. I will forever mourn this lost.
Mafifi
- Thursday, May 21, 2009 at 16:15:18
Hello Meme,Things are not going as planned. I wish you were here because there would be no questions asked. For the first couple of minutes of my "special day" I am going to be very very misable and sad! This wouldnt be an issue if you were still here.
Mafifi
- Thursday, May 21, 2009 at 16:5:3
« La mort n’est rien. Je suis simplement passé dans la pièce à côté.
Je suis moi, vous êtes vous.
Ce que j’étais pour vous, je le suis toujours.
Donnez-moi le nom que vous m’avez toujours donné.
Parlez-moi comme vous l’avez toujours fait.
N’employez pas un ton différent.
Continuez à rire de ce qui nous faisait rire ensemble.
Priez, souriez, pensez à moi
Que mon nom soit prononcé à la maison comme il l’a toujours été.
Sans emphase d’aucune sorte, sans trace d’ombre.
La vie signifie ce qu’elle a toujours signifié.
Elle sera ce qu’elle a toujours été. Le fil n’est pas coupé.
Pourquoi serais-je loin de votre pensée
Simplement parce que je suis hors de votre vue ?
Je vous attends. Je ne suis pas loin.
Juste de l’autre côté du chemin. »
De Charles P. Peguy

Martin
Brooklyn, NY, USA - Wednesday, May 20, 2009 at 11:16:51
Good morning Meme,Had a rough night last night. I try not to think of it...think of you. But how can I. I try to push it out of my mind and keep my emotions behind a closed door but that door is like an avalanche waiting to explode! I miss you so much you cant even imagine. But I think you knew how hard it would be for all of us. That's probably why you held on so tight for so long. Please visit me again. The last time you spoke to me in my dream was on December 6th, 2009...I think Im due another visit. Meme....if I was your favorite why did you leave me. You'll never hold my child, fix his/her nose, or do all those things you did for the others. I know Im blessed and I KNOW you agreed to go only after certain conditions were arranged and prepared but I gosh MEME!!!! I cant tell you how much it hurts. Im gonna be a mess! Please continue to give me strength!
Mafifi
- Wednesday, May 20, 2009 at 7:37:47
No regrets Meme…I have no regrets. I don’t regret not have a job and spending the last year of your life with you. I don’t regret the midnight, 2am and 5am trips to the bathroom, I don’t regret the oops, I don’t regret lifting you up and helping you to the bed then the chair and back again to the bed then back again to the chair as many times as you wanted. I don’t regret hurting my back both times; I don’t regret the rides at midnight, 1am, 2 am and even 3am. I don’t regret the trips to the ice cream store. I don’t regret the pain, I don’t regret the sleepless nights, I don’t regret forgetting to eat, I don’t regret spending the night with you at the hospital, I don’t regret the call to bring you milk at midnight, I don’t regret NEVER saying NO. I don’t regret any of it. I only regret saying good-bye.
Mafifi
- Tuesday, May 19, 2009 at 19:41:0
Hi Meme, I remember this day as if it was just yesterday. I remember the call, the drive to pick up Tascha, the drive to the hospital, the elevator ride with Kiki and the hug I gave him as he cried, the maintenance guys saying “I’m sorry for your lost” before it was official that you left me, Tante Ketty sitting on the chair with the oxygen mask, Tante Merry on the floor saying “you didn’t wait for me today is our day together”. I remember your sweet scent filling the room and that white sheet reaching right under your neck. I remember all the nurses and doctors in the room and the EKG machine to my right. I remember members of the family coming in one at a time as the news got out. I remember Jean Jean fainting and hitting the floor so hard I thought he was hurt. I remember the nurses coming in to pay their respect. I remember the nurse asking me to leave so they can prepare to take you to the morgue. I remember begging them not to cover your head and face as they removed you from the room. I remember the family forming a line and saluting you as the nursing staff bought you out. I remember that nosy lady who must have recognize the family peaking through and Auntie Rhode saying “yes, she’s died Sr. Valme is gone…go tell everyone. I remember the family singing “oh when the Saint goes marching in” as your body came down the hallway and into the elevator. I remember the entire family taking the ride and escorting you to the morgue. I remember everything as if it was just yesterday. The day repeats itself over and over again in my mind but in slow motion. We were all with you till the very end; just as you were with us till the very end….I remember it all.
Mafifi
- Tuesday, May 19, 2009 at 19:29:21
What a day! A year wow time flies if you ask me.I didnt go to school today because I felt like i wouldnt be able to focus contol my emotions.. This morning I layed in bed crying not knowing what to do or say I felt the same way this morning as i did the day you died. I miss you soo much nobody would ever understand.. May your soul R.I.P. Love you
Katiana Joseph
- Tuesday, May 19, 2009 at 17:50:32
Meme today will never be the same for alot of people. I am at work now...yes Im finally back to work after a year and a half but I wish I wasnt here. I just want to be with my family and near you. I cant ask for any days off at least not yet because it's too soon. There's service at the temple today and I will try my best to go for a while...
Mafifi
- Tuesday, May 19, 2009 at 10:20:17
I approach 365 the same way I approached 1. Afraid, upset, relieved and heartbroken. I would cry if you didn't take my tears with you. I want to tell you so much but I want to feel so little. We sang to you like the Queen you are to bid you farewell. They said goodbye, I whispered and smiled and said see you later. Never wanting to let go. Never facing 1 completely, I approach 365. Funny they tell me everyday you never left, my heart grows cold because I did. I took my last breath of fresh air when you took yours. My lungs collasped and my heart steadied, slowly and slowly until it stopped completely. I wash my hands with case law and legal jargon to help me forget. How can I forget me? Forget we? What we had? I can still smell you when I close my eyes, never knew that was the reason it was so difficult to awaken. You had the cure for everything from a sore throat to a bad attitude. Funny you cured them both with a pinch and a smile. You took me with you when you left. Now all I can do is write and hope you read my letters. My silence roars so quietly. My song screams with no direction. Nothing has ever been so hard. I clothe myself in your smile, your warm welcome and bathe in your acceptance of everyone. I tried all that I could to remove this knot in my belly when I think of you but nothing works. I tried laughter, love, hate, angry, acceptance and rejection. My grief whispers and my silence screams. May 19th 2008 your body left. Forever you will stay in this space I left in my heart where I saved your smile. RIP grandma
Choubouloutte <TheFutureOfLaw@yahoo.com>
Brooklyn, New York - Tuesday, May 19, 2009 at 10:19:32
Il ya des moments dans ma vie ou tu me manques beaucoups, et je voudrais te parler,et te faire sortir mes joies,mes peines, mes reves,et mes souffrances,et te dire je t'aime et te faire dancer"fenande sekoe kore ou " Ou es-tu maman!Tu me manques, je T'aime."BAby DOC"
BABY DOC <myurlande11203@yahoo.com>
NY, usa - Tuesday, May 19, 2009 at 10:6:27
Meme, so much has happened and so much has changed in a year. Some for the good and some for the bad; but lets focus only on the good. So much has happened since you returned home. The very first thing that happened was that our lives all changed COMPLETELY. I don’t think you had a say so in this and would probably have chosen differently but you “returned home” on Abby’s birthday. We tried to make the day about her….but really how could we. Then, Jonathan had a birthday and will have another one in a week, Tante Ketty had a birthday, Debbie graduated from college, Frero got married, Kiki got engaged, Kiki and Gerry had a birthday, Tonton Yonel had a birthday, the temple had an AMAZING revival with your favorite pastor/son Malory, Tante Mireille, Jean Jean, Suzy and Woodley all had a birthdays, we celebrated Thanksgiving one last time at your house, that same day Woodley asked the family for their blessing, Nane began preparing her mind and soul for the 40 days, it snowed, and snowed some more, Christmas came and went, 40 days was amazing, I turned 40, Frero and Ms. Jean are expecting a baby, Jean Jean and Gabby got married, Frero, Handel, Steve had a birthday, Rhode had a birthday, Tante Myrlande had a birthday, the temple’s anniversary was great, we didn’t celebrate Mother’s Day and now were back to today. So much more happened but I can’t hold back the tears from my eyes…oh and Meme I know you know this but I am getting married. You said it; you saw him and now his here. He looks exactly how you said he would look and how you saw him in your revelations. I just can’t believe you would be there to wear that dress you wanted to wear on “our” wedding day. You said our wedding day because you said you would be getting married too. Well, as you probably know, the dress you wore for your Going Home Celebration is the dress you were saving to wear on my wedding day. I just can’t believe you won’t be here to walk me down the isle. I can’t continue….finding it hard to breathe again. Speak to you in a few....
Mafifi
- Tuesday, May 19, 2009 at 9:53:31
Wow one year has come and gone. I really cant believe it. We miss you so much. I miss you so much. I still cant believe you wont be there. Rest in peace meme....rest in peace.
Mafifi
- Tuesday, May 19, 2009 at 9:41:44
The SUN is SHINNING SOOOOOOOO BRIGHT this morning I know you are happy you deserve it! WE know your ONLY regret was leaving ALL OF US . I love MORE each SECOND that goes by
natascha coeur <tcoeur@optonline.net>
B'klyn, ny - Tuesday, May 19, 2009 at 7:36:30
MEME MEME MEME MEME MEME MEME MEME I miss you sooooooooooooooo MUCH I stay away from the wedsite because it hurt too MUCH, so MUCH has happen....................I miss you and will always love you FOREVER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
natascha coeur <tcoeur@optonline.net>
B'klyn, ny - Tuesday, May 19, 2009 at 7:20:29
Hello meme. Well, time is approaching and I am very nervous. I really wish you were here. I miss you so much. I really miss you much.
Mafifi
- Wednesday, May 13, 2009 at 13:24:49
Happy Mother's Day Meme. Couldnt say it yesterday too painful. I am so thankful of the last mother's day we spent together. The ENTIRE family was there.....in their PJ. It was GREAT you were so happy. I miss you meme....I miss you so much
Mafifi
- Monday, May 11, 2009 at 6:16:32
Happy Mother's Day Meme. Couldnt say it yesterday too painful. I am so thankful of the last mother's day we spent together. The ENTIRE family was there.....in their PJ. It was GREAT you were so happy. I miss you meme....I miss you so much
Mafifi
- Monday, May 11, 2009 at 6:16:20
Hello Meme..I cried so much last night just thinking of you. I found my old phone with old pictures and video's of you...I cried like a baby.
Mafifi
- Thursday, May 7, 2009 at 14:20:57
Hi Meme.. Happy 37th Anniversary!! I know how special this day is to you. I remembered last year although you were ill you campaign while still in bed to raise money to celebrate the "Lord's Day". I recall you raised $3000! You were something else!!!!!!!!!!! Would have loved to see your face today. Meme, please visit me soon. I am grewing more and more depress. I love you
Mafifi
- Thursday, April 30, 2009 at 8:8:58
Hi Meme. Today was not a very good day. I came across an elderly patient with grey hair who reminded me of you. She needed someone to translate and I later found out she was a Christian. It was wierd cause when I looked straight in her eyes I saw your eyes. She told me she walked to the clinic from Newkirk Avenue, and she cooks for herself and her family. She told me she had 7 kids but one passed away. It was too spooky. Then she said I was a nice kid and my parents did a great job raising me. I told her my grandma raised me. When she asked for my grandma's name I hesitated because I feared she might know you. But I then I told her. She was so shocked and said she knew you from the temple and you and she use to buy material to make dresses the same place...in front of Sr. Amon's house, if that name rings a bell. Anyway, she said she last saw you about 3 months before you passed and was in Haiti when she heard the news. I had to run out of the clinic because it was too difficult for me. I hugged her and kissed her goodbye. When I did that I closed my eyes and imagined it was you. Like I said...today was not a good day at all. I miss you.
Mafifi
- Tuesday, April 28, 2009 at 19:20:14
Hello Meme....well today is the last day of the revival. Service was awesome last night. Even Woodley told me he was moved. I so wish you were here.
Mafifi
- Saturday, April 25, 2009 at 10:16:52
Hi meme...today is such a beautiful day. I wish you were here to enjoy it. Another big step was taken today. I wish you were still alive so I could have written Evang. Fernande Valme instead of "family". I cant believe I am doing all this without you. Miss you soooo much
Mafifi
- Friday, April 24, 2009 at 16:21:17
Hello Meme....today is realllllllllly not a good day. I wish you were here to make it better. Actually, if you were here my day would be better. I love you and miss you sooooo much
Mafifi
- Thursday, April 23, 2009 at 13:32:15
Good morming, Meme. Sonny returned from Tante Ana's funeral last night. I know you, Mommy,Tante Anite, Tante Ana MUST be catching up on old times! I wish I could sneak and hear you guys. I LOVED to hear you laugh. You had a way of holding your shoulder, tilting your head to the side, squeezing your eyes shut tight and would laugh so hard that whether anyone "got the joke" or not... they just had to laugh too. As you know, yesterday was Tanisha's birthday. I cant believe the kid is already 26 years old?! Where did the time go? Well, as you know I am a little short with cash but I will do my best to give her 26 single dollar bills just as you would have if you were around. I love you Meme. Thank you for everything....by the way, please send cash soon. Lots to do, very little time and very little money. Hugs and kisses, your favorite daughter......
Mafifi
- Wednesday, April 22, 2009 at 9:20:25
Hello Meme. No need to ask how you are doing. It is us that has to deal with pain, sorrow, confusion, saddness etc. Well, I am glad for you but very sad for us. Yesterday, the rain came down as if someone was crying.... trust me I know it's not you. I miss you but I still can hear your voice in my head. Each time I enter the master bedroom and I say "Hi Meme" to your picture, I can hear you answer "hi cherie". Gosh, I reallllllllllly miss you. Gotta go otherwise, I will start to cry. Love you
Mafifi
- Tuesday, April 21, 2009 at 13:2:12
Hi grandma, I thought of you so much yesterday. I cant believe we're approaching your one year anniversary. Wow, one year without you! I really cant believe it. We did alot of things this weekend I really wish you were here! Miss you
Mafifi
- Monday, April 20, 2009 at 13:30:6
Meme, the days are growing closer and I cant imagine nor do I know how Im gonna handle it without you. I need your help and your advise on so many things. It just wont be complete without you. I so wish you were here!!!
Mafifi
- Friday, April 17, 2009 at 10:55:35
Meme I am sure and certain that Tante Rhode was dropped on her head as a baby. You always denied it but I dont know....Seriously, she's doing a good job. Only you can do that great job. By the way Meme, she made changes to the kitchen. Its nice and all but Im having a hard time accepting changes made without your approval. I miss you soo much. We are approaching your one year anniversary very so. I would have gladly continue spending each and every night at the hospital. I love you. Please visit me soon. I miss your scent.
Meme
- Wednesday, April 15, 2009 at 15:15:42
hi meme i am 13 finally your little teenager. Thanks for everthing
peter <www.dx2236@aim.com>
brooklyn, newyork - Monday, April 13, 2009 at 19:2:48
Hello sr valme I dont want to confuse you it is our 37th anniversary not 25th. Ps I did not forget what you told me.
rhode <www.dx2236@aim.com>
brooklyn, newyork - Monday, April 13, 2009 at 18:59:26
hello sr.valme I finally realize that you are not around; I miss you so much, they are trying to eat me alive. I need your strength; I feel like I am in a desert without you. I know my God is great, He is doing great job, we are going to celebrate our 25th anniversary, I wish you could be there with us.I feel overwhelmed . Love you.
rhode <www.dx2236@aim.com>
brooklyn, newyork - Monday, April 13, 2009 at 18:52:53
Happy Easter! He's Alive!!
Mafifi
- Sunday, April 12, 2009 at 13:48:4
Hello Meme...well the trio is finally together again. I could just hear you, Tante Anite and Tante Ana singing "Fleur Celeste". I can just see you now waiting by the pearl gates to greet Tante Ana. If I could just have a sneak peak...it would a kodak moment.
Mafifi
- Saturday, April 11, 2009 at 20:29:22
Hello Meme, things are going okay, just okay. Well, I know you see all things that are happening without you. I really hate that life goes on without you. Decisions are made and changes occur and you had nothing to say about it. Well, I am really sorry about it. I am also very sorry about last night. I miss you much
Mafifi
- Saturday, April 11, 2009 at 20:10:31
Hello Meme. Well I'm sure you remember today is Rhode's birthday. You always seem to remember her birthday too...I guess you must like her. Anyway, today is a beautiful day...67degrees. I guess that's your gift to her. Miss you Meme...miss you a whole lot!!!
Mafifi
- Friday, March 27, 2009 at 14:32:3
Hello Meme...the 19th came and went so quietly. I didn't forget...its just getting harder to deal with.
Mafifi
- Saturday, March 21, 2009 at 14:37:38
4 16 to go....Wish you were here.
Mafifi
- Sunday, March 15, 2009 at 22:6:58
Hi Meme. I miss you. Yesterday I spoke to Sr. Margo. When she asked me how I was doing, I said " map ton-go-ye". She laughed so loud cause she said I said it just as you did. I said " se to natural. Moin chita aba bouche gra moin." Meme Sr. Margo is my new adopted grandma. She didn't take your place...no one can but she's just keeping your seat warm. I cried after speaking with her because I remembered all those phone calls when she checked up on you. She is so special...please watch over her. Well, as you know the days are moving very fast and I miss you so much. These next few weeks leading up to May 19th will be difficult for me. Everyday reminds me of something you did this time last year. Well I gotta go. Talk to you soon.
Mafifi
- Wednesday, March 11, 2009 at 9:51:53
Hello Meme, as you know yesterday was Sonny's birthdy. I remembered how we almost lost you last year that exact date. Sonny asked you to give him that gift and so many other pray warriors begged at your feet for an extension to meme's life. I wish I knew we were granted a 2 month and 12 day extension. Because right before that extension ended I would have asked for another. I miss you so much.
Mafifi
- Sunday, March 8, 2009 at 10:31:32
Hello Meme, as you know today's your twin boys birthday! I know you already secured their gifts for them. I miss you so much. I am finding myself crying more and more now. Its as if the anesthesia is wearing off. I remember your walk. It was so cute. You always walked as if you were walking on egg shells. I have so much to share with you. Meme, I cant believe Im gonna do this without you!
Mafifi
- Tuesday, March 3, 2009 at 22:2:19
Hey Meme havent spoke to you in such along time, sorry been so tide up with things. FVM Is working so hard, we just had a fundraising concert called Praise Pass and it was awsome, Glory To God. I mean he moved in such a way, tht word nor tongues could explain it! As you knw Emelyne and I are bless so I knw ur happy about that! The Dream is not only alive but its LIVING, thru the ministry, thru me, thru ur children, grandchildren, and no people who just heard of such a powerful women of GOd(you of course) they all want to be part of this Dream!
Frero
Work, - Tuesday, March 3, 2009 at 8:29:5
Hey Meme, I havent come by in a while. I'm sure you already know that you have company. Frere Roosevelt joined you this week. At least I know that you'll be laughing up there because he was a funny guy. I miss both of you.On a lighter note, I know that last night you were smiling. I am so proud of our family! God moved in a way that I haven't seen in a while. We were laughing together, talking and enjoying each other. I was happy last night. There were smiles everywhere and it the end God got the Glory. Your vision and dream will continue, we will do all that we can to see that the dream continues. Love you!
Jean-Jean
- Sunday, March 1, 2009 at 13:20:41
Hey Meme, I havent come by in a while. I'm sure you already know that you have company. Frere Roosevelt joined you this week. At least I know that you'll be laughing up there because he was a funny guy. I miss both of you.On a lighter note, I know that last night you were smiling. I am so proud of our family! God moved in a way that I haven't seen in a while. We were laughing together, talking and enjoying each other. I was happy last night. There were smiles everywhere and it then end God got the Glory. Your vision and dream will continue, we will do all that we can to see to it that we can. Love you Meme!
Jean-Jean
- Sunday, March 1, 2009 at 13:19:18
Hello Meme...things are being to look a little better. I am thankful for everything God has given me and done for me. You wouldnt believe the people or should I say person God has stoken to, to help me! I am truly thankful. I just cant wait. I really wish you were here to give me your opinion...whether I wanted to hear it or not! Ha, Ha. I really hope youre happy up there. I am really missing you down here. I try not to think about it cause when I do, I get an ache in my chest and I start having difficulty breathing. I hope someday I can think of the happy days without feeling sad. Speak with you soon.
Mafifi
- Wednesday, February 25, 2009 at 19:43:9
Meme, it hasnt been the same since that day at 9:42.
Mafifi
- Thursday, February 19, 2009 at 9:46:46
Wow Meme...I can't believe its already 9 months since you left me! I miss you just as much as you knew I would. Today is a special day. I wish you were going with me today. I know I'll feel your presence and you will help me choose the right one. I love you so much and I miss you more.
Mafifi
- Thursday, February 19, 2009 at 8:1:43
Well Meme...it's done. This years 40 days has come to an end. With the help from The Lord and a few disciples, Ninnin, did a great job. Only complaint I could give is AS USUSAL she served food to the congregation late. Really, Really, Really late...Meme it was almost 7pm. When she served food! Well I need your help with something very important. I know that you know and probably already working on it for me. I thank you and God in advance. Speak with you soon
Mafifi
- Monday, February 16, 2009 at 15:57:7
Today marks 25years since Mommy passed away, but I'm shedding tears for you. I love and truly miss my Mom but I feel guilty that I'm aching for you right now. I am sitting here today having had lost both mothers but Lord forgive me cause if I had a choice to resurrect one...
Mafifi
- Tuesday, February 10, 2009 at 11:11:18
Hi Meme today is not the best of all days. I knw you knw why but thank God for the 24hrs it was a true blessing.Guess my birthday is coming up, and this will be such a joyful year!Thanks!
Frero <Acoeur21@yahoo.com>
- Tuesday, February 10, 2009 at 9:2:9
THANK YOU JESUS!!
Mafifi
- Thursday, February 5, 2009 at 15:46:47
Good Morning Meme,I just want you to know how proud I am of Nane. I cried so much when I got to the temple this morning. There's just 11 days left of the 40 days and she did it! You and I both know how lazy your daughter can be so I am REALLY proud of her. I promise her $40..a dollar a day. You would be proud too! But I wish you were here to do it yourself. Well as for me...Im hanging in there. A lot has happened as you know and a lot needs to happen as you also know. I miss you, your voice , your hands and your smell! I can't wait to update you with better news. P. S. I has snowed a lot and you know how much I HATE the snow. But we shovel in front of the house. I don't know which is worse. Looking over to an empty house or seeing the lights on but knowing its not you that is inside? I love more today the yesterday and I miss you even more!!!
Mafifi
- Tuesday, February 3, 2009 at 11:3:5
Hello Meme, Things are not looking so good. I try to keep a smile on my face but I am dying inside. Everyone has their own problems, whom do I go to for help. Its not that they dont care, I dont think, it just they have better things to worry about...you know "out of sight, out of mind". There's just one person who tries and periodically ask how am doing, but you know she has alot to deal with herself. I dont like bothering her. I wish you were here. You always made me feel as if I was your ONLY CONCERN. You seem to have had a way of making everyone feel the same. Sometimes, I feel that no one cares, alot of promises were made to you before you left us...their hearts were in the right place. It just hasnt come to be...yet. I need you! I miss you so much.
Mafifi
- Tuesday, January 27, 2009 at 16:53:12
Hey Meme,Its Official, we did it! We did it! We did it! I know you were looking down smiling. You were missed. Gabby looked gorgeous. I wish you were there. The family came and show love and support and I knew you would have been happy to see all of us there. I was happy to see them there too. I had a great time and it was a night to remember. Thank you!Jean-Jean
Jean-Wesley Michel
- Monday, January 26, 2009 at 0:16:12
Meme..our 44th President is BARAK OBAMA & your girl Hillary is SECETARY OF STATE
Mafifi
- Tuesday, January 20, 2009 at 12:5:56
Meme..Im watching the inauguration of the President of The United States....wish you were here to witness it! I love you and miss you so much.
Mafifi
- Tuesday, January 20, 2009 at 12:2:44
Mèmè jou yo ap maché. Thank you for everything. I wish you were here...I really wish you were here.
Gabrielle Merveille <gabrielle_merveille@hotmail.com>
New York, USA - Monday, January 19, 2009 at 14:45:33
Meme, I'm so thankful! Dance with me...dance for me up there.
Mafifi
- Saturday, January 17, 2009 at 22:52:31
Hello Meme,I meant to write yesterday but I grew busy. Well, yesterday made it one year since I CLOSED ON MY HOUSE!!!! The Lord is truly wonderful. He has provided ways unimaginable to me and opened doors to allow me to pay the morgage each month! I am doing one of your happy dances right now. When things seem dark I try to remember things like this and know remember if God bought me through it, he'll bring me out of it!! I wish you were here to dance with me!!!
Mafifi
- Saturday, January 17, 2009 at 11:26:3
Meme, today I went to CVS to buy a few things and pick up some chewing gum. I came across that gum that doesnt stick to your "you know what" and I started crying. Everything, everywhere reminds me of you. I miss you alot! By the way, I tried to give Kati 17 dollars in singles...but didnt have enough. Sorry
Mafifi
- Thursday, January 15, 2009 at 22:47:2
Hey Grandma!! Its my birthdayyyyyy!!!! Yes mape vin gene fe sou ou... I think thats how you spell it but what im saying is that developing to be a young lady. But what sadens me is that your not here to see how much growing I did. I miss you soo much.. I know you have given me like 25 dollars ALL in dollar bills lol however i still loved it!! If anyone would do the same it just wouldnt be the same in how you would give it! Sometimes I wish that May 19 NEVER happened but it did and that is something I still havent got used too love you and miss you from your sitting buddy kati!!!
Katiana Joseph
- Wednesday, January 14, 2009 at 20:7:1
Meme, I feel so guilty that I'm so happy right now. Only two things would make it better..one of which I can never get again. but oh boy, what I'd give to have my cell ring and to hear u say" Bon fete Mafifi...Im love u". Meme, I'm love you too!
Mafifi
- Sunday, January 11, 2009 at 8:35:22
Meme...Happy Birthday to me!
Mafifi
- Sunday, January 11, 2009 at 0:0:00
Hello Meme...I know there's a party going on in heaven today. Your dear friend has joined you, Mommy and Sr. Fordthis morning! I hope you dance! Today, for the first time, I am very happy that you are in heaven because I could see you having a good time.
Mafifi
- Friday, January 9, 2009 at 14:9:15
Meme, Tascha forgot to tell you that Suzy wears a uniform to school now. She looks soooo cute. She has on a pleated uniform. I remember how much you loved pleated clothing. You took pride in ironing them no matter how difficult it was. Meme....you know what I need right now. Please gear it so it happens sooner then later.
Mafifi
- Wednesday, January 7, 2009 at 22:44:48
IT'S BEEN A WHILE AND SOOOOO MUCH HAS HAPPEN.IT'S SO UNFAIR I LOVE YOU AND MISS U
natascha coeur
- Wednesday, January 7, 2009 at 21:53:50
Hi Meme! Today is the 5th, you know what that means. I still cant believe how everything happened so fast. Well, as you've said hundreds of times....The Lord may not come when you want him but he's always RIGHT ON TIME!!
Mafifi
- Monday, January 5, 2009 at 22:35:4
I really wish you were here.
Mafifi
- Sunday, January 4, 2009 at 22:4:38
Well Meme...40 days begins today. I know Rhode will do great with the grace of God, but I wish it were you instead. Gotta go. I love you and miss you more!
Mafifi
- Thursday, January 1, 2009 at 10:23:53
Happy New Year Meme!!
Mafifi
- Thursday, January 1, 2009 at 2:47:28
Hello again Meme. Well the year is coming to an end...without you. I want to first thank you for taking away that pain in my chest. I must admit that I sometimes miss it because I now feel guilty not having it. That pain, made me feel alive, it made me feel that I am still mourning. Having it go away is as if I stopped. I must admit though at times when I'm alone and begin to think of you it returns. We're getting ready to begin the 40days...I really can't believe your gone. Sometimes I feel that your just in Haiti or something. Well I know you know the great news. I can't believe I don't have you to share this moment with. We've waited so long...you waited so long and not to be here to witness it, well that just the scar I'll have to wear in my heart forever. Meme, I need your advice with so much. I know you had special permission to visit me last time but I need your help again. Hey, I have an idea maybe this time instead of speaking you could write down what you want to say. No permission will be need then. Just one problem, I don't read french or creole so well. (ha,ha) Maybe you learned another language while up there? We'll I'm gonna try to sleep now. 2008 bought me 2 things I've been waiting for, for over 15year but it took the most important thing in my life. It took you. 2008 is the year of new begining. Why did my new begining start when yours life ended? I miss you so much my love. I really have to go, I won't be able to hide the swollen eyes tomorrow. Love you grand mama
Mafifi
- Wednesday, December 31, 2008 at 1:17:59
Meme, just one more day left of this year and I am ending it without you. I have been with you at 12 midnight on New Years Eve for the past several years. Cant believe I wont be with you this time. I miss you so much
Mafifi
- Tuesday, December 30, 2008 at 21:33:22
MEME I MISS YOU SO MUCH. I WANT TO TELL YOU MERRY CHRSAMAS. AS WE ARE GOING TO CELEBRATE THE NEW YEAR I PERSONALLY WANT TO TELL YOU THAT I LOVE YOU MORE THAN MYSELF. I ALSO WANT TO SAY THAT WHEN I SLEEP YOU AND JESUS ARE WACTHING OVER ME. MEME TELL OUR FATHER TO BLESS US ,WACTH OVER US, AND KEEP US WARM IN HIS HEART. AS YOU KNOW AS LONG AS I LIVE MY HEART IS ALWAS WITH YOU. SO MEME REMEMBER FERNANDE VALME MINISTRIES[FVM]. SO MEME WE BELIEVE IN OUR GOD. ALSO I LOVE YOU SO MUCH
BENJAMIN JOSEPH
- Monday, December 29, 2008 at 16:55:14
Meme ITS OFFICIAL!!!!
Mafifi
- Sunday, December 28, 2008 at 8:58:30
Meme...I believe!
Mafifi
- Saturday, December 27, 2008 at 13:3:6
Good morning, it feels good to be able to say that and actually mean it. I had a GREAT X-mas. Breakfast was so funny, did you like my outfit? I know you did. you don't have to admit it butI know you loved it. I needed that time on X-mas. I got exactly what I asked for, to spend time with people that cared for me, that's all I wanted. Thanks for that. I know you made it happen. It felt really good. My heart was so content I don't think I laughed so hard in a long time or ate so well. Nick asks about you all the time. And says he remembers meeting you and you stealing the cheesecake. HAHAHAHAHA.Someone reached out to me yesterday and is willing to help me through. Thanks for not letting me to feel like I didn't matter. Two people reached out and it felt good that I have them. Well I will talk to you soon and thanks again for my Christmas full of cheer!!!! I love you
Choubouloutte <TheFutureOfLaw@yahoo.com>
Brooklyn, New York - Saturday, December 27, 2008 at 11:51:52
I miss you.
Mafifi
- Thursday, December 25, 2008 at 13:9:36
Merry Christmas Mêmê! I so wish you were here. I love you.
Mafifi
- Thursday, December 25, 2008 at 8:8:48
So its the day before Christmas and I can't think straight. Today is bitter sweet. Sweet that your great grand son Zach is here and your Grandson is with his wife, but the bitter part is that you're not here to see how much things have changed. Meme, last year around this time, you gave us advice that would change and maintain us. This year, all we have is the words to live by and not us giving you a progress report. In 4 weeks...you know the rest! You're missed, you're loved and thank you! Thats one thing that I didn't say enough of is thank you!
Jean-Wesley Michel
- Wednesday, December 24, 2008 at 11:2:31
Things are getting worst, please ask God to help me. Make this year disappear, it is no longer worth it. I miss you, visit sometime.
Choubouloutte <TheFutureOfLaw@yahoo.com>
Brooklyn, New York - Wednesday, December 24, 2008 at 7:54:36
Meme, Abi needs ALOT of help. He's just as crazy as he was when you were on earth....actually i think he's crazier. But he's funny and makes me laugh. So please find a way to get him that $600. Thank you
Mafifi
- Monday, December 22, 2008 at 20:14:20
Meme, Abi needs ALOT of help. He's just as crazy as he was when you were on earth....actually i think he's crazier. But he's funny and makes me. So please find a way to get him that $600. Thank you
Mafifi
- Monday, December 22, 2008 at 20:13:54
hiii MEME iam back yes the one and only abraham bertoni aka abi aka ummm yeaaaaaaaaaaaaa next so how you doing oh wow your going great how am i doing you ask well iam hanging in there i miss you alot like your like the grandmother i never had you looked at everyone the same way you have enough love for everyone all right i cant talk to you like this anyone its going to make me cry so how you doin oh i asked that already so how is god doing remember i asked you to ask him for 600 dollars and people where like what does a little boy like me need all that money for no name..lol yea guess watttt yuppppppppppppppppppp i still ain get the money i bet all you people read thought i got it but no i didnt well back to you oh yea i was tryin to make it up there by like 4 4:30 but i had school sorry what about saturday is that good for you oh no no no iam going to kati's house on saturday umm monday if your not doing anything awwww man your doing somethin monday ok tuesday great tuesday it iz are you comin down or i have to pack to go up there do i need like a shirt and pants and everthing because the last sleep ova i remember bringing them and idk wat happened to them oh for real ohhh its like the old days and no one wears shirts and pants and things like that i dont like that style like me and god really have to talk bout that like for real anyways MEME there was this chicken i saw on tv like omg i have to make that for you like od it was chicken and some next thing like i no you would love it ok ok GOD but last time he ate all me food when i turned but i no what to do now ill get that big angel no not that one yea that one ill get him to stand infront of me so if god try to eat me food he will tell me because sr.RODE said god gave us the angels to us at our will soooooooooo wait are you an angel do you have wings yet or something because i saw a little somethin come out ur back when we had our last sleep over idk well MEME IAM HUNGRY you got anything up there to eat like iam hungry oh you just maade food ooooooooooooooooooooommmmmmmmmmmmmmggggggggg ill be RIGHT THERE THANK YOU I SAVED MY LIFE IAM COMIN RIGHT NOW I LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU BYYYYYYY YOUR WORK WELL NEVER END...byeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
abraham bertoni <abrahambertoni@yahoo.com>
brooklyn, new york - Monday, December 22, 2008 at 17:2:53
Hello Meme. Just 3 more days till Christmas, and its really difficult without you. The pain in my chest has returned...for more reasons then one. I decorated my house really nicely. Did you hear what I said...I decorated MY HOUSE! I thank God very often for blessing me with this home. I recall how you would not let me decorate your house for Christmas last year. You told me to decorate the basement...and I did.My tree is beautiful and so is the house. We have stocking hanging everywhere and on every door. My tree is multicolor, Tascha’s is plain white....boring! I have the tree positioned right in front of the window. All I need now are those Boston lights.Meme, I can’t believe what a difference a year makes. Last year you were here with us full of energy and life. You showed NO SIGNS of leaving us. I love it when you called on Christmas morning looking for your gift. I would give anything for you to call me this Christmas... but not from up there. LOL. You’d have to call me on my cell. I love you so much and I hate that life goes on without you. When I leave this earth I want everything to stop. Laughter, singing, playing EVERYTHING. I know, I know just a little selfish. Talk to you soon. Love you and I miss you sooooooo much.
Mafifi
- Monday, December 22, 2008 at 12:40:59
Dance with me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Choubouloutte <TheFutureOfLaw@yahoo.com>
Brooklyn, New York - Monday, December 22, 2008 at 7:56:42
It's supposed to get easier, or so they say. Things around me are crumbling and I am tired. Tired of dealing with it and tired of being without, YOU!!! If it wasn't for work I would probably go insane. There is too much to do and too many people to make happy. Choubouloutte I don;t know when was the last time someone asked me was I happy. Or is it the pain and frustration that they can see right through me? Well you already know the two major situations I am dealing with now so if you can ask God if He can help me out just a little. Don't get me wrong I learned a long time ago to be grateful for that which I have and even more grateful for the things I don't. But I am scared to tell God I don't deserve this because He wil just tell me NO, you deserve less. I know many people around me those I know and those that know me that would love to be where I am right now, but I would give it all up for one more dance with you.I am going through so much and I feel so alone. I can't reach out because everyone has their own trials and tribulations that they must go through. It just seems as if everytime I fix one problem five more come in its place. I don't mean to complain but what else am I going to do? I have no one else... I just wish I could just feel your soft hands across my thigh with a pinch, just one more. Waking up knowing you're not there makes my mornings long my days longer and my nights endless. Meme come into her heart because I have given up already. There is nothing more for me to do, it hurts too much and its not worth it. Grandma in 4 years I will be a real AVOKA!!! I love you so much and miss you even more. Tell Becker Dad misses her.
Tanisha Michel <TheFutureOfLaw@yahoo.com>
Brooklyn, New York - Sunday, December 21, 2008 at 22:27:13
I cried over and over today. I didn't think that the hours, minutes and seconds would affect like this, but I remember one day when you and I were talking. You said, "Myrlande, I am here and things are hard for you? What are you going to do when I'm gone?" I didn't want to believe that. You said to lift my eyes to Lord and thats where my help and strength will come from! I don't think that this hurt, this pain will ever heal. There is a proverb that says, " Si Z'oreiller, te kon palé li ta palé pou Myrlande."Its snowing a lot today,and its as if the whole world is covered in snow. Its the same way that I have a void, a pain in my heart because you're not here. I needed to talk to you today, but you were no where to be found. I was given a word, a word by God. He said," I will never leave you, keep your eyes focused on me!" That word was what consoled me at that moment. Baby Doc (Myrlande)
Myrlande V. Michel
- Friday, December 19, 2008 at 20:48:44
Gone but not forgotten!
Mafifi
- Friday, December 19, 2008 at 14:30:4
Another month has gone by without you. Cant believe its already be 7 MONTHS since you passed. I dont think I can ever stop asking why? Couldnt he have left you with us for one more year? I cant believe that Im doing all this without you. I really wish you were here. I miss you so much Meme.
Mafifi
- Friday, December 19, 2008 at 1:24:27
Hi Meme...another holiday is approaching and you are not here to share it with us. I miss you so much. I have so much to share with you. Thanks for the visit...I really needed it. Love you..your fifi...mafifi
Mafifi
- Thursday, December 18, 2008 at 12:46:36
Hi Meme, today we picked our Christmas tree. My first Christmas in my first house. I'm so glad you fought so hard for me to have this house. The other day I drove around the neighborhood looking at decorations. I remembered how we did the same thing last year and we graded each house. Meme, if you were still around you would give a lot of D's and F's. I guess the economy is effect people in a lot of ways...this years decorations are not so nice. Well gotta go now. I love you Meme!
Mafifi
- Sunday, December 14, 2008 at 0:22:11
Mêmê, I have no idea why Ab needs $600? He's just a kid...a crazy kid. He probably wants it for food. So, if you can try to get him that money. He's gonna eat till he's sick. ha ha. I miss you mêmê.
Mafifi
- Wednesday, December 10, 2008 at 10:0:54
Mêmê, I have know idea why Ab needs $600? He's just a kid...a crazy kid. He probably wants it for food. So, if you can try to get him that money. He's gonna eat till he's sick. ha ha. I miss you mêmê.
Mafifi
- Wednesday, December 10, 2008 at 10:0:15
hi MEME iam not going to say anything crazy today but tell god i need 600 dollars plzzzzz.... because like if i pray its going to take like 3 years for me to get like 1 dollar soo yea can you ask him plzz if its not a problem and YOUR DREAM HAS NOT ENDED AND WILL NEVER END UNTIL GOD COMES BACKK..LOVE YOU MEME I MISS YOU SO MUCH..BYE
abraham bertoni <abrahambertoni@yahoo.com>
brooklyn, United States - Monday, December 8, 2008 at 21:16:1
Good Morning Mêmê. I just learned that an old, very close friend is preparing to take the journey home. Please make preparations for them. I know you and Mom will line up all the angels to greet them at the pearly gate. Please make the crossover smooth for them. You've been up there 6 months now so I know you have pull. Wow...you guys are going to have so much fun. Dancing and praising his name. Thanks again for the chat. I am so excited. I miss you so much. It won't ever be the same but I'm glad you're watching. Love you!
Mafifi
- Monday, December 8, 2008 at 9:22:50
YEAH!!!!!! I saw you in my dream last night! You spoke to me! I know you had to make special arrangements to do that. Glad you did. I always knew I was your favorite. PLEASE PLEASE go tell Tante Rhode. lol Thank you so much for the hug. I am so happy right now. The only thing that would make it better is if you were here. Miss you much!
Mafifi
- Sunday, December 7, 2008 at 15:21:15
YEAH!!!!!! I was you in my dream last night! You spoke to me! I know you had to make special arrangements to do that. Glad you did. I knew I was your favorite. PLEASE PLEASE go tell Tante Rhode. lol Thank you so much. I am so happy right now. The only thing to make it better is if you were here. Miss you much!
Mafifi
- Sunday, December 7, 2008 at 14:41:47
Hey Grandma.. How is it going?? I already know the answer to that question and its GREAT!! However, while your great im ok not even fine just ok! Thanksgiving was great i wish you were there.. Everyone had fun and laughed alot!! However, in the beginning it wasnt soo pleasant. When i woke up that morning i felt so sad to the point that i felt that it was like someone stabbed me in the heart thats how sad i was. I didnt even want to go and help out in the temple with the Thankgiving dinner but i went anyway. And it REALLY helped out. To see the smiles on peoples face when they got a hot home cooked meal was like the icing on the cake. It really felt weird without you there but thats just something that Im going have to work on its going to take a while but im going to try.I miss you soo much that its improper!! I Love you and Miss you the puzzle on my life will NEVER again be complete! Love you!!!
Katiana Joseph
- Friday, December 5, 2008 at 19:7:21
iam not crazy..lol i think..lol but meme i miss you like OD i love you and yea i miss you...
abraham bertoni <abrahambertoni@yahoo.com>
brooklyn, United States - Thursday, December 4, 2008 at 17:5:32
Mêmê, I can't believe I'm doing this without you!
Mafifi
- Wednesday, December 3, 2008 at 19:28:40
I know I'm a little late, but its been crazy lately. Thanksgiving this year was nice. It was hard for me at first because I was not exactly looking forward to going to your place. It was my first time there since, well, you know and it was hard. I went straight into the room where we last talked and I could smell you as if you were right there. I just felt your presence there. Would would have been happy to see Zach and Gabby there with me. It was nice to see the family laughing and bugging out. I Miss you, we miss you. Even though you weren't there, I'm thankful for all the times that you were there. You're so missed, I wish I hate to sound cliché, but I wish I had said I love you more, because I really did and do.
Jean-Jean
- Wednesday, December 3, 2008 at 17:3:28
Meme, I wish you were here to share all the excitement. Its not the same without you. I miss you so much it hurts. Please help me, Im finding it difficult to breathe again...
Mafifi
- Wednesday, December 3, 2008 at 0:10:55
Meme as you can see Abraham is still crazy. Ti garcon sa te tonbe sur tet li! But seriously Meme...I miss you soooo much. I love you
Mafifi
- Monday, December 1, 2008 at 19:38:48
hi meme iam hungry you hungry too ohh yea i no you guys up there dont get hungry well lets see i have not been here for a long time so i have alot to tell you i cooked for thanksgiving no iam just playin my mom did i would never try to mess up the food on a day like thanksgiving. my sister is not growing she is the same way as when you left. ok for real for real when are you coming back like for real guess wat i go to the temple on thurdays. it ok its just the pastors they get really wats the word boring at times but after when sr.rode starts speaking what ever it goes a little somethin like sadaloda nowsts yea thats wat she say ummmm come down so we can talk some more ok because my computer iz acting up and like we really need to talk and one more thing do u speak spanish because iam going to fail if someone does not help me so yea anytime you want to stop by and you no give me the answers for any test feel free ok...lol well this is good bye for now ill see you tomorrow or today thats if you have time ok is jesus clear did you see him already is he tall strong does he work out ok i really leaving this time byeeeee... wait where do you sleep are you right next to me right now do you eat up there like for real because my moms food is like omg and like i still want to be able to eat in heaven like for real ok ok ok iam leavin ill leave room for other people byeeeeeee i love youuuuu.......
abraham bertoni <abrahambertoni@yahoo.com>
new york, brooklyn - Monday, December 1, 2008 at 15:49:21
Well Meme, just as Frero said you were terribly missed last night. But it was weird because it wasnt a sad atmosphere. We all felt your presence. We joked about old times. You were truly missed but your blessing was the icing on the cake.
Mafifi
- Friday, November 28, 2008 at 19:13:0
Hey Meme how are you I know I know its been a while but ive been working pretty hard you knw taking care of my household. I just wanted to say I love you and you were truly missed tonight at thanksgiving dinner, but you would've been matter fact I knw you are so happy . The family decided to do one last dinner at your house and everyone was there laughing about the old days, and you knw the brought up the cheese cake situation I mean every single family was there wih some exception, but we made sure we lifted you up and ate like a champion.:)
Frero
- Friday, November 28, 2008 at 2:22:14
Hey MeMe coming through to show your page some love. I miss you.
"Neo" Nemuel Hilaire <matrixboy688@yahoo.com>
Dover, DE, 1 - Monday, November 24, 2008 at 20:52:40
Mèmè....today we come united just as you instructed. Help us all use the talents God has given every single one of us. We all miss you so very much
MEME
- Sunday, November 23, 2008 at 11:29:40
Soooooo. Six months huh? Wowo this was the longest shortest 6 months I have ever past. It is hard everyday. Some are worst than others. I am trying to adjust to all that has taken place in the past year. On January 27th was the last time you cooked for all of us. It was funny Rasheen still talks about you stealing the cheesecake. Meme tattie and I knew it was you. Haha. You and Junior's Cheesecake had a special relationship. One that was too close if you ask me!!! Well my test is coming up on December 6th I feel that I am pretty prepared. I am nervous though. I have my applications ready to go out I am applying to 26 lawschools, can you believe it? I figure what do I have to lose. I have everything to gain.I feel like we haven't spoken in so long. i know we speak in the morning but guess what? WE HAVE A BLACK PRESIDENT!! and he is handsome. I guess my vote does count. Don't worry I voted for you.I wrote you a note but I will give it you on Christmas. Well I have had a lot on my mnid and I just need to hear your voice. Just need some sort of direction. Although I may have fallen on my head as a child I can still process your advice. I have so many questions so many questinos but I will ask you tonight. well I love you, pray for me and please stop pinching me, I know its you. i love you again. Thanks for the shoulder to lean on.
Choubouloutte <TheFutureOfLaw@yahoo.com>
Brooklyn, New York - Thursday, November 20, 2008 at 21:56:48
6 months since I've had this loneliness/void/emptiness that ONLY my MEME can feel!I MISS YOU . LOVE YOU .
tasch
- Wednesday, November 19, 2008 at 21:43:40
Mémé it was very difficult to walk away and leave you alone in the cemetery. I know you don't approve...but I did it for me. I miss you so very much. I love you more now especially since I can't tell you face to face. Sure glad I told you as many times as I did when you were on earth.
Mafifi
- Wednesday, November 19, 2008 at 17:25:55
Mémé it was very difficult to walk away and leave you alone in the cemetery. I know you don't approve...but I did it for me. I miss you so very much. I love you more now especially since I can't tell you face to face. Sure glad I told you as many times as I did when you were on earth.
Mafifi
- Wednesday, November 19, 2008 at 17:25:20
Gone But Not Forgotten!
Mafifi
- Wednesday, November 19, 2008 at 9:42:38
Gone But Not Forgotten!
Mafifi
- Wednesday, November 19, 2008 at 9:42:31
Gone But Not Forgotten!
Mafifi
- Wednesday, November 19, 2008 at 9:42:26
Wow Meme 6 months already....I just can't believe it. I don't need to tell you how things are. I am confident that in Jesus' name they will get better. We miss you more then you imagine. l Love You MEME.
Mafifi
- Wednesday, November 19, 2008 at 9:27:59
Today, was a bitter sweet day. Sweet because I was able to see another year, my 31st and bitter because you weren't here to give me my first prayer of my new year. For as long as I could rememeber, you may not have had anything to give me, but you always had a prayer of growth, words of encouragement and sometimes a little money for me. It was really hard to even look forward to this morning knowing that I wouldn't get that call before church or go see you after church. I look back on the last 30 years of my life and you were there. I hate to have to look forward to the next 30 without you, but I'm in good hands. I've been blessed with a woman that you knew that I'd be happy with. I didn't realize how happy she would make me, but I know now. She's a great mom, friend and my wife. She is a blessing. Miss you Meme, I really miss you!
Jean-Jean
Brooklyn, USA - Sunday, November 16, 2008 at 21:31:27
Hi Mèmè,Zach got so big... He speaks french and english he mixes the words and makes some up like broké (lol) for broken in english and brisé in french lol. He says NO maman all the time and dally instead of daddy. He is too much! I can't wait to have baby number two. I won't have seven like you did and my maman Jojo did. Although with Zach I feel like I have 3 already.Talk to you soon! We miss you sooooo much.Bisous
Gabrielle Merveille
New York, USA - Saturday, November 15, 2008 at 4:27:14
Hey Meme...dont worry I havent forgotten you. Im just holding out to tell you good news. I really, really miss you.By the way, yesterday I heard your voice singing this song to me. I was very down so it really helped. Cant wait till I actually dream of you. Miss you more and more every day!
Mafifi
- Saturday, November 15, 2008 at 0:18:22
Meme, I've come to realize that you had so many things that I needed to pay attention to. You held in so much to protect us, protect me. I'm doing the best that I can to give in to how I feel, but I know that it wont fix anything. I remember you saying, Jean-Wesley, fé respo'w! What you didn't tell me was why, who or how. All those are being answered right now. Its amazing, what's hidden will always come to light!Love you Meme!
Jean-Jean
- Sunday, November 9, 2008 at 3:9:18
THIS IS THE DAY WHICH THE LORD HAS MADE!YES GOD CAN!WE MISS U
tasch <tcoeur@optonline.net>
- Wednesday, November 5, 2008 at 20:38:2
Meme, guess whatYES WE CAN and WE DID!!Obama is PRESIDENT!!!!!!!!!!!!I wish you were here to see it.
Mafifi
- Wednesday, November 5, 2008 at 7:28:5
Hey Meme, today is a historic day wish you were here to share in this moment of change. There are a lot of other things changing that you should also be here to see...love you!
Jean-Wesley
Brooklyn, - Tuesday, November 4, 2008 at 17:40:57
Meme...I have no idea what Benjamin is talking about. Ha, Ha, HaI miss you so much!
Mafifi
- Monday, November 3, 2008 at 14:30:16
DEAR MEME I AM SO SAD THAT YOU PASSED AWAY. BUT IN CONGRATS IT IS ALMOST THANKSGIVING YOU AND JESUS WILL SEE J.C. IN YOUR OLD HOME. AFTER WE ARE GOING TO PRAY THE MIRACLES THAT HE HAS DONE FOR J.C.
BENJAMIN JOSEPH <kfny25@aol.com>
- Saturday, November 1, 2008 at 18:2:0
By the way Meme. It was EXTREMELY difficult to enter your bedroom in Haiti. Evans cried like a baby. I cried harder! Your scent is faint but still exist in your clothes. Your bedroom is just the way you left it when we last visited in December. You were so smart to have purchased the house. Each day I realize that you must have known your time with us was growing short. If I knew then, what I know now...I would just have kissed you alot more and NEVER go to sleep. I wouldnt have wanted to miss a single second with you. Oh, one more things...that night, I would have moved your chair closer to the stairs so you could get a sneak peak.
Mafifi
- Saturday, November 1, 2008 at 13:44:47
Meme, se pa bli-ya mouin bli-ya ou. Mouin pa kapab prale konye ya. I miss you more today, then I did yesterday. I love you Meme
Mafifi
- Saturday, November 1, 2008 at 13:34:46
Mèmè this morning I forgot to tell you that our church wedding is coming up on Jan 24th 2009. I am very excited! We remembered what you told us about the haters and jealous people and you were SOOOO right. People you would think would be happy for you are just not! lol but you know what it makes me laugh. Mwen mim mwen konin sé pou mariage célébrité paparazzi ap essayé gin information. I must be one! I love you and I really wish you were here right now.
Gabrielle Merveille
Montréal, Canada - Tuesday, October 28, 2008 at 13:10:26
Wow Mèmè, si tu étais là j'aurais eu tant de choses à te dire. Tout ce que j'ai à dire pour l'instant est que tu avais raison sur plusieurs points.
Gabrielle Merveille
Montreal, Canada - Tuesday, October 28, 2008 at 9:39:47
MEME your DREAM has become OUR DREAM and WE won't rest until it becomes a REALITY ! I love you and miss you each day! I went in your room in haiti and that was difficult I still have yet to go to your house in N.Y . I will ......... I MUST!
natascha coeur <tcoeur@optonline.net>
B'klyn, ny - Monday, October 27, 2008 at 0:43:26
Hello Meme, I tried to stay away today. I am trying very hard not to cry. Handel, Tanisha and Kiki represented you today. You would have been very proud. You would have also been very proud of the week revival at the temple. IT WAS AWESOME! I went every night AND got there early. Woodley joined me on Friday night. It was nice to have him there. Pastor Malory simply raised the roof! It was UNBELIEVALBE! You would have enjoyed it. I hope the God allowed you a sneak peek. Meme I really cant believe it’s already been 5 months! The other night I went driving around in the Jewish neighborhoods looking for little houses outside; just as we did last year. I miss you soooo much. Love you and I miss you more today then I did yesterday.
Mafifi
- Sunday, October 19, 2008 at 23:31:42
Hello Meme,I tried to stay away today. I am trying very hard not to cry. Handel, Tanisha and Kiki represented you today. You would have been very proud. You would have also been very proud of the week revival at the temple. IT WAS AWESOME! I went every night AND got their early. Woodley joined me on Friday night. It was nice to have him there. Pastor Malory simple raised the roof! It was UNBELIEVALBE! You would have enjoyed it. I hope the God allowed you a sneak peak. Meme I really cant believe its already been 5 months! The other night I went driving around in the Jewish neighborhoods looking for little houses outside; just as we did last year. I miss you soooo much. Love you
Mafifi
- Sunday, October 19, 2008 at 23:28:57
Hey Grandma!!! I know i haven't wrote in a long time..That was beacause my computer was not working!! Well today has been 5 months since you've been gone! Its crazy how time has gone by. Theres not a day that goes by and i dont think about you! I wish i could hug you again and this time dont let go!! However death stands in the way of that!! I miss you soo much!! I still cry at night when i think about you! I wished that you would have never died but there are things i can not control and that was one of them!! I miss you and i Love you!!
Katiana Joseph <dgqgal2@yahoo.com>
- Sunday, October 19, 2008 at 15:50:24
Good Morning Meme.Happy 66 Baptism Anniversary! I know this date was more important then your own birthday. I miss you more today then I did yesterday. Love you.
Mafifi
- Friday, October 17, 2008 at 9:8:34
I understand better the key to your succes...faith in none other than God, not man, but God! I miss you Meme!
Jean-Jean
- Friday, October 17, 2008 at 1:17:39
Meme, I got the job, I got the job, I got the job!!!!One year, One month and One day later! It was realllllly tough. But spending the last year of your life by your side every single day...was worth it. I miss you so much. You would be jumping for joy right now....Sr. Margo did it for you. Its AMAZING how her actions resembles you so much. I love you grandmama. Cant wait to see you again. Im gonna hug you so tight I would let go for a long time. Okay...speak with you soon.
Mafifi
- Thursday, October 16, 2008 at 9:10:32
Meme, Great news I GOT THE JOB!!!!!! One down....one to go!!I miss you more then every! Love you
Mafifi
- Wednesday, October 15, 2008 at 16:43:40
Ti Val, Whats up I miss you so much, Emelyne and I talk about the good old days like every night, when we first started dating and we use to goto ur house every sunday after church, and u use to always tell Emelyne pou re ti ye monge pou Frero oh oh! :)Man you are so funny u always had jokes even in the worse situations. Anyhow were doing great oh I never told you I brought Emelyne a fish his name is Ferdinand but we call him fern! I guess you can say thts our pet but im trying to get a puppy shhhhh im still tryimg to figure out how to tell Emelyne, but anyways everything is great im being as strong as you taught me to be but sometimes i slip up its not crying or anything its just like i just wanna call you sometimes and talk about nothing just like we use to. Sometimes I just wanna kiss and squeeze ur cheeks until u pinch me man and it hurt! Meme eversince i've been married im now understanding what you use to tell me, but you knw what married life is the besT, (hi H*t*r} its funny b/c not alot of people...... let me leave it at tht but ur frero is doing great and looking good may I add, I mean I always knew I was ur best looking grandson but wow its becoming un-fair because ur not here to tell the others that they were, wow u were always good at tht! Anyhow I think about u constantly tell mommie tht ti gason li ap menen!2 timothy 4 v 7-8
Frero <Acoeur21@yahoo.com>
Home, - Thursday, October 9, 2008 at 22:2:7
Mêmê, I'm not going to write anymore until I have good news to tell you. I miss you more today then I did a minute ago. Love you. Hope to write reallllllly soon.
Mafifi
- Thursday, October 9, 2008 at 18:27:46
Meme, I just cant anymore.
Mafifi
- Monday, October 6, 2008 at 16:11:7
Wish you were here! You'd have the right thing to say.
Jean-Jean
- Monday, October 6, 2008 at 11:15:11
YOU ARE MISSSSSSSSSSSED A GREAT DEAL!I WANT TIME TO STAND STILL BECAUSE THERE IS SO MANY LITTLE THINGS THAT ARE GOING ON AND YOUR NOT HERE TO PUT YOUR 2 CENTS INTO IT. WE LOVE SO MUCH IT HURTS.NOW I REALIZE HOW MUCH PAIN YOU WERE GOING THRU!
natascha coeur <tcoeur@optonline.net>
B'klyn, ny - Sunday, October 5, 2008 at 23:34:35
hey MEME i bored i have nothin to do can i get your number so we can talk or something or ask god for me so i can come up and spend the night i for real. oh yea one more thing i learn how to make chicken yuppp i know a boy cooking yup MEME iam going to show you all my skill when i get up there orrrrrrrrrrrrr u can ask god for me to come up today and we can spend the night together oh you should have came down today for real because tHE temple it was how can i say this it was hottt alot of people was just flying in the air and just saying googoabhdognbbdja sadfgwahfigbajgi and you know what happens at the temple ohhh you know what why dont you come down next week you can sit on the 3 chairs that you got you can sit in the middle or something because your spot is not there anymore yupppp me too idk why they move to paino i was mad too i know how you feel if you want my number so we can talk just ask god cause he know everything ummm lets see so hows up there has anything changed from the last time i wrote to you ok your Mafifi said iam crazy..lol but iam not i just want to know if theres food up there so when we get up there i can hook you uppppppppppppppppppppppppppppp remember i got you oh MEME remember the time you beat me and then i was crying and then right after you beat me you told me you love me i really dont know were iam going with this but yea that really hurt idk why....lol and i love you too but it still hurt please dont beat me in heaven and can you tell god i want to grow because iam only 5'8 iam short thanks remember call me or give me your number and do you use 1718 up there just like us or you got a cell and you use 347 ok ok ill leave you now i know iam taking alot of space sorry byeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
abraham bertoni <abrahambertoni@yahoo.com>
brooklyn, U.S.A - Saturday, October 4, 2008 at 18:17:1
hey MEME i bored i have nothin to do can i get your number so we can talk or something or ask god for me so i can come up and spend the night i for real. oh yea one more thing i learn how to make chicken yuppp i know a boy cooking yup MEME iam going to show you all my skill when i get up there orrrrrrrrrrrrr u can aske god for me to come up today and we can spend the night together oh you should have came down today for real because to temple it was how can i say this it was hottt alot of people was just flying in the air and just saying googoabhdognbbdja sadfgwahfigbajgi and you know what happens at the temple ohhh you know what why dont you come down next week you can sit on the 3 chairs that you got you can sit in the middle or something because your spot is not there anymore yupppp me too idk why they move to paino i was mad too i know how you feel if you want my number so we can talk just ask god cause he know everything ummm lets see so hows up there has anything changed from the last time i wrote to you ok your Mafifi said iam crazy..lol but iam not i just want to know if theres food up there so when we get up there i can hook you uppppppppppppppppppppppppppppp remember i got you oh MEME remember the time you beat me and then i was crying and then right after you beat me you told me you love me i really dont know were iam going with this but yea that really hurt idk why....lol and i love you too but it still hurt please dont beat me in heaven and can you tell god i want to grow because iam only 5'8 iam short thanks remember call me or give me your number and do you use 1718 up there just like us or you got a cell and you use 347 ok ok ill leave you now i know iam taking alot of space sorry byeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
abraham bertoni <abrahambertoni@yahoo.com>
brooklyn, U.S.A - Saturday, October 4, 2008 at 18:11:45
Meme, everything is falling apart. I'm tired and disgusted. Today is the 1st.. I just don't know what to do! I miss you more today then I did yesterday. Love you.
Mafifi
- Wednesday, October 1, 2008 at 8:54:28
Good Morning Meme,Yesterday was Gerry's birthday and today is Kiki's birthday and I told them both Happy Birthday for you. Kiki misses you terribly. I wish I could take away his pain. It hurted me to hear him say that. It has to get better soon. Miss you more today then I did yesterday. Love You.
Mafifi
- Tuesday, September 30, 2008 at 8:10:15
Hello again,Dinner went well. Everyone was pleased with dinner. I paid attention to small details just as you taught us. His family was very impressed. I am exhausted now but must clean up a huge mess. I'll tell you more later. I miss you more today then I did yesterday. Love you
Mafifi
- Sunday, September 28, 2008 at 0:8:21
Mêmê, today is the 25th...please send help soon. I love you and I miss you more today then I did yesterday.
Mafifi
- Thursday, September 25, 2008 at 8:24:4
Hello Mêmê,I dont know how to describe today...it was interesting to say the least. On a brighter note, Suzy is learning her colors. She understands yellow and red. She says yellow banana and red apple over and over again. Its too cute. Wish you were here to enjoy it. Maybe Suzy would have taught you a word or two in English (ha, ha) By the way, I dont know if we told you but we all knew you understood English far more then you were leading us to believe. Miss you more today then I did yesterday. Cant wait to see you again. Love you.
Mafifi
- Wednesday, September 24, 2008 at 22:53:36
Hello Mêmê,I woke up and got to the temple very early this morning. I just felt the need. I made a quick stop to get Sr. Margo something. I feel like she’s the only link left to you, and so I have to take care of her. I wonder Mêmê, are you just a little bit jealous? I know you’re not. But if that were me…I would be jealous. You know how jealous I am. I don’t know why but it bugs me went people from the temple refer to you as Mêmê. I’m not referring to J.C. or L’armee Celeste and close friends like that. I mean people who just come to the temple occasionally. You should hear them when they are testifying…I saw Mêmê, or Mêmê did this and Mêmê did that. Whatever happened to Sr. Valmé? I guess they feel so close to you. You are a very lovable person. Mêmê, si mouin di ou jan moun avey weye ou, ou va dim mati! I would really want the chance to hug you, even if it’s in my dreams. I’m still waiting by the way. I am waiting patiently because when it happens…it will be GREAT!!!
Mafifi
- Tuesday, September 23, 2008 at 19:4:23
Hello Mêmê,Hope you are doing well...thats funny I know you are doing well. I had a long talk today and for the first time I asked why out loud. I came very close to questioning God. But I didn't. I miss you so much. While I haven't forgotten the sound of your voice, I am begining to forget your scent. I will try to fix that soon. Love you
Mafifi
- Monday, September 22, 2008 at 22:3:46
Just wanted to say that you are missed. Zach is doing well. He really loves school, you should see him with his bookbag. He's taking class pictures next week and you should be getting one to put on your mirror with all the other grandkids and great grandkids. We'll make sure he looks really nice! I didn't know that being a father would be like this. I didn't know that being a husband would be like this. Sacrifice seems to be the name of the game. You sacrificed so much and you never complained, I still wonder how did you do it? Miss you!
Jean-Jean
- Monday, September 22, 2008 at 13:38:22
Good Morning Meme,I had a good time yesterday. My friend Raquel came by the house for dinner. She spoke about how time flies by. She recalls coming to the house last November to drop off the clothes and toys for the kids in Haiti. She spoke about how healthy and full of life you looked. She said she couldn’t believe you passed away. You showed no sign of someone who was getting ready to exit this world. We chatted for hours. It was great seeing her. She kept saying something about me changed but she's not quite sure. I just seemed different. Not like my usual self...what does she expect. My joy, my reason for living has gone. Meme, I am truly not a happy person...I just exist.
Mafifi
- Sunday, September 21, 2008 at 11:53:22
Hello Meme,This morning, I began writing to you but grew too sad and started crying. But I can’t have the day end without acknowledging you. I miss you so much.
Mafifi
- Friday, September 19, 2008 at 15:42:27
Hey MeMe Comin Thru 2 show you and your page some love
"Neo" Nemuel Hilaire <matrixboy688@yahoo.com>
Dover Delaware, 1 - Friday, September 19, 2008 at 14:8:58
Hey MeMe Comin Thru 2 Show Your Page and You Some Love
"Neo" Nemuel Hilaire <matrixboy688@yahoo.com>
Dover, Delaware..., - Friday, September 19, 2008 at 14:2:4
4 MONTHS AND IT HURTS EVEN MORE EVERY SECOND THAT PASS!I LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU!
natascha coeur <tcoeur@optonline.net>
B'klyn, ny - Friday, September 19, 2008 at 6:58:26
Meme...you would have really be proud and happy to see Suzy pray. She asked everyone to hold hands, lowered her head and closed her eyes and started mumbling something for a good minute! When she was done she said something like.."blah, blah blah I pray...AMEN". Then she raised her head. We have NO IDEA what else she said but Im sure only Suzy, you and God understood. SHE MADE MY DAY!
Mafifi
- Thursday, September 18, 2008 at 9:57:29
Good Morning Meme,Sr. Margo called to check up on me yesterday. You would really be proud of her. She gave me a lecture and told me to constantly sing #20 Kreole in the Chant D'esperance. She was a good student. I cried when she sang the song to me...as if I’ve never heard the song before. She even made me repeat after her... too cute. “Tout sa ou ta fe”. Well today is that day. With the exception of the month of May, I think September is probably one of the saddest months for me. I remember Tantante Myrlande and I going to the hospital with you. We had to be in the hospital by 7am but I think you were up and dressed ready to go by 6am. You never liked being late to anything. You were so beautiful that day. Your legs were crossed, as usual, and you were upset that you didn’t have a chance to drink your coffee. Ha, ha. I don’t think I had a good cup of coffee since you passed away. Vio is not here to make it...besides I don’t think I’d enjoy it as much. I loved drinking coffee with you in the morning. You would have toast with a little butter and I would have toast with peanut butter. You always were amazed and how many Haitian habits I had even though I was not raised in Haiti. You would ask me, “bon ke moun ou we kap fe bagay sa ou?” I would answer I don’t know, coffee, bread and peanut butter in the morning just seems right. Meme, I love you so much and I miss you so, so, so very much. I cant wait to run into your arms one day.
Mafifi
- Thursday, September 18, 2008 at 9:47:32
there is sooooooo much I need to tell you about Suzy ! She is really God's gift she really brighten OUR day.Meme you would so proud Suzy prayed @ our Sunday dinner.We miss you and love you.
natascha coeur <tcoeur@optonline.net>
B'klyn, ny - Wednesday, September 17, 2008 at 21:20:26
Hello Meme,Sr. Margo and Sr. Monique came by the house to pray with me. It was so sad to see L'armee Celeste here without you. I could not help but to cry. I went to get a Bible to read from and when I opened it, I saw it was that Bible you gave me and had Sr Margo, Mia, Bobby and Tantane Mirielle sign. The signing date was today Sept 16 and the year was 2006. If I knew then, what I know now.... I miss you. Continue to rest in peace.
Mafifi
- Tuesday, September 16, 2008 at 20:58:30
Hello Meme.Dinner at Tasha's tonight was interesting...we'll talk about that some other time. By the way, I did some investigating and regarding that hair thing.... well you were anointed and that’s why!!!! I feel soooo much better now. I love you and need you more each day. Oh and another thing, thanks for helping me find the words to have that little talk with you know who. It’s getting easier and we’re growing closer each day. Love you!
Mafifi
- Monday, September 15, 2008 at 0:4:34
Good morning Choubouloutte, I am getting stronger everyday. I just wanted to say thanks for coming in on Wednesday with me. I know you had a lot of things to do but you always made time for me. Everyone is helping Mommy right now. I really didn't expect it.The doc said I will be okay, can you believe he asked me if I wanted to see that ugly thing? I said NO!!! Well as you know December 6th is the day. Well I know you will be there I am taking classes and I am kicking major butt right now. So I fell very much on my way to being fully prepapared. So december will be a piece of cake I am shooting for NYU or Fordham so keep your finger crossed. Well I love you and I miss you and thanks again for my family. They really came through with 5 seconds left on the clock. thatthatwwilthat
Tanisha R. Michel <TheFutureOfLaw@yahoo.com>
Brooklyn, New York - Sunday, September 14, 2008 at 9:0:32
Hello how are you? I know, I know...you're doing great! I miss you more and more each day. I need advice and youre the only one I can speak to. Karine, dreamt the other night that you were in this BEAUTIFUL house and you were walking around singing; you were very happy. I know that dream was real. I have no doubt that youre happy but Meme do you ever think of me and miss me...even for 1/2 a second?
Mafifi
- Saturday, September 13, 2008 at 16:29:11
Good morning,I heard you loud and clear...sorry we didnt have a chance to wash your hair before you passed away.
Mafifi
- Friday, September 12, 2008 at 7:39:5
Good Morning Meme,For now, all I can say is I love you and miss you. Anything else would just be too much to put on your website. Speak with you later.
Mafifi
- Thursday, September 11, 2008 at 11:27:50
Good morning Meme. Yesterday was okay. Ms. Tatiana and I sat in my car reminiscing about the past. She keeps referring to that time I helped you on the recliner (you were so heavy lol) and you looked at me, gently touched my check and kissed me. She was touched by my patience with you and your love for me. I know that after God you loved me more then anyone on this earth. Your homegirl, Sr. Margo called to check up on me. As usual she to prayed and spoke right into the voicemail as if I was on the other line. Ha Ha… She told me to read my Bible religiously because that’s the key to life and if I find it too hard to pray then sing a song. Then she went on to give me a few suggestions as to what songs to sing. Meme, you would be so proud of her. You taught her well and she learned well. She is so cute. Please ask angel Gabriel to watch over her. She’s my new grandmother now and I can’t lose her just yet! Well, as you remember today is Tante Ketty and Chico’s anniversary; who could forget 9/9/89! They are truly a model couple. I would be blessed if I have a marriage like that…actually my marriage will be BETTER! Don’t ask me how, but I know if you have anything to do with it it’ll be great. Well, I have to go and make a few calls (you know). Please send help soon. Thank you in advance! I love you so much and I miss you more.
Mafifi
- Tuesday, September 9, 2008 at 10:41:31
hi meme iam bored down here when can i cum up i miss u umm can u ask god so i an come up please we can have a sleep over or something and i come back down in like two days or something what do u say and if i cant come up then can u come down or something like for real ask god for me he love you to much t say no t you oh say hi to the angels for me and did u say hii to god for me and yes i need prayer but i dont need alot of prayer thank u very much...lol well i have to go do my homework anytime u no u want to come down and give me some answers ill be with open arms and ears...lol ok have fun up there byeeeeeeeeeee
abraham bertoni <abrahambertoni@yahoo.com>
brooklyn, u.s.a - Monday, September 8, 2008 at 16:25:16
Hello Meme. Tascha and I were speaking yesterday and you are truly missed in every sense of the word. There really is no one else like you. You cared about everyone’s well being. No one asks how you’re doing, how was your night, what are you eating, what do you have to eat, how are you managing things. I know we’re all grown adults but I guess you spoiled us all in that sense. I really think I need therapy because my mind is playing tricks on me. I want to see you again some day, that’s the only reason I continue to hang on otherwise there wouldn’t be much point. EVERY SINGLE TIME A REMEMBER YOU’VE PASSED AWAY I GET A KNOT IN MY THROAT AND A PAIN IN MY CHEST. I have no one to talk to because no one will understand my personal pain. Meme, it’s almost 4 months but I can still hear your voice in my head. If I close my eyes and think hard enough I can smell your scent. I have visions of you going down the stairs, I see you in your favorite white night gown. I can’t continue having trouble breathing again…later Meme.
Mafifi
- Sunday, September 7, 2008 at 12:46:8
Meme...sorry about the frame.
Mafifi
- Saturday, September 6, 2008 at 10:30:27
Good Morning, MemeYesterday, I cried and cried and cried some more. I cant believe a human body contains so much tears. I often wonder how I would behave or what I would say if I were in your shoes. But the words dont come to mind and my behavior is less then pleasing. I really do believe you were an angel on earth. I know you had to return home someday,but I just think it was too soon. God please forgive me. Im not saying your judgement was wrong...I just think two years or three would not have made a difference to you.
Mafifi
- Saturday, September 6, 2008 at 10:29:33
Well Meme, its not a dream! I woke up this morning and you did not.
Mafifi
- Friday, September 5, 2008 at 10:17:6
Meme I can't believe you're gone!!Its only a dream, Its only a dream, ITS ONLY A DREAM!!!!!
Mafifi
- Friday, September 5, 2008 at 0:37:30
Hello MemeIt’s about 2:30am and I am having a tough time falling asleep. It’s about that time…your second bathroom trip of the night. It’s been about a month and a half since I haven’t woken up at the 2:30 mark. I don’t really mind, I didn’t mind then. Actually, I feel as if it’s our time; just yours and mine. There are so many questions I still have to ask you. Today, well actually yesterday I was thinking…If I had any idea that May 19th, 2008 was your last day on earth, I would have kissed you more, hugged you longer, smelled you over and over again. While at the hospital, each night it was just you and I. If I knew how soon “that day” was approaching I would have rested my head right there on your legs. I use to be able to just look at your picture or think about you, shake my head and give a half smile. Don’t get me wrong, at times tears would just roll down my cheeks. Now, I get this unbearable pain in my chest when I think of you…just thinking of you. It hurts me too much now to simply think of you. Its like, I am intentionally causing myself pain. I could look at pictures of you with sadness but I was still able to look. Lately when I attempt to open the album and look at your picture…I can’t. I mean, it’s not like I begin to open it look at a few pictures and quickly close it. I am not successful at opening the book or computer at all! Okay, I have to stop now Meme, I’m sorry. I just can’t continue…my heart is growing too weak to handle this pain. Good night.
Mafifi
- Thursday, September 4, 2008 at 2:47:44
Hello Meme.Uncle Kyss is in town and stopped by the temple today. It was great seeing him and he misses you too. I recall when he visited before your passing. He said he was stopping by and you waited up all night. You felt the need to tell everyone that walked in the house that "Kyss is in town and will be stopping by the house". When he finally arrived the following day, you were besides yourself. I remember sitting amazed to see how you laid head to head and he played in your hair. I don't recall you EVER letting anyone play in your hair like that. I don't think you let your other kids play in your hair that way or that long. It was then that I realized how much you loved him. I mean, you always showed off about having 2 sons who are doctors and the other living in Haiti but I realized then how much you love him and that made me love him more. Well Meme, gotta go to bed now. As you already know, I love you so much and I miss you soooo much. Speak with you soon.
Mafifi
- Wednesday, September 3, 2008 at 23:45:38
Meme, I guess this is what they meant by saying God took you so we can serve him by ourselves! Wow ! This soooooooooooooo difficult, I live what Maffi feels when she said she gets pain in her chest when we relive a moment we spent with,but then relize it's just a memory and you are no longer with us ! WoW just saying that is UNREAL. When you were here and we needed something that ONLY GOD can provide we would only have to say something in passing and you already was on your knees.You had & have that direct contact with GOD that our prayers were answered quickly.Meme I pray and pray and pray instead of things getting better they are just getting worse! Meme you lived Great and spiritual life that's why God would answer your prayers faster.I need your ...........I NEED MY MEME!
natascha coeur <tcoeur@optonline.net>
B'klyn, ny - Tuesday, September 2, 2008 at 21:30:10
Meme...as you can see, Abraham B. still needs alot of prayer. Ha, Ha,Ha.
Mafifi
- Monday, September 1, 2008 at 22:32:36
Meme...as you can see, Abraham B. still needs alot of pray. Ha, Ha,Ha.
Mafifi
- Monday, September 1, 2008 at 22:31:22
Hello Meme...yesterday my mind was playing tricks on me!I guess its cause I miss you too much.
Mafifi
- Monday, September 1, 2008 at 22:30:8
hi MEME how you doing i just passed by to say hi how you doing well i dont think i should ask you that because you doing great up there i miss you so much your a grandmother to me because mine was not really there for me umm oh yea guess wat yup iam going to high school yup iam getting there not a man but iam getting there i have a very very very very deep voice now when i pick up the phone in the shop they know its not my father yup thats how deep it is so how you been up there i know you made alot of friends up there everyone likes you question is there food up there if there is then iam going to show you what i learned down here iam going to show you a little somthing something oh when i make it to heaven can i come to your house please i know its really really big i might get lost in there but ill find my way out somehow oh yea when are you coming back down to say hi i have not seen you in a long time are you young again because i have never seen you young oh when you get the time say hi to god for me because you know me and him look alike we like twins you know what i mean =) umm lets see oh me you and god have to talk i want him to make a house right next to yours if thats not a problem and i want a big big pool behind my house oh are angels tall like really really tall and what do you guys speak up there ummm oh yea iam taller then the last time you saw me dont worry you see how tall i got and can i come up today or something to sleep over because i have nothing to do down here it will be me you and god swimming and angels can come to if they want me you and god we going to have a swimming race to see who is faster i know i know god is going to win he always does even in games well me and you are going to put up a good fight right MEME right i dont no i think i might come in 2nd or you might but well see ok look we already know who is going to be first place so its like only me and you going to race oh yea rodney too i forgot he knows how to swim oh ok thats even better me you rodney and god yup thats how its going to be and after J.C is going to race well ill let you go have fun the angels and god and remember tell him i said hi and for real can i come up today so sleep over iam bored down here ask god for me ok thanks loveeeeeeeeee youuuuuuuuuuu missssssssssss youuuuuuuu remember come down soonnnnnnnnnn
abraham bertoni <abrahambertoni@yahoo.com>
brooklyn, United States - Sunday, August 31, 2008 at 22:29:24
hi MEME how you doing i just passed by to say hi how you doing well i dont think i should ask you that because you doing great up there i miss you so much you a grandmother to me because mine was not really there for me umm oh yea guess wat yup iam going to high school yup iam getting there not a man but iam getting there i have a very very very very deep voice now very when i pick up the phone in the shop they that its not my father yup thats how deep it is so how you been up there i know you mad alot of friends up there everyone likes you question is there food up there if there is then iam going to show you what i learned down here iam going to show you a little somthing something oh when i make it to heaven can i come to your house please i know its really really big i might get lost in there but ill find my way out somehow oh yea when are you coming back down to say hi i have not seen you in a long time are you young again because i have never seen you young oh when you get the time say hi to god for me because you now me and him look alike we like twins you know what i mean =) umm lets see oh me you and god have to talk i want him to make a house right next to yours if thats not a problem and i want a big big pool behind my house oh are angels tall like really really talk and what do you guys speak up there ummm oh yea iam taller then the last time you saw me dont worry you see how tall i got and can i come up today or something to sleep over because i have nothing to do down here it well be me you and god swimming and angels can come to if they want me you and god we going to have a swimming race to see who is faster i know i know god is going to win he always does even in games well me and you are going to put up a good fight right MEME right i dont no i think i might come in 2nd or you might but well see ok look we already know who is going to wim first place so its like only me and you going to race oh yea rodney too i forgot he knew how to swim oh ok thats even better me you rodney and god yup thats how its going to be and after J.C is going to race well tell me tell you go have fun with the angels and god ok byeeeeeeeeeeee i love you hope to see you soon and remember say hi to god for me ok loveeeeee youuuuuuuuuuuuuu
abraham bertoni <abrahambertoni@yahoo.com>
brooklyn, United States - Sunday, August 31, 2008 at 22:0:48
hi MEME how you doing i just passed buy yo say hi how you doing well i dont think i should ask you that because you doing great up there i miss you so much you a grandmother to me because mine was not really there for me umm oh yea guess wat yup iam going to high school yup iam getting there not a man but iam getting there i have a very very very very deep voice now very when i pick up the phone in the shop they that its not my father yup thats how deep it is so how you been up there i know you mad alot of friends up there everyone likes you question is there food up there if there is then iam going to show you what i learned down here iam going to show you a little somthing something oh when i make it to heaven can i come to your house please i know its really really big i might get lost in there but ill find my way out somehow oh yea when are you coming back down to say hi i have not seen you in a long time are you young again because i have never seen you young oh when you get the time say hi to god for me because you now me and him look alike we like twins you know what i mean =) umm lets see oh me you and god have to talk i want him to make a house right next to yours if thats not a problem and i want a big big pool behind my house oh are angels tall like really really talk and what do you guys speak up there ummm oh yea iam taller then the last time you saw me dont worry you see how tall i got and can i come up today or something to sleep over because i have nothing to do down here it well be me you and god swimming and angels can come to if they want me you and god we going to have a swimming race to see who is faster i know i know god is going to win he always does even in games well me and you are going to put up a good fight right MEME right i dont no i think i might come in 2nd or you might but well see ok look we already know who is going to wim first place so its like only me and you going to race oh yea rodney too i forgot he knew how to swim oh ok thats even better me you rodney and god yup thats how its going to be and after J.C is going to race well tell me tell you go have fun with the angels and god ok byeeeeeeeeeeee i love you hope to see you soon and remember say hi to god for me ok loveeeeee youuuuuuuuuuuuuu
abraham bertoni <abrahambertoni@yahoo.com>
brooklyn, United States - Sunday, August 31, 2008 at 22:0:14
Good Morning Meme.We just dropped Tante Yolene off at the airport. It took all the energy I had so early in the morning to keep from crying. She prayed with us and gave us advice before leaving; just as you would have done. She doesn’t want to return in January because she’s afraid of the cold. I told her we’d get her a coat, scarf, boots, hat and gloves. She said no thank you! That reminded me of how I would bundle you up before going outside. When I would touch that last button on your coat you’d yell…”OKAY, OKAY”!!! Ha, Ha,. You would say I didn’t leave any room for a bone to break if you’d fall. It sounds so much funnier in Creole. “Ou pa men keytay yon ti place mem pou yon zou kase”! Well, it that time, I should go do our 9am prayer. We’ll chat later. I love you Meme.
Mafifi
- Sunday, August 31, 2008 at 9:9:8
Hello Meme,It’s been a while since I wrote to you. People tell me writing daily is not healthy and will only extend my grieving; as if I’ll ever get over grieving you! They tell me looking at your picture everyday and listening to your voice will only make things worse. So I took a little break to see if I would feel better. I didn’t break completely because your picture is in every room of my house, in my car and on my phone. But during the break things did not get better they only got worse. I lost the will to continue living. I lost the will to laugh, walk, bath, wash my hair, cook, clean … you name it. I lost the will to do everything. I tried to masquerade it but some family members saw straight through me. I still find it hard to believe you’ve passed away. Somebody needs to pinch me and wake me up from this very long dream. When I think about you full of life, I get a pain in my chest, when I think that you’ve passed away, I get a pain in my chest, when I think of your voice, the future without you… I get a pain in my chest! I miss you so much meme. Tante Yolene leaving tomorrow makes it even harder. She never replaced you, she didn’t even come close, but she was the closest thing to you and now she’s leaving too. Please help me.
Mafifi
- Sunday, August 31, 2008 at 1:29:29
I could use your advice right now. Nothing seems the same. Everyone is affected and it just doesn't feel right. The smiles are gone and we it's hard to move on. I wonder how did you do it, how? We're all hurting and missing you in our own way, God I know you're reading this, do something, please! We need you, the aunts, the uncles, the cousins, nieces and nephews. We all need you. Meme would devote her time to you for us, here we are Lord, HERE WE ARE!
Jean-Jean
- Thursday, August 28, 2008 at 15:58:59
Hi Meme it's been over a week since my b'day and I know you gave me my GIFT already BUT I ask you for TWO things and I still have not recieved anything? I just wanted to remind you I know you can ask GOD face to face.I love you and miss you
natascha coeur <tcoeur@optonline.net>
B'klyn, ny - Wednesday, August 27, 2008 at 21:15:18
Hello Meme, J.C celebrated their 36th year anniversary today. It was a nice service but I couldn’t really enjoy it. I tried but each song they sang, I could see you singing, dancing or raising your hands in the air to give praise to your God. I don’t know how the others do it? Pouchon came to service last night and Alta came down all the way from Rhode Island; I thought you’d be happy to know that. I know you must get tired of hearing this but I never get tired of saying it….I miss you soooooo much!
Mafifi
- Saturday, August 23, 2008 at 17:41:15
Hello Meme, please correct Frero. You would have NEVER told him that he's your favorite because EVERYONE knows that I was, I am and I always will be your favorite. What you probably did was smile and say you love all your grandkids. A very politically correct answer by the way...lol. Granted, he is also your Godson, so there might be a little soft spot there...but to call him your favorite. Ha, Ha, Ha Anyway, I just think its amazing how you could have so many people believing they were so special in your eyes. One, thing Frero did get right is that I miss you a whole lot. I dont know about the doing well part but I miss you, I miss you and I miss you some more.
Mafifi
- Thursday, August 21, 2008 at 11:26:16
Hi Ti-Val,Just want to say tht I Love You, havent spoken in a while I hope you understand im so distraceted being a married man :) and working wow u didnt tell me it was gonna be like this. But anyways im enjoying every minute. Meme guess wht Emelyne surprise me the other day and cooked ur famous Leguime(if I spelled tht right) or should I say leglime( :) but yeah im glad u told her the secret b4 you left and it was good even Tascha loved it, and she cooked sous pwa wow I need help with my creole. Basically wht im trying to is tht Im happy and 'ou lagay on bon ti bagay nan meh mwen'I love you my sweetie!Wow right about now you would be saying I love you to and not to tell Mafifi tht im your favorite, its only right I was born in ur hands!Love you mafifi!Oh and by the way Mafifi is doing well she misses you but were trying to keep her occupied with things to do!
Frero
work, - Thursday, August 21, 2008 at 9:5:1
Hello Meme, things really dont seem to look good. I am trying to keep a positive attitude but believe me its hard. You always say God doesnot give us more then we can bear. If that's the case, God must think Im a very strong woman like you! I miss you so much. I always knew it would be hard but I was not prepared for this. But I love you so much that I'm accepting it, if it means youre finally truly happy. See you soon.
Mafifi
- Wednesday, August 20, 2008 at 16:32:57
Mes sinceres condoleances a la famille eprouvee. la soeur valme a ete une tres grande servante de Dieu ,Elle reste et demeute inoubliable.She will be missed deeply. Love you sister Dane.
Danise jean Denis <djeandeis@vahoo.com>
Bergenfield NJ, USA - Tuesday, August 19, 2008 at 22:55:20
Hey Meme, Im sitting at my desk holding back tears because it been 3 months today that you went home. I can't even begin to tell you how much you are missed. So much going on and not going on at the same time. I still see you sometimes dancing and singing. I see and hear you praying a lot, I don't know what that means, but I will pray about it. I need some strength right now. I know I can't have yours, but I still need some. Its hard not complaining because nobody listens. I remember when Gabby and I came to tell you that we were getting married. I thought you ignored us, turns out you were worried about the fire truck passing outside and you still heard what we were saying...lolIf thats not multitasking I don't know what is. We all miss you! Zach is doing so well in school right now, he is growing and we're thankful. I'm not as mad anymore, but I still have my moments where I cry, smile and here you in my head saying somthing like, "Jean-Jean fé respe'w!" Miss you Meme!
Jean-Jean
Brooklyn, USA - Tuesday, August 19, 2008 at 13:23:15
If there were no gates of pearlIf there were no streets of goldIf there was no other worldAnd a land where we won't grow oldI'm not thinking about those sitesWon't be there to enjoy the viewI think heaven will be alrightAs long as Your there, as long as there is YouIf I never hear an angel singIn a far off holy landIf I never hear a joy bell ringSing a chorus in a Christian bandI'm not thinking about those sitesWon't be there to enjoy the viewI think heaven will be alrightAs long as Your there, as long as there is You...I miss you Meme. I know youre dancing your up there. Rest in peace
Mafifi
- Tuesday, August 19, 2008 at 9:51:34
If there were no gates of pearl, If there were no streets of gold. If there was no other world. And a land where we won't grow old...I'm not thinking about those sites. Won't be there to enjoy the view I think heaven will be alrightas long as your there, as long as there is you.If I never hear an angel sing. In a far off holy landIf I never hear a joy bell ring. Sing a chorus in a Christian band. I miss you Meme...
Mafifi
- Tuesday, August 19, 2008 at 9:45:37
Well Meme I can't believe today is exactly 3 months since you left me. I remember EVERYTHING as if it was just yesterday. I try not to ask "why" but today I had to ask him why? Why couldn't he have waited 6 more months? What was the rush? Today, I had a long talk with Vio. I really don't know how she does it.
Mafifi
- Tuesday, August 19, 2008 at 3:2:20
I missssss so MUCH! As I sit here I remember my B'day last year, I thank God we made the extra effort to go to Haiti.I love you . Meme THANK YOU for my GIFT! I will treasure it as I do so with My memories of you.
natascha coeur <tcoeur@optonline.net>
B'klyn, ny - Monday, August 18, 2008 at 19:9:44
Good Morning,Hello Meme, sorry we didn't speak yesterday but we were busy trying to surprise Tasha for her birthday. Turns out we were the ones she surprised, since she didn’t go to work as planned. Anyway, it wasn’t anything-big just family (ha, ha like our family is small) and it was last minute. But we had a good time, Tante Myrlande was acting silly, as usual, and made us all laugh. Well, as you know today is Tasha’s birthday and I know before passing you prepared a special blessing for her for today and all the birthday’s to come. I know if you were here you would have given her your famous behind the back, no look pass envelope. By the way Meme, hate to break it to you but we all know about your behind the back pass but it was a lot of fun watching think you were being sneaky. I love you Meme...I hope someday my grandchildren adore me just half as much as yours adore YOU! Rest in peace my love...
Mafifi
- Monday, August 18, 2008 at 9:40:33
Meme EVERYTHING HURTS my MIND,BODY,SOUL,most of ALL my HEART!I MISS YOU ENDLESSLY .Je T'aime TRES fort ta fille.
natascha coeur <tcoeur@optonline.net>
B'klyn, ny - Saturday, August 16, 2008 at 23:22:5
Good Morning my darrrrrrrrrrrrling,I miss you. Youre always on my mind.
Mafifi
- Saturday, August 16, 2008 at 9:18:10
Meme, Im trying to praise God in the good times and in the bad times. OH BOY ITS HARD! I really dont know how you did it. You made it look so EASY! Some say your voice is fading in there heads. Oh my gosh, I would be done if that ever happened to me. When I feel sad I get up and start doing your dance...but I cant continue because I just break down and cry. I want to praise him just as you did. Dance with me Meme...
Mafifi
- Friday, August 15, 2008 at 20:48:24
Hello Meme, I haven’t written to you in a few days. I am having a hard time and I just wish you were here for me to speak with. Today I was driving down Nostrand and came across that ice cream shop on the corner of Avenue J where we drove that night or should I say morning since it was 1am. You wanted ice cream but when we arrive you decided on a glass of warm milk. That young guy behind the counter happens to be Haitian and said he would be more then happy to give you a cup of warm milk. You were dress in your moomoo and your hair was braided the way you normally have it when you’re going to bed. That young gentleman said you reminded him of his grandmother and thought you were beautiful. I use to love walking with you and having people come up to me and say what a beautiful, graceful elderly woman you are. Now, I walk alone. I also drove by Nostrand and Avenue M and on that corner I had to pull over and cry. So many memories; I miss you so much. I am so lonely and no matter how hard anyone tries its still is not the same. I really would be satisfied to have you with me just one more day. But I would have to choose what day that would be and I know exactly what day I would choose. It would be the week after I would have given birth to my child. That way I could tell you that I was married, you could met your grandson and actually speak with him, you would see the pictures of the wedding and watch the videos, I would also have the honor of having my child held by you and receive their first blessing from you. You would feed him/her, tell me all the do’s and don’ts (again). Then Meme, I would truly be happy and satisfied…I wouldn’t stop crying but it would hurt a lot less.Well, I can’t undo what God has done. You are having the time of your life up there and I am left on earth to be miserable. Please take it away SOON. I love you and miss you terribly. Always your fifi..Mafifi
Mafifi
- Friday, August 15, 2008 at 17:27:53
Help me!!! I can't put on this face anywmore. Being two people is too much for me. I love you.
Choubouloutte <TheFutureOfLaw@yahoo.com>
Brooklyn, New York - Wednesday, August 13, 2008 at 14:29:28
Hey Meme how are you, wow its been a while since i've been on here> Well I think you can understand why im married now, and guess wht? Its great you would have been so proud of me to see how sexy I looked in tht church (lol) I miss you though but im glad I met Emelyne in ur house what a gift , you rock u knw tht. Well anyways here I am at work just thinking about you, I would probably sucking your cheeks right now until ud say 'a ti gason sote de van figem'Anyways im holding it down stay strong just like you!
Frero
work, - Wednesday, August 13, 2008 at 11:17:47
Hello Meme, I wish you were here. Times are really hard and I wish I had you here to speak with.
Mafifi
- Wednesday, August 13, 2008 at 10:0:12
MEME MISS YOU SOOOOOOOOO MUCH IT HURTS INSIDE & OUT. I NEED YOU!
natascha coeur <tcoeur@optonline.net>
B'klyn, ny - Tuesday, August 12, 2008 at 7:21:54
Hi Meme, last night I cried so hard I wet the entire pillowcase. JUST THE OTHER DAY YOU WERE RIGHT HERE WITH ME! I can still hear your sweet voice asking me to continue to be patient with you. I remember those 2 and 3 am rides we had in the hospital. We went from the 3rd floor to the basement to the lobby and even outside; the security guards grew to know us and paid us no mind. I remember how “the others” said I spoiled you and would do anything, take you anywhere and you loved it. If they didn’t want to take you for a stroll you just sat patiently in your chair and waited for me...cause you know I would. I recall those kisses you would give me on my forehead after I did something for you...as if I didn’t owe it to you. I recall that day you made me get on my knees and blessed me after I did something for you that you probably did a million times for me when I was a child. I still can’t believe that day...you blessed me, YOU BLESSED ME! I knew when day we would separate eventually but I really didn’t think it would be so soon. If I knew I would have kissed you even more. If I know I would NEVER close my eyes to sleep. If I knew I would, I don’t know what else I could have done but I would do so much more. I don’t know how I was able to hold it together during the preparations of your funeral. On that Monday, May 19th, 2008 at 9:42am I didn’t and couldn’t cry. I would sit up at night and think I was abnormal. My grandmother, my life, my everything is good and I cant even cry for her. But the moment we returned you to the ground the umbilical cord was severed. Now almost 3 months later, I cant stop crying. I am here in my house alone and I cant stop thinking about you. It’s far worse when I’m alone. I am finding it more and more difficult to stay alone in this house; please forgive me. Sometimes I feel to scream off the top of my lungs. It’s just too much. We shared too many memories...too many. I don’t know how Vio does it. Remember that praise marathon on TBN? We watched 2 weeks straight. You never got bored. I remember when that young preacher asked the viewers to stand right where they were and shout JESUS. All fragile and weak you were but found the strength to stand up and you shouted JESUS SAUVE'M, Sauvé peuple ou, sauvé petit moun yo, sauvé Haiti, sauvé temple la. You shook your hands in the air and didn’t realize how tired you were until it was over and you sat down. Then you asked me to quickly get you some water. I recall how you always crossed your legs when you sat. I would tell you how elegant you were and you always corrected me and said it just one leg lending support to the other. Meme, in 9 days you would have been buried for 3 months. I know this is gonna sound crazy but I still had faith you would resurrect. I have no doubt that God can do it if he wanted. That’s the kind of faith that you taught us, that’s the kind of faith that I have. Meme, I must go now but just for a while. I am finding it harder to breathe. I love you very very much. I have NO doubt you knew that. Speak with you soon...
Mafifi
- Sunday, August 10, 2008 at 14:3:5
Good night Meme. I love you. Rest in Peace!
Mafifi
- Friday, August 8, 2008 at 21:50:40
Good night Grandma! I love you so very very much. Miss you much.
Mafifi
- Friday, August 8, 2008 at 1:24:56
Hi Meme, I’m at the temple now and service is about to start...I can just see you now walking in on your tippy toes giving full respect to "The Boss". By the way Meme, just for the record I truly understand that you are not reading what I or any of my fellow grievers are writing. I can not speak for all but I know it just makes me feel a little better to express myself this way. So don’t worry the religion that you taught us is not twisted nor are we reading the Bible that you gave us upside down. You are in us and we will make you proud. They really should know that “petit tigre ce tigre”. "Petit-Petit tigre mem-m ce pi Réd"! I miss you Tigre!!
Mafifi
- Thursday, August 7, 2008 at 19:32:42
Meme...you still havent visited. Well its still early, Im going back to sleep and will wait. I love you
Mafifi
- Thursday, August 7, 2008 at 5:56:58
Meme, Im going to bed soon and I am waiting. By the way, thanks for taking away the 12:30 and 2:30am wake up calls. I am still up around 5:30am though...but please dont take that away. I want to hold on to that. I miss you so so much. Please, please visit tonight!!! Till then.
Mafifi
- Thursday, August 7, 2008 at 0:1:30
...By the way Meme, thanks for the song I heard you singing this morning. "Pi bon Zammi mouin gan ya se Jezu". It was nice to hear. But please visit me I WANT TO SEE YOU! because i miss you so much that's all. Good night
Mafifi
- Wednesday, August 6, 2008 at 23:24:45
Hi Meme, I think the other angels will be jealous when that day comes and all your grandkids come running to you. We'll tell you how much we missed you and how much we love you and ofcourse you'll answer..."Im love you too". Ha, ha."A la traka pou Fernande"! Miss you much.
Mafifi
- Wednesday, August 6, 2008 at 21:0:41
Whats goin' on MeMeI know your doing really good. I really miss you and I can't imagine the next time I go to the temple and your not going to be there. I can't wait to see u again in heaven.
"Neo" Nemuel Hilaire <matrixboy688@yahoo.com>
Brooklyn, NY - Wednesday, August 6, 2008 at 12:40:14
Letter to my heart:It didn't hit me until today that you and I will never be together because you're so far away. We laughed and we joked mostly about me being dropped on my head as a child. Your scent as well as your smile begins to fade. I hold on to your Sunday dinners, your theft of cheesecake, wrapping keys in a bag and throwing them out the window with a look on your face as to say, "I know you don't expect me to come open the door". I dance with no partner and no pinch it won't ever be the same. I am not taking it well as everyone says I should. They say it gets easier with time. That's a lie. I can barely stay on your block let alone go in your house. The emptiness pounds in my head and shatters my heart. I can't go in not just yet. Why are they guilting me and forcing me to face the reality? If I face reality I have lost you twice. If I live in the world you and I solely understood we are together forever. I never saw you so proud of me as you were the day I carried my Haitian Flag the day I received my Bachelors. Who would have known that same flag would've been draped over the coffin of a patriot almost a year later to the date. I am not perfect I never claimed to be. But, to you I always was. I cry myself to sleep every night because no one will ever understand. Is it okay to be jealous of God? He gets to see you everyday. All I can do is want. He has you now and there is no pain there just the one left in my heart from this empty space. Until I see you again I must end this letter to my heart. I am sorry it took me so long to say hello. I know you were waiting for me I just wasn't ready. I am still not ready. This isnt easy for me and it's getting worse. I took the LSAT, well you knew how that went. I am taking it again, though. I am doing very well at work, don't worry I am not being rude to any judges. Choubouloutte it's funny I will be a lawyer in five years!!! It seems like it's right around the corner. Sorry to break the news to you like this but grandma I am just a paralegal now and the judge doesn't talk to me. Tattie and I were protecting you by letting you believe that I was an attorney already. I know you knew we both were lying. SORRY for Tattie and I. We love you though. How is Ma tante and Becker? Tell them I said hello and tell Becker that I still have the ribbons she gave me when I was six. I stopped wearing them of course. Well talk to you tonight you know the same time of course right after my bike ride.PS Stop pinching me you're leaving bruises.I love you
Tanisha Michel <TheFutureOfLaw@yahoo.com>
Brooklyn, New York - Wednesday, August 6, 2008 at 10:9:51
At 9:42am everything changed. What can you when the reason you smile has made its journey?Left you alone, no cushion to pad your fall.What can you sing when your melodies have gone like scent of fresh roses after a storm?Who will wipe my tears when my floodgates open?I never needed anyone like I needed her. Jealousy because she saw you wed and bring life to this world and never me. She will never truly know how good he is to me. She will never know if my daughter has my eyes or my son has my lips. I walk this path alone. I was left at the most critical part in my life, I was left alone. She won't ever know if I won my first case. No one ever will understand what we had or what I lost. My reason to smile, the melody in heart and the dance in my feet. Without you I don't want to matter. Closer to you I want to feel. But now more than ever we are further apart. I thought I could do this but I can't. Every morning ten 2 dollar bills remind me that I am in this by myself. My support left when you did. In His hand you placed me with His blood He washed. God you're all I have. She's with you so give her a message for me. Mwen pap jam bleye ou Meme. Mwen pou kont mwen la. Gen yon le kap reve ma va we ou onko.
Tanisha Michel <TheFutureOfLaw@yahoo.com>
Brooklyn, New York - Wednesday, August 6, 2008 at 9:55:47
Good Morning Meme, last night wasnt so good. My eyes are swollen cause I cried so much. I miss you so much I had to take a drive down our usual paths. I hope today will be a better day. I really miss you...
Mafifi
- Wednesday, August 6, 2008 at 7:11:46
Good Night Meme. I love you and I miss you very much. I am still waiting for you. See you soon.
Mafifi
- Wednesday, August 6, 2008 at 0:1:14
Good Morning Meme. I will be leaving for the Temple soon. You know how hard it is to go there on Tuesdays. Please give me the strenght. It still isnt easy for me. I miss you more and more each day. I love you so much.
Mafifi
- Tuesday, August 5, 2008 at 11:17:9
"Meme bon Dieu Ki te la hier a. Ces li meme ki la jodi ya!" That song is in my head and it applies to me now and I can see you dancing and playing that drum in the back of the temple.Miss you Mémé!
Jean-Jean
- Tuesday, August 5, 2008 at 10:45:59
Bonjour Mèmè, Zach a encore pleuré ce matin ca a été très difficile pour moi de partir et de le laisser la garderie... J'espère que le reste de la semaine se passera mieux.Je t'aime
Gabby <gabrielle_merveille@hotmail.com>
Laval, Canada - Tuesday, August 5, 2008 at 8:33:33
Bonjour Mèmè,Zach est allé à la garderie éducative pour la première fois aujourd'hui. J'ai pleuré mais j'ai dit à manmie Myrlande que je n'ai pas pleuré(lol) Jean Jean est ici tu sais que rien au monde ne l'aurait fait manquer cette journée. Je t'aime
Gabby <gabrielle_merveille@hotmail.com>
Laval, Canada - Monday, August 4, 2008 at 14:52:12
Hello Meme, Its really difficult to deal with everything and everybody. I wish it was just you and me together again. Don't miss understand. I am very thankful for everything you've prepared for me before leaving. Please understand what I mean when I say I would give it all up just to have you back again. I know that you would not live forever so I am happy to have them to help fill the void, but there really won't be much of a void if you were still here with me. I find that the uncontollable slow hot tears that roll down my cheeks hurt the most. I miss you so much...I would gladly trade places with you. I hope everyday is a party up there. You deserve it!
Mafifi
- Monday, August 4, 2008 at 14:13:27
Hello Meme...Thanks for the SUN! We're having a great time.
Mafifi
- Saturday, August 2, 2008 at 17:27:14
Ok Meme...maybe next Saturday. Better yet maybe we should pray and ask for a date.
Mafifi
- Saturday, August 2, 2008 at 13:5:52
Ok Meme...maybe next Saturday. Better yet maybe we should pray and ask for a date.
Mafifi
- Saturday, August 2, 2008 at 13:5:49
Good Morning, Meme. Today is the garage sale. They are forcasting rain. Please ask your boss to hold it back until the sale is over. Thanks I love you.
Mafifi
- Saturday, August 2, 2008 at 11:21:43
Good night Meme.
Mafifi
- Friday, August 1, 2008 at 22:11:46
Good Morning Meme.
Mafifi
- Friday, August 1, 2008 at 6:57:13
Hi Meme... I need your help. Please intervene; thank you and I miss you
Mafifi
- Thursday, July 31, 2008 at 16:9:44
Hi Meme...you didnt come to me last night. I guess I knew you wouldnt; you never did like for us "kids" to tell you what to do. Well, I will wait for you tonight and every night until you come. By the way, FVM is having a garage sale this Saturday. I'm praying for a GREAT turn out. Miss you and I cant wait to see you again!
Mafifi
- Thursday, July 31, 2008 at 13:59:15
Hey Grandma!! Grandma I miss EVERYTHING about you!! I miss our hugs your kisses, and just YOU in general!! I remember when we used to live with you in brooklyn ave! LOL those were the days! Rodney and I used to get beatings from you EVERYDAY lol just because we were upstairs in tatie's room after you told us not to go up there!! What was so funny about it now is that after you beat us you told us that even though we told our mother it was not going to do anything because you were our mother when she was away at work!! But after we finish crying and on our knees you gave us food lol you were the best!! Grandma the memories will be wth me forever!! Especially your last birthday with us all. That was a moment to be cherish for a lifetime!I love you and I miss you!!
Katiana Joseph <dgqgal2@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, July 30, 2008 at 23:43:21
I NEED MY MEME!I NEED MY MEME! I NEED MY MEME! I NEED MY MEME!I NEED MY MEME!I NEED MY MEME!I NEED MY MEME! I NEED MY MEME! PLEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAASSSSSSSSSE!
natascha coeur <tcoeur@optonline.net>
B'klyn, ny - Wednesday, July 30, 2008 at 21:25:58
Hi Meme! I just thought of something very funny. Now while we all had a feeling you understood ALOT more English then you were letting us believe and dont think you were able to READ the English language. So how are you able to read everything I write everyday? Ha, Ha....Oh I think I know. Since youre an age now you have super powers so you can probably read, write, speak and understand every language right? Yeah, that's probably it. But I sure did have a great laugh.
Mafifi
- Wednesday, July 30, 2008 at 19:42:11
Good Morning Meme...boy time really flys. We're already reaching the end of the month. I hate the fact that so much is happening everyday and youre no longer around to experience or witness them. I wish you were here because somehow I felt safe when you were here. I know you're a big shot angel up there now and I should feel safer but I guess I just wish you were here physically. I had to go into your house yesterday and I cried. I can see you coming down the stairs and sitting on the love seat. I feel so lonely..I cant wait for this loneliness to end. Meme, I miss you so much. Why dont you come and visit me tonight. Speak to me, oh I forgot you are not allowed to speak to the living, okay then just let me see you and smell you. Please Meme....PLEASE. I love you and will continue to love you even if you dont visit but oh gosh I wish you would! Till later...
Mafifi
- Wednesday, July 30, 2008 at 10:44:25
MEME I LOVE YOU!
natascha coeur <tcoeur@optonline.net>
B'klyn, ny - Tuesday, July 29, 2008 at 23:30:17
I haven't written in a couple days, but I come by everyday. I guess for me its the same as coming by your house and just dropping by. I remember I would come by and have so much on my heart and I would just sit there and before I left I felt better. I miss those moments only this time I would have so many things to ask you and get your advice on. I miss you Meme...miss you!
Jean-Jean
Brooklyn, - Tuesday, July 29, 2008 at 16:1:4
Good Morning Meme...this morning I woke up very sad. I didn’t have a bad dream or anything like that and I prayed before going to bed. It's as if I just lost my best friend...Well, I'll pray again before leaving home and I will start dancing and giving God the glory; I should feel better RIGHT! After all, that's what you taught us to do. "Mouin pral ya-ya kom". Miss you Meme
Mafifi
- Tuesday, July 29, 2008 at 10:13:45
Hey Grandma!! Sometimes when I come on this website i dont know what to say! Its hard to put your emotions into words many of the times! Grandma without you being here it makes us see the world and life from a different perspective! I miss you Grandma!!
Katiana Joseph <dgqgal2@yahoo.com>
- Tuesday, July 29, 2008 at 0:56:29
Hi Meme...well as the others told you, the turn out at the concert was not so great. BUT you would have be VERY proud of your grand and even great grandkids. We looked great (we know how much of a sharp dresser you are)! We had it together. We were ogranized and we sold ALOT more then I expected. Even Zizi was out there selling T-shirts! Meme, I PROMISE YOU it shall be done. Sit back and watch your grand, great grandkids and all the other kids who will come, carry and continue your legacy. We will tell them and teach them that they are offspring of ROYALTY!!
Mafifi
- Monday, July 28, 2008 at 12:29:6
Hey Grandma!! Hows everything going?? You dont have to answer because I already know the answer to it...Your doing GREAT!! And Grandma you deserve all the rights to be great because you worked VERY hard!! Well yesterday was the big fundraising concert. It didnt come out the way I imagined it to be but Hey at least we sold some things! Maybe next year it will be bigger and better!! Grandma I went to church today even though i was tired from last night! Many people asked me how the family was doing and stuff! Many people didnt even know that I was your grandaughter!! I miss you soo much and I love you!! I wish you were still here!
Katiana Joseph <dgqgal2@yahoo.com>
- Monday, July 28, 2008 at 0:26:51
Hi Meme the concert was NOT a big turn out BUT I'm not discourage! It just makes us want to do more for YOU/HOSPITAL. Meme you would have been so PROUD of US GRANDKIDS.I miss you so MUCH it HURTS!
natascha coeur <tcoeur@optonline.net>
B'klyn, ny - Sunday, July 27, 2008 at 23:25:54
Hi Meme. As they say, your ears must have been ringing. We had family dinner today at Tasha's house and your name kept coming up over and over and over again. We laughed and smiled and even grew sad at times. But we all agree how much of a fighter you were and how much you were full of life. I hope I grow old and become just like you. I miss you terribly.
Mafifi
- Sunday, July 27, 2008 at 20:59:25
I wish you were here so that I can talk to you...
Jean-Jean
- Saturday, July 26, 2008 at 16:13:22
Hi Meme. I am at the temple now...and you are not. Something is realllllly wrong with that picture! Meme, I miss you so much. Im telling you, the chest pains are just too much. Please Meme, please, please, please take them away.
Mafifi
- Saturday, July 26, 2008 at 0:35:20
Somedays I pretend your just on missionary work in Haiti...today's one of those days. Happy Birthday Meme.
Mafifi
- Friday, July 25, 2008 at 20:15:20
Happy Birthday Meme...I am so alone, only you'd understand. I miss you.
Mafifi
- Friday, July 25, 2008 at 2:46:37
HAPPY BIRTHDAY GRANDMA
Steve Coeur <stucoeur@aol.com>
Buford, Georgis - Thursday, July 24, 2008 at 21:45:36
Hello Meme...This is the day that the Lord has made, let us rejoice and be glad it is! I want to learn how to praise God every single day no matter what or who I am facing. I want to be JUST LIKE YOU! Help me. Miss you so much Meme....
Mafifi
- Thursday, July 24, 2008 at 12:32:4
Happy Birthday Meme
Woodley G. Verdiner
- Thursday, July 24, 2008 at 0:17:42
Hey Grandma!! Happy Birthday Grandma. I love you sooo much!!! I really wish you were here for one more birthay! No im lying i wish you were here for many MORE of your birthdays!! Happy Birthday Grandma. I wish I could of said it to you in person but i cant have it my way!! I love and I miss you! **Kati**
Katiana Joseph <dgqgal2@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, July 23, 2008 at 23:23:32
I still can not belieeeeeeeeve this! Today I would call you to say happy birthday and you would say O.K when are you bringing MY gift .You would act up more than usual because you made up your rule!Today is your day and you could do anything you want. MEME I LOVE YOU.
natascha coeur <tcoeur@optonline.net>
brooklyn, n.y - Wednesday, July 23, 2008 at 21:7:8
Happy Birthday Meme. We visited your grave site today. The plaque arrived and we needed to check that everything was spelled correctly etc. Meme, it is so difficult to imagine you were underneath that grass and beneath that dirt. The true Christian that you are you would probably say it the natural process, and we shall all return to ashes and dust one; but still Meme. Your house is so empty and quiet. The joy, laughter, prayer, and singing are all gone. Someone left a happy birthday sign, flowers (flowers that seem to have been taken from YOUR backyard ha, ha) and that bubble wrap you love popping so much. I think I know who it is but I won’t say any names (Katiana) Your grandkids are meeting tonight to discuss ideas etc for this Saturday’s fundraising concert for the Hospital in Haiti. You would be so proud to see your kids in action. The concert will be AWESOME. Please see if God will let you sneak a peak. I love you!
Mafifi
- Wednesday, July 23, 2008 at 20:51:53
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Mafifi
- Wednesday, July 23, 2008 at 20:50:42
Happy Birthday Meme!
Mafifi
- Wednesday, July 23, 2008 at 20:24:15
OH BOY,OH BOY, OH BOY.
Ketty Valme-Joseph <kfny25@aol.com>
Brooklyn, NY - Wednesday, July 23, 2008 at 13:55:9
HAPPY BIRTHDAY MEME!!!!I LOVEYOU SOOOOOOOOOO MUCH!!!!
Mafifi
- Wednesday, July 23, 2008 at 13:50:49
Hey Meme the sun is out....you must be smiling. Go ahead and do that dance, do that dance YEAH!
Mafifi
- Wednesday, July 23, 2008 at 11:10:32
Bonjour Mèmè, je sais que tu célèbres ta fête avec ton fiancé ;- ) mais j'aurais aimé te dire bonne fête de vive voix... Je t'aime et tu me manques.
Gabrielle Merveille
Montreal, Canada - Wednesday, July 23, 2008 at 10:35:3
Happy Birthday Meme! Last year I missed your birthday bash and I told Gabby next year we have to be there and next year is here and you're the one missing...I would have loved to see you do your famous 2 step...:-)I miss you! I love you and see you in Glory one day!
Jean-Jean
- Wednesday, July 23, 2008 at 10:31:25
Wow Meme its your Birthday I hope ur up there doing your famous 2 step with mommy. Come on now Grandma look at all this rain its suppose to be nothing but sunshine sweetie just Remember I Love you and guess wht were having a big party for you on saturday!Love YOu Frero
Frero
work, - Wednesday, July 23, 2008 at 8:20:48
Come on Meme, please stop crying. Stop the rain and let the sun come out. I love you Meme.
Mafifi
- Wednesday, July 23, 2008 at 7:39:46
I just cant bring myself to say it without you being here! About now you'd have called me asking me to bring your birthday gift for you to open. Then you would tell me I spend too much money and I really shouldnt have...ha, ha. You were such a big kid! I miss you. Happy Birthday grandmama!!!! Shake that booty up there with Mom, the other angels, and God.
Mafifi
- Wednesday, July 23, 2008 at 7:31:42
OH MY GOD! This can't be real.................................HAPPY BIRTHDAY MY MEME ,BONNE FETE MEME JE TAIME SO MUCH.TASCHA &SUZLYN
natascha coeur <tcoeur@optonline.net>
B'klyn, ny - Wednesday, July 23, 2008 at 2:27:13
Hey Grandma!! I already know how you are doing and your great! Well im hanging in there not good and not close to being great!! Grandma and everyone who visits this website did ever have one of those times where you just wanted to cry but didnt know why!! Well that is how I feel. The weekend that just past J.C. went to pennsylvania for a wedding. While we were there i was standing outside the room with Rodney looking over the edge and i was talking to him! I told him I feel like crying. And he asked me why and i told him i dont know i just want to cry! And still now i feel like that i just want to cry. Part of the reason I want to cry is because i miss you the other part still remains a mystery... Everyday gets harder and harder not evn easier!! I am soo scared about tommorow. I dont know what to expect. I choke when i think of tommorow! The first ever..one of your birthdays to ever be celebrated without you!! I wonder how the family and friends of the family is going to get through tommorow!! Grandma I miss you soo much I love you!! This is still UNBELIEVABLE!!!
Katiana Joseph <dgqgal2@yahoo.com>
- Tuesday, July 22, 2008 at 22:39:4
Bonjour Mèmè, j'aurais aimé partager tant de choses avec toi...Nous allons bien.Je t'aime
Gabrielle Merveille
Montreal, Canada - Tuesday, July 22, 2008 at 10:49:48
"We were together, just the other day. Taking life for granted, passing time away. I was there for you, you were there for me. We would be together for eternity. I never knew there'd be sorrow. I just knew we'd be together tomorrow. Together forever we were so wrong. I still can't believe that your gone. I'm so alone. I miss you!Life goes on and its not the same. I can't help sometime calling out your name. Then I realized that you were gone, what I wouldnt do to see you smile. I know it sounds funny, but what can I say. My life just aint been the same, since you went away..."This is a verse of song that I always loved,but was afraid to sing. It just so happens, I wont be singing this song anymore, but I know that you have to be looking down at us. I would say, I wish you could be here one more time, but I don't think we'd won't you to go. We miss you. Gabby and I miss you. We're doing ok Mémé. M'ap essayé pa fé cole. It doesnt always work that way, but I'm getting better at it. I miss you. I love you Mémé!!
Jean-Jean
- Monday, July 21, 2008 at 16:22:46
Just two more days Meme. I would have been so busy preparing things for your birthday party. I would have been so excited. You know how we LOVE birthdays. "ANYTHING you want you get" is the rule on our birthdays. A rule you created. I WANT YOU BACK! That's my wish. You probably dont want to come back...youre probably too happy and having too much fun. I guess my wish cant come true, after all its not my birthday. So, I'll try again in January. I miss you so much Meme. I cried all night. My eyes are so swollen I will have to wear glasses all day. I love you and I wish you were here for me to continue loving. Gotta go...
Mafifi
- Monday, July 21, 2008 at 8:16:29
Hi how are you, well guest what we are preparing this big celebration concert for you this weekend aparently there are still thousands of people and I mean thousands havent gotten a chance to attend the funeral so what we decided is to have a concert and display alot of you pictures and memories that people may have had of or with you.Oh by the way married life is great thanks again God has answered my prayers and the wedding was flawless all that was missing was you but I knw you took a sneak peak.
Frero
work, - Monday, July 21, 2008 at 7:44:8
Meme, it’s too hard! I can still hear your voice in my head. Yesterday I visited your house. I try to go at least twice a week to put out the garbage, let some air into the house, listen to your messages, etc. I had to change the greeting on your answering machine. Instead of Sr. Valme cant come to the phone right now call Jesus if this is an emergency, callers will now hear unfortunately Sr. Valme can no longer come to the phone but call Jesus if this is an emergency. Meme, do you believe people are still calling to speak with you? So many people still don’t know you’ve traveled. I guess you touched so many lives! I am so proud to say Sr. Valme was my grandmother! SO VERY PROUD! And I know you were proud to call me your granddaughter. I can hear you say, "this is My Fifi" Grandmama …Mafifi misses you.
Mafifi
- Sunday, July 20, 2008 at 11:3:12
I hate the fact that life continues without you. Today someone's getting married, someone's laughing, someone's playing, someone was born...life continues. I hate that life continues without you...my life included.
Mafifi
- Saturday, July 19, 2008 at 16:25:10
Hi Meme, I wish I had the honor of meeting you. I know that you are looking upon us and smiling. I wish I could see you as you can see me so I can smile back at you. Thank you so much for Claudya. Thank you for giving me such a beautiful woman in heart, spirit and soul …and that’s Claudya. We’ll speak again soon.
Woodley G. Verdiner
- Saturday, July 19, 2008 at 10:43:30
Good morning Meme, Well it’s been two months now since you left me. I can’t believe it. I was up since 6am this morning. I remembered all the events that happened that day. I recall calling Dodo at 8am and she said you were fine. You had a good night and you guys prayed all night long….then an hour later the call from Vio telling us to hurry because things don’t look good. Then at 9:42am it was all over. You left me for good. There are so many things happening now that I would love to share with you. I love you and miss you more.
Mafifi
- Saturday, July 19, 2008 at 10:23:22
Hi Grandma, I think Kati speaks for us all when she said she would give ANYTHING to have just one...one more touch, smell, kiss, laugh, meal, prayer, walk, drive, look, one more of everything. I would easily trade places with you, EASILY! So many people would be happy to see you alive and as for me my pain would stop; kinda how yours did when you traveled. I love you and I miss you to death!!!
Mafifi
- Friday, July 18, 2008 at 8:48:52
Hey Grandma!!Grandma right now I just want to hold you, play wih your wrinkles on your hand. I just want to hug you REALLY tight and never let go! I will give ANYTHING to have ONE MORE of your hugs, your kisses, just you!!! I miss you soooo much!!
Katiana Joseph <dgqgal2@yahoo.com>
- Friday, July 18, 2008 at 0:1:49
Good morning Meme. I know life is great for you up there and I am so happy for you because you deserve it! You lead a complicated, demanding, stressful, happy, faithful, God-fearing, spiritual life. But you never had a pain free life...now you do. So be happy. You've achieved the highest degree a christian could ever receive AND with HONORS! So be happy and pain free but please some how Meme please find a way to help ME live this life without you.
Mafifi
- Thursday, July 17, 2008 at 8:34:38
Hey Grandma!! Well I cant tell you im good because im not im just hanging in there just like the rest of the family! There is not a day i dont think about you.What Tatie Tasha wrote today just brought tears to my eyes.It is really hard living without MEME and I doubt its going to get any easier! Today I was helping mommy rearrange the keyboard and stuff in the temple. I didnt want to move the things around but mommy said that we had to due to the fire hazzards.Now that your corner is not there it makes this even tougher! I really wanted you here forever!!Sometimes i feel as if this is all a lie a big white lie. I just CANT except the fact that you are gone and what even harder is that your not coming back and that is in which I have to live with! Grandma it gets harder and harder everyday I put a smile on everyday and act normal and say im fine but deep deep down inside im rippin into pieces. I miss you sooooo much! And I will NEVER stop missing you! Good night Grandma love you!!
Katiana Joseph <dgqgal2@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, July 16, 2008 at 23:41:26
I just need to say it out LOUD at least once GOD WHY NOW? WHY MY MEME? WHHHHHHHHHHHY?
natascha coeur <tcoeur@optonline.net>
B'klyn, ny - Wednesday, July 16, 2008 at 22:34:58
Hello meme. I had a rough night. I kept re-living events that happened with you and I. It's so hard to accept that your gone. I know it to be true but when I break "it" down, I cant breathe, I cant stop crying and I have this aching feeling in my chest. Well, just one more week to go. Next Wednesday we would have been celebrating your birthday. Meme, the pain is too much.
Mafifi
- Wednesday, July 16, 2008 at 13:40:43
Hello Meme...please help. I need your strength
Mafifi
- Monday, July 14, 2008 at 20:31:41
Meme guess what?!!!!! Kiki and Jenny are engaged! He proposed last night. They were so happy. Fernanda was happy too; we were all happy. You must be proud. Wish you were there....
Mafifi
- Sunday, July 13, 2008 at 11:30:45
Hello Meme,Today I was up very early cause I had an agenda; to clean your house. Vio and Sr. Dasit arrived at 10am to help. We cleaned until about 5pm! I straighten your linen closet and could not stop crying. I know how much you love your beautiful white bedspread and your beautiful embroider table clothes. I could see you sitting on the chair watching me and making sure I fold every sheet RIGHT! I took forever to finish because I was trying to get all four corners to line up perfectly. Then Tante Rhode stopped by then Sonny, then Kiki and Jerry and before you knew it over 15 people was at the house and food was cooked and the house was filled with laughter. I felt your presence and was so happy. I miss you sooooooooo much.
Mafifi
- Saturday, July 12, 2008 at 5:3:33
Hey Grandma!! I dont know where to start! What to say or what to do!! I never wanted to face the moment the family and friends of the family are going through! I never thought May 19 would EVER come!! You were my angel I never wanted you to leave I wanted you to be here forever!! During your celebration I sat there on the bench and watched you! I watched you so much that I had believed and felt that you were going to get out the coffin. I never wanted to ever see you in a coffin! During the burial as soon as i got out of the limo tears began to roll down my face i had to face the fact that this was the end!! Tears are rolling down my face as I right this beacuse the pictres are still clear in my head.The momories are also still clear in my head. If its soo hard now without you i wonder how its going to be later in life.No more holidays with MEME no more sitting next to MEME there just NO MORE MEME. I miss you soo much it starts to become unbareable!! I love you see you soon in heaven!!!
Katiana Joseph <dgqgal2@yahoo.com>
- Saturday, July 12, 2008 at 1:2:40
Hey Grandma!! Life is GREAT for you your having the time of your life!! Well im not going to say that life is getting easier because its not! I cant wait to go to haiti God willing I can go in august.Its going to be really hard if I go and your not there. This will be the FIRST time we go to haiti to see your school children and you not there to b with us!! Love you and miss you!!
Katiana Joseph <dgqgal2@yhoo.com>
- Friday, July 11, 2008 at 0:13:38
Good morning Meme. Wont ask how youre doing because I already know the answer...GREAT! My days fall in the catergories bad, really bad or worse day ever. I know to accept the fact that there will never be a good day again! Well yesterday was a bad day; and that's a good thing. Its the first catergory on the scale. I cried while washing the dishes; I cant help it. I have to learn to wash the dishes without looking out the window. I went inside your house and opened the hallway closet. I just stood there and smelled your clothes. There were 3 dresses that I loved to see you in. One of them was that vanilla dress I got for and you also really liked, there other that strip pleated dress. Oh my goodness I LOVE TO SEE YOU WEAR THAT DRESS. Tears could not stop running down my cheeks. I need to make time to clean and dust the house, I will try to do that for you this weekend. I know how you love a clean smelling house. By the way, Violette's real birthday was the 8th; I told her happy birthday for you. I think I'll get her an apple pie, we know how much she loves apple pie. Well, gotta go to the temple now. Its really hard to go there Thursday mornings. I can just hear you now saying hurry up because you have to be in the temple to do the 9am prayer. I love you grandma with all my heart! The loneliness is just unbearable. Cant wait to get to heaven to see you and do that dance.
Mafifi
- Thursday, July 10, 2008 at 8:38:2
Hey Grandma!! As many have told you already Abraham is married and the wedding was beautiful. As I sat in the church during the ceremony i could see pictures in my head of your celebration. Pictures after pictures were going through my head.During the wedding when nenen went to the pulpit to go pray a picture of your celebration flashed in my head..It was when nenen was singing and telling the people to wave their handkerchiefs. It was really hard to focus during the wedding ceremony because all I could think about was your special day that day was truly special...That day was the end for us but the beginning for you!! I hate saying the word end because I didnt think it was really the end for you but as mommy and the aunties ALWAYS say God had a better plan for you!! Grandma I wanted to live FOREVER!!...Before you went away I would think of leavin before you because I didnt want to know how it felt without you being there, and I tell you its NOT a piece of cake!!..EVERY night before I go to sleep I will ALWAYS look at the pictures of you. It feel like im living in a dream and im just waiting for someone to pinch me and wake me up!! I love you and miss you dearly!!! your love/sitting partner/best friend/graddaughter Kati lol!!!
Katiana Joseph <dgqgal2@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, July 9, 2008 at 23:51:50
Today was a big day for me and I didnt really tell anyone about it. I would always call you and let you know and you would pray for me. I had that suit on you liked, I know I did well, but the icing on the cake would have been for you to see me. Frero's married now and he looked happy and thats what's important. It was the first time since your funeral that I walked into Claremont. We were the before for the wedding rehearsal and I got chills. I had to leave the sanctuary because I couldnt hold back the tears anymore. I don't know if I could ever go back to that church again. I would always sit in the balcony and look down to see you in your regular spot.Gabby, Zach and I are doing well. We just miss you. I wish you could have been there to see him in his lil tuxedo walking with Suzy. They were so cute! Mémé Gabby and I are doing well and I know that you would be happy because we are trying really hard to make this work.We're preparing for that part 2...stay tuned!
Jean-Jean <jwmichel77@hotmail.com>
- Wednesday, July 9, 2008 at 19:53:57
Hey Meme. I just went for a walk from the house to the Pier and back. I sat at the bench where we sat last spring. You were so happy then. We sat at the pier for hours. Im so happy I had the chance to make you happy....just wish I would have had more chances to make you even happier! I love you.
Mafifi
- Tuesday, July 8, 2008 at 19:20:35
Hi Meme, today wasnt such a good day...tomorrow will be better right?!!
Mafifi
- Tuesday, July 8, 2008 at 16:42:50
Good Morning Meme. I am not starting the day off right. I need your strenght and your help. I miss you soooo much. I love you. Rest in peace.
Mafifi
- Tuesday, July 8, 2008 at 9:11:20
I miss you sooooooo much.Frero is a married man and you weren't here to attend.I miss your BIG BEAUTIFUL HAT. The only person I saw with a hat was Judette, she looked very nice BUT nothing compared to MY MEME. I LOVE YOU and MISS YOU! Tascha
natascha coeur <tcoeur@optonline.net>
B'klyn, ny - Monday, July 7, 2008 at 21:58:59
Hello Meme....well its done Frero is married! He had a beautiful wedding. We laughed and danced and remembered you. I miss you.
Mafifi
- Sunday, July 6, 2008 at 12:13:34
Hello Meme, today I took Tante Yolene shopping for a dress to wear to Frero's wedding. I came across some beautiful dresses that would fit you perfectly. You were so elegant and I could imagine you all dressed up that day, with a hat ofcourse. Tante Yolene spend the entire day with me. We went shopping and at some point I fed her without her even telling me she was hungry. She asked how did I know she was hungry; I told her you ALWAYS fed us when we go out together and when we got older we made sure to ALWAYS feed you when we went out. I place a napkin on her lap and tucked one in her blouse. I told her how you ALWAYS spilled something on your shirt and so that the steps we took to preserve your clothing. I even got her an apple pie. I told her you always expected desert after a meal. I did everything with her that you and I would do together. For a moment I felt really good. Its not that I replaced you but I was able to re-live a moment through you. But then she did something so simple, so small but it bought me back to reality....she ate her ENTIRE meal! Meme, you never ate your entire meal. You always ordered everything but always had to leave something behind ti take home and give it Benjamin or any of your grandkids. You loved it when we would eat your left over; we joked that it was a benediction...but she ate EVERYTHING. I got very quiet and shed a tear because it will never be the same. No matter how much we try or someone tries, there will always be something that they'd forget. She ate everything...simple right. I miss you Meme.
Mafifi
- Saturday, July 5, 2008 at 1:59:7
Hello again Meme. Can you believe you are STILL receiving calls at home from people who dont know you've passed and are looking for prayer. Well as the recording says," hang up and call Jesus" I recall how much you loved that recording on your answering machine. I havent changed it you know...I cant seem to bear the thought. Besides, I think its somewhat appropriate. I find it funny that one woman, one little old harmless woman wore so many shoes, touched so many lives and held such a large family together. You Sr. Fernande "Meme" Valme did just that! I love you so much, but God loves you more. Be at peace
Mafifi
- Friday, July 4, 2008 at 1:15:10
Hey Granmda!! I miss you soo much that it can become improper.. Grandma i think of the last time us kids in temple sang for you i regret not recording it on my camera. When mommy told us that she had a vision of us kids singing to you in the hospital and she wanted us to sing for you on the temple birthday we were hesitating. The reason was because it was really hard to see you in the condition you were in. As we sang the songs that you loved tears began to roll down my eyes! I hated seeing in that condition!! After we were done singing mommy spoke to you and said all of our names in your ear and said we were leaving..Thats when tears began to roll down your face but i didnt understand why!! But now i know why you were crying..It was because physically you were never going to see or hear us sing again.I say phyically because spirtually you can still hear us and see us from heaven. Grandma you loved hearing us kids sing especially when we sang in kreole lol!! Grandma i am soo happy that we got to sing for you before you went away because if we didnt i would have never forgived myself but im happy we did!! I miss you a holeeeeeeeeeeee lot!! I love you!!!
Katiana Joseph <dgqgal2@yahoo.com>
- Thursday, July 3, 2008 at 22:50:18
Meme today is my last day of work and I feel like I cant even be here anymore its so hard you know. 2 more days to go and I feel like someone is punching me in my stomach and I cant defend myself. Its like I cant understand whyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy? I was born in your hands and you cant even be there to attend my Wedding WOW. That doesnt make any sense, its un heard of I cant get anything done, cant even think straight anyways let me stop writing my co-workers are statrting to realize something is wrong, they're having a big party over here and here I am on the computer. I remember when you use to beat me and Tanisha for sliding down the stairs head first, and how 9:00 was my curfew and I would sneak upstairs to Claudya and Tasha b/c they had JC over.Meme did you knw tht you were that GREAT!I love you
Frero
At work, - Thursday, July 3, 2008 at 9:6:50
Hello again Meme. Well today's the 3rd and there's 20days until your birthday. Right about now I would be going crazy trying to plan a party or find the perfect gift. Oh Meme, I have so much pain for so many reasons I dont know who I can talk to? You always had a way of convincing me things will get better. Oh, my sweet, beautiful grandma, I want so much to squeeze your cheeks right now and kiss you until you push me away. I miss your smell, I miss your voice, I miss the way you walked with your hands on your waist. I miss how you would walk down the stairs. Our stairs are identicial so I see you each time I walk down my stairs. When Im in my bathroom Im fine for a while but if I close my eyes I can see myself in your bathroom and all the habits you had when using it. Do you remember how I would sit by the stairs while you use the bathroom. Remember how I would stick my head inside the bathroom and you'd yell at me? Do you remember the last meal you cooked for the entire family? Meme, you knew didnt you? You knew you werent gonna be around too long. You knew you would never hold my child in your arms, you knew you wouldnt be around to see me walk down the aisle. You knew! Just know my happiness will NEVER be complete! I miss you so much. I swear I feel as if Im having a heart attack. This hurts far more then I could ever imagine. I'll attend Frerot's wedding and be happy for him but with you not there...lets not kid ourselves it's not complete. Meme we will never be complete! I love you, I need you and I miss you.
Mafifi
- Thursday, July 3, 2008 at 2:19:51
Meme, I can't begin to tell you how much our family miss you. The girls almost everyday would ask me about you, how they love you. The tears they shed at your funeral was unbelievable. I, as their mother was unable to stop the tears, the questions being asked about you. Where is MEME? they would asked? I would answer in HEAVEN. The questions would continue for a while. I, never knew how much of an impact you had in their lives. They love you, so do I. Well, I am here at Claudya's house today to prepare for Frero's wedding on Saturday. Meme, looking at your house next door make it very difficult for us to move on. Your memories will be with us forever. Your spirit will be here with us on Saturday celebrating Abe's new life beginning. May you bless them, as they embark this life new adventure. As for Claudya, May your spirit be with her and keep her strong for the rest of her life. I can feel her pain, and all of us not having you here are in pain. But we all know, we will see you again. Love Always, Johanne
Johanne Coeur <jojocoeur@aol.com>
buford, Ga - Wednesday, July 2, 2008 at 23:59:31
You will be truly missed. The void you left in our hearts is irreplaceable. We know now you are in a great place with the Lord. Love, Johanne and les mademoiselles.
johanne coeur <jojocoeur@aol.com>
Buford, Georgia - Wednesday, July 2, 2008 at 22:36:18
Hey Grandma!! Yesterday morning while i was at the temple peter was complaining for food and how he was really hungury! This made me think of you because during the summer everytime after tuesday morning you would always give us money to go buy food. I was soo close to tell peter after service to go inside and ask you for some money and thats when it hit me that you were not here no more!! I miss you a hole lot grandma!! When we say how you are never going to be forgotten its the truth your NEVER going to be forgotten!! Sometimes I feel as if im living in dream! It was like the other day when we were in your house watching tv and in haiti enjoying the sunlight!! This is crazy!! It never crossed my mind and i didnt want to that you were going to go away!! I miss you grandma!!
Katiana Joseph <dgqgal2@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, July 2, 2008 at 21:12:6
Hello my sweet, wonderful, beautiful, grandmother! Well today I cut down that tree in front of my house. I still cant get use to the fact that I have a house. I remember you saying it has to be cut because the root will grow underneath the house etc,etc. You fought so hard for me to have this house. You were suppose to be around to cook dinner for both my house and yours. The plan was for me to stop by for coffee each morning before going to work. WE had so many plans for us...God had just one for you! I know his plan is a better plan. Your grandkids reallly miss you alot. Right now I should be by the foot of your bed sleeping and not home alone. Meme, where's that strength you gave me from May 19- May 24? I need it now, I need you now. I have sooooooooooo much to tell you. Oh Meme, doule sa trop!
mafifi
- Wednesday, July 2, 2008 at 0:26:3
Si jodi y'am vivant. Sé grace a ou, san ou seigneur mwen pa ayen. I thought of you today and that song was in my heart. I hear you saying," Zanmi N'am mwen!" I hear you praying...I miss you. You've covered us for so long and now we're naked. The family is naked without you.
Jean-Jean
Brooklyn, USA - Tuesday, July 1, 2008 at 22:44:10
TI Val WOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOim sorry thts how I feel right now meme your not here and it hurts in my heart when im home sometime and I have to sleep all by myself in the house I feel like yelling til I lose my voice today is tuesday the 1st samedi is coming closer then I expected everytime I close my eyes the day is over. Meme I love you soooooooo much please look after me and Emelyne we are trying to stay strong because thts wht you are. I think Emelyne gets her strength from you thankyou for keeping her close after all these years she is going to be a great wife,everybody is asking me if im scared or nervous and I smile because all I could thank of is you, after all these years your were praying for me I knw im ready.I love you Meme
Frero
Meme's House, - Tuesday, July 1, 2008 at 22:30:41
Hey Grandma!! Today when i was getting ready to go to the day care there was something on the steps that reminded me sooo much of you!! It was those clear white bubbles that you liked to pop. When i stepped on them i was reminded of your smile everytime mommy would come to your house to bring it to you. You would be sooo happy i used to get in trouble if i popped it before you did lol!! Grandma everyday life gets harder and harder. Especially when it comes to mommy. I try really hard to understand her but im not used to these kinds of situations. This is the FIRST time something like this ever happened.I try soo hard to support mommy but i just dont know how and i dont think she understands that but that is something i have to work on!! Grandma i miss you sooo much!! I love you!!
Katiana Joseph <dgqgal2@yahoo.com>
- Tuesday, July 1, 2008 at 22:14:58
Bonjour Mèmè c'est Gabrielle ...oh sorry I meant madan Jean Jean (since I lost my first name when I got married) lol,tu me manques énormément... Les choses avancent je sais que tu sais de quoi je parle. Je sais aussi que tu aurais été contente d'être là... Je t'aime...
Gabrielle Merveille Michel <gabrielle_merveille@hotmail.com>
New York, USA - Tuesday, July 1, 2008 at 15:1:59
Wow, 22 more days till your birthday! We had such fun last year at your surprise birthday party; you were truly surprise...I HAD NO IDEA THAT WOULD BE YOUR LAST BIRTHDAY WITH US
Mafifi
- Tuesday, July 1, 2008 at 0:15:23
Hey Meme, I still cant believe youre gone. You always said someday when you're gone we'll remember all the funny things you said and did"....never thought that someday would come so soon.
Mafifi
- Tuesday, July 1, 2008 at 0:12:30
Hello Meme, I almost made it through the entire weekend without crying. Dont get me wrong there were several moments when you came to mind or someone said something that reminded me of you and I became very sad. I went grocery shopping and some of your items were on sale...I held back the tears, I went over to your house and sat in the TV room...I held back the tears, I visit this website everyday and some of the things Kati, Abraham and Tabitha wrote tore me inside... I held back the tears. I read some of the writing on your big Welcome birthday poster...I held back the tears, Suzy pointed to your picture and said Meme sleeping...I held back the tears. When I hear that Bon Berger's youth took time out from a concert they had tonight to celebrate your life; sang the song "ki moun ki torwo ya se l'eternel ki torwo"...I held back the tears. But when I heard Donnie McClurkin's song "I'm not thinking about the sites, Won't be there to enjoy the view I think heaven will be alright just as long as Your there, as long as there is You"...I couldnt hold back the tears. Meme I really think heaven will be alright, just as long as your there and you're enjoying the views! I miss you so much Meme. I know you HAD to leave but I miss you soooo much, I need you more and I love you to no end. See you soon. Your Fifi...Mafifi
Mafifi
- Monday, June 30, 2008 at 1:42:22
Hey Meme. Miss you so much. What are you doing? Well I am watching T.V. Well, I hope you are having fun right now cause I am. Well Have Fun. Talk to you later.
Esther Romei <romeiesther@yahoo.com>
Brooklyn, N.Y - Sunday, June 29, 2008 at 20:6:16
Meme, jou yo pase vit wi men lekol femen. Nou tout di ou mesi paske ane a fini timoun yo pa te bay twop pwoblem, yo an vakans kounyeya. Anpil ladan yo gradye. a papa nou sonje ou anpil. Ou mete ou moso ou menm nan nanm chak moun. Men gen moun ou te gate an sekre ke pesonn pa konnen konbyen moun sa ap soufri. Meme pa gen mo ki kapab ranplase lanmou mwen genyen pou a male wa tande m ou lot jou. Paula
paula <pcelius@optonline.net>
Brooklyn, N.Y - Sunday, June 29, 2008 at 20:2:44
Hey Grandma!! I know you are having the time of your LIFE up there!! While your having so much fun we are down here tryig to put our lives back together again..The pieces from our puzzles may be lost but were trying to put the puzle back together.. Well grandma i just came from Mommy and Mr Michel party..Yes today was there anniversary yeaaaaaa!! I love you grandma i realllyyyy miss you.. Everyday it gets harder and harder without you here!! Love ya!!
Katiana Joseph <dgqgal2@yahoo.com>
- Sunday, June 29, 2008 at 0:35:55
Hey Grandma! Well im getting ready for service tonight. Today is the last friday of the month!! I miss you grandma wish you could have been here forever but God had better plans for you and for us!! I LOVE YOU!!!!
Katiana Joseph <dgqgal2@yahoo.com>
- Friday, June 27, 2008 at 19:48:20
Hey Grandma!!I got my report card today and its good! YEA!! I passed all my classes grandma. I know you are really proud of me!! If you were here you would have gave me like 10 dollars but all in singles lol!! I love you and miss you grandma I wish you were here to give me that 10 dollars but ill just get that money from tatie and mommy and also daddy lol!! Love you!!!
Katiana Joseph <dgqgal2@yahoo.com>
- Friday, June 27, 2008 at 0:13:12
thanks u MEME i made it both of us made it thank u for everything thank u for your prayers i wish that u were here to see both me and my sister but you are in a better place i miss you so much i know that's what u wanted for all of us kids to finish school i will just for you thanks you i love you and tell god i said hi for me
abraham bertoni <abrahambertoni@yahoo.com>
brooklyn, United States - Friday, June 27, 2008 at 0:8:16
Good Morning Meme. Yesterday wasnt so great. I could not go to the temple...long story. I will do my besk to go today. I want to make your dream a reality. Meme, I want to thank you for everything. Thanks for taking care of things before you left. Even with all that pain you still found time for others. I miss you and I love you more then anyone or anything in my life. Rest in Peace Meme...rest in peace
Mafifi
- Thursday, June 26, 2008 at 8:36:9
MEME! Who said TIME HEALS ALL WOUNDS they LIED.MY BROKEN HEART will NEVER HEAL! I miss you sooo MUCH it HURTS.Tasch
natascha coeur <tcoeur@optonline.net>
B'klyn, ny - Wednesday, June 25, 2008 at 23:4:23
Hey Grandma!! Today was a good day!! Grandma today both abraham and tabitha graduated!! YEAAAA!! I know you are really proud of them because i am lol!! It really sad that you were not here physically to see them graduate but you saw them from a better place and that had a better view!! I miss you grandma and i love you!!
Katiana Joseph <dgqgal2@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, June 25, 2008 at 22:9:3
Dear Meme i never got to personally know you, but i always heard good things about you, may your blessed soul rest in peace and i know you are at peace in heaven........... Frero!!!!!!! You're getting married!!!!!!!! congratulation on your wedding??????? i wish you all the best.
abby
philadelphia, pa - Wednesday, June 25, 2008 at 18:8:8
Hey Grandma!! I know your having a party up there whle were down here trying to pull ourselves together. But I know for a fact that one day everything will get better. I love you and miss you sooo much I dont think someone whoknows me wouldnt understand. I still do not understand why God ha to take you away however that is nothing for me to be mad about. I just want to understand why??. You have been gone now for a month and a couple days however it feels like just yesterday you left us. Every night before i go to sleep i look at pictures of you that i have in my computer. Mommy always ask me why its because i just want to see your face. I would give ANYTHING to have you just sit by me just ONE more time at the temple and also while your sitting next to me i can play with your winkles in your hand lol it was soo fun and soft but i miss doing that alot.. Grandma i miss you and love you sooooo much to te point that its not even proper
Katiana Joseph <dgqgal2@yahoo.com>
- Tuesday, June 24, 2008 at 23:24:47
HI Ti Val it me " ti gason" Meme its officially 11 days til my wedding and I dont knw how to handle the fact tht your not gonna be there. I remember when I asked you to do the opening prayer and you said ur usual statement "GOD WILLING" I LOVE YOU so much Meme and uts gonna be hard. I remember when I moved back to NY and I said to you that I need a job and you said dnt worry I already got the job. The next day I got called for an interview and got hired on the spot, THats the Grace of GOD like you would have said. Did you know tht I am now the supervisor of tht very same job Thankyou JESUS. Its like you called GOD on the phone and told him tht your son is looking for a job. I come home everyday to an empty house to see tht huge but beautiful picture of you and I just kiss it everytime I pass it.Meme you are now officially my personal ANGEL you have wings now, matter fact I have 2 Angels I cant forget MOMMY I LOVE you both dearly.Tomorrow will be 10 more days!
Frero
Meme's House, - Tuesday, June 24, 2008 at 20:6:52
Hi Meme. Today was almost a perfect day and by perfect I mean I almost didnt cry. But then I noticed a cable bill in your mailbox I had to call to cancel your account. When I called to cancel the young lady asked me the reason why Im cancelling the account...I just broke down in tears. She said, " excuse me are you alright?" 'When I finally pulled myself together I said Im cancelling this account because Fernande Valme passed away. OH MY GOSH...you cant imagine how much that statement hurt me! People are still calling your number asking to speak to you. I guess there's still some people out there who dont know.
Mafifi
- Tuesday, June 24, 2008 at 0:20:9
Hey Grandma!! Hows it going..Well i know your doing great!! Well today grandma we had a prayer meeting at our house. People from daddy's church came to pray for us.I learned alot today.Grandma ever since you went away i have been so uptight.Sometimes when mommy talks to me i get angry or just frustrated, and she does not understand. She thinks that im being fresh or my age is too much for me but its not like that at all!! But from tonight i learned that its the pain that i am feeling inside that makes me react like this. But i just want mommy to understand that its really hard. I miss you soo much meme..I Love you!!
Katiana Joseph <dgqgal2@yahoo.com>
- Monday, June 23, 2008 at 23:17:6
MEME, pourquoi nous as-tu laissee aussi vite? MEME tu es, tu etais, et tu resteras une personne extraordinaire.Pour cela, je te promets mon assistance jusqu'au dernier jour de ma vie dans ce merveilleeux travail commence par toi que tu n'as pas eu le temps d'achever. Je sais que le Seigneur t'a appelee, et a cause de cela, IL nous donnera la force neccessaire pour continuer.MEME, ta presence , tes conseils , ton regard, tout ce qui te convient , sera irremplacable,pour une seule raison, "TU ETAIS, TU ES UNIQUE EN TON GENRE" MEME DARLING, je t'aimais beaucoup. MERCI, MERCI, MERCI. ABI, TABI, FRANTZ, T"envoient des millions de baisers au Ciel. MEME, MEME MEME,MEME, I LOVEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE YOUOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO , bye a demain. DODo
dodo <fd.flowers@verizon.net>
brooklyn , NY, USA - Monday, June 23, 2008 at 19:29:30
Yonel,I send my deepest sympathy to you and your family. From what I read your Mother appeared to be a very wonderful woman, very active in her community and family. I know you will cherish all the lessons you have learned from her. May God continue to bless you and your family.Jennifer
Jennifer Lofton <jenniferlofton@bellsouth.net>
Marietta, GA - Monday, June 23, 2008 at 14:54:10
YOU HAVE BEEN AN INSPIRATION TO SO MANY. THANK YOU FOR BEING A GUIDE IN SHOWING ME HOW TO TRULY SERVE THE ONE AND ONLY GOD; AND FOR BEING SUCH AN EXAMPLE TO SO MANY. YOU WILL SURELY BE MISSED, BUT YOUR LEGACY WILL LIVE ON TO TOUCH OTHERS IN A SPECIAL WAY. LOVE YOU!!
RHODES C.
Bloomfield, NEW JERSEY - Monday, June 23, 2008 at 13:17:59
Most people can make the claim that they've touched tens of lives, some will say that they've touched hundreds of lives, but Meme will be among the FEW who can claim that they've touched THOUSANDS of lives. I'm happy to be a part of the thousands. I guess the best way for me to deal with her parting is hold on to the "oh so dear" memories I have of her...like the times when I would go buy breakfast for her saturday mornings at Henry's, or the times I would play the drums while she plays the beige bass drum. or even the times when I would misbehave and she would scold me and call me "ti gason kou long sa"....and I can go on and on. My comfort lies within the fact that she is no longer suffering, that she's gone to better place, and certainly that I will see her again. Her memory and legacy live on, as do my love, honor, and appreciation for her. Thank you Meme for now being in my "cloud of witnesses"..Hebrews 12:1....I LOVE YOU!!!!
Chris Cassagnol <cassagnol@gmail.com>
Brooklyn, USA - Monday, June 23, 2008 at 10:45:27
Meme se pola kap fe ou konnen ke li pakab bliye ou. Sa ki pi red pou mwen se le m ap gade plas ou a. Le ou ap rele mwen pou m ale pran dlo ou byen ti kafe pou ou. Mwen pa pale non pa gen moun ki konnen jan ke m ap dechire. Ou sonje ti konvesasyon nou yo pandan karant jou sak sot pase la? Ou toujou ap mande kouman ou we Este? m... mwen pa pale. Pola fe santinel rele Jenes Kretyen pou yo vin nan sevis dezyem samdi a. Mwen konnen ou renmen ti kreyol ou. Mwen sonje tout konsey yo. Mesi anpil pou ed ou, sipo ou, ak lapriye ou. Pola pitit fi ou
Paula Celius <pcelius@optonline.net>
Brooklyn, N.Y - Sunday, June 22, 2008 at 22:31:54
Hey meme guess what?? My Lakers lost the NBA Finals. You dont understand how bad i felt about the loss because Tati kept rubbing it in me and Katiana faces! We shouldve won the games but the referees were cheating! Right Meme?? lolz....but i know that you are having the time of your life up there and still watching over us and the temple. Dont worry though Meme we are gunna continue the legacy that you inherited within those premises! Well at least in going o have to try and fulfill this tremendous legacy! Well continue to have fun up there and rest asure that we will see each other face to face!
"Prince" Rodney Joseph <outRagios1@yahoo.com>
Brooklyn, NY - Sunday, June 22, 2008 at 21:15:36
Meme was a caring and loving mother and servant of God.She was always praying for people that were sick, had demon in them and etc. Meme would always talk to me and always beat me. But I thank God for her. Meme you was always there when I needed you. Now you are in a safe place. I miss you so much. well love you mom.
Esther Romei <romeiesther@yahoo.com>
Brooklyn, N.Y - Sunday, June 22, 2008 at 15:15:16
Dear Meme, You have been there for me in so many ways over the years and words can't come close to how thankful I am to you. You are one of the kindest and most generous people out there and I am truly blessed to have had the chance to be around you. Although I miss you dearly I know you are in a better place with God and no longer suffering, which makes loosing you a bit more bearable. Thank you for everything you've done for me and for always making room in your heart for. I love you so much Meme and I won't ever forget you.
Phoebe Abraham <Msfabulous3m@yahoo.com>
Brooklyn, New York - Sunday, June 22, 2008 at 14:51:2
Hi Meme...Please tell Kati that I will be the one sitting next to you!!! lol MISS YOU!
Mafifi
- Sunday, June 22, 2008 at 14:47:24
Hey Grandma!! Hows it going..Well i know the answer for that already your doing great. I am doing okay.Okay is the only word i can use to say how i feel because i miss you so much.Ever since your celebration i never cried when i was at home or either in school However, for some reason when i walk inside the temple tears can not stop rolling down my face.I really miss my freind that used to save my SPECIAL spot next to her and wait for me to put my head on her lap when i get tried. I really miss these things. I could do the same thing for my mom but she is not as comfortable as you or as soft and she always complaining that im hurting her legs lol...But what i really loved about you is that you NEVER complained about me laying own on you. It's going to be hard getting through the fact that i can not sit next to you no more in the temple, but i know one day i can sit next to you again and its going to be in heaven..I love you and miss you!!
Katiana Joseph <dgqgal@yahoo.com>
- Sunday, June 22, 2008 at 14:1:31
Oh Mother, Oh Mother, that's the only thing I can say Oh Mother, oh Mother. LOVE YOUR DAUGHTER KETTY
Ketty Valme-Joseph <kfny25@aol.com>
Brooklyn, NY - Sunday, June 22, 2008 at 11:47:0
Hi meme,Meme I cannot believe that you past away on abigals birthday. I love you so so so so so so so much. At the temple I keep on imagine you doing your dance up and down the aisle. Meme have a good time in heven.
BENJAMIN JOSEPH
- Sunday, June 22, 2008 at 10:46:0
Hey Mémé, its a little after 3 am and Im exhausted. Mentally, physically and emotionally exhausted. I don't know where I found the words to preach last night or the strength, but I know I had to do it. I had this message in my spirit for the past 2 months and It all started that Sunday when we were praying for you and I didnt know what to pray about, but I knew that I had to pray. I prayed and I cried, prayed and cried, but I didnt know what to do. So I did the only thing I knew how to do...pray some more. I had to give birth to this word Meme or it would have eaten me alive. I dont know when and if I'll do it again, but I know that there is power in prayer and Ive lived to see the power of prayer. Love you Mémé and I will still pray.
Jean-Jean
Brooklyn, NY - Sunday, June 22, 2008 at 3:21:53
Hi Mommy, It is now 1:09am. This morning at 10:20am when I reached the temple I felt empty. My heart was crying out for you. I couldn't even go inside to sit in the temple of God. The tears are still falling down my face, because I think of you. What kills me the most is that I didn't get to see you before you left. I spent at least 8 months without seeing you, and I asked God to forgive me.(I'm sorry about leaving). I wanted to talk to you before you left, that's what makes me sad even more.That's what made my strength and force get less,and less. After God, because of you mommy I stand behind my two sisters Sr.Rhode and Sr. Ketty,to support them through the ministry. After God it's because of you that I'm still in the temple. The same love you gave me, I believe tha they wil give me the same love. You would be proud of me because I'm now staying in the temple and I will never leave, and no one can make me leave except God. I love you so much, I will never forget you. I know I made you go through alot, but I will not make Sr.Rhode go through that. I will never stop crying, the only person that can dry my tears is God. Love, Your darling Sr.HermaniePS. I finished writing this at 1:43am and I don't think I will fall asleep.
Hermanie Semexant <hermaniesemexant@hotmail.com>
Brooklyn, New York - Sunday, June 22, 2008 at 1:45:8
Hi Meme,I hope you are having a good time in heven. J.C. is trying there best to finish what you told them. Meme we love you very much.Meme I love you so much and have a good time in heaven
Benjamin
- Saturday, June 21, 2008 at 21:51:52
Hello Meme. We just concluded a 3 day fasting at the temple. The first night was really difficult. I keep seeing images of you doing your dance up and down the temple. Then it got a little easier. Jean Jean preached...yes thats right Jean Jean preached. You would have been very proud of him cause he did a GREAT job. Well its official; the angels in heaven and God himself ordained Rhode as your successor. It was an emotional time. The entire family lined up, saluted her and kissed her, then JC, L'armee Celete and the congregation did the same. But we all concluded...there will only and always be one Sr. Valme. I miss you my love...
Mafifi
- Saturday, June 21, 2008 at 21:41:2
Hey Grandma hows it going!! If you where here you were going to ask me hows school doing..Well school is great passed all my classes now i am on vacation yea!! Its mommy birthday today YEA!! Shes getting old lol!! Its been a month since you have gone and I miss you so much!! Grandma I try not to go to your house because i know your not there and that what hurts so much..The fact that your gone and your never coming back!! I miss you so much at the temple.I have no one to sit next to no more no one to lay down on.Besides the fact that you were my grandmother you were my bestfriend! And my bestfriend is no longer here! All I have now are memories to live upon.Now when i go to the temple i sit by myself before I would find you there waiting for me now your not its just me and the empty space next to me.. I miss you soo much. I love you!! See you soon Grandma!!
Katiana Joseph <dgqgal2@yahoo.com>
Brooklyn, NY - Thursday, June 19, 2008 at 14:53:3
Mother today is my birthday,I miss your prayer and I do miss you. LOVE YOU
Ketty Valme-Joseph <kfny25@aol.com>
Brooklyn, NY - Thursday, June 19, 2008 at 11:35:33
One month Meme...I cant believe it. I keep shaking my head in disbelief. I miss you so much. I am trying to find the strength to go to service tonight and to be at the temple for 3 straight days without turning my head and seeing you sitting in your spot. You always had to have someone cook something for all of us once the 3 day fasting is done. No one will even think to do that of us. I love you!!!
Mafifi
- Thursday, June 19, 2008 at 9:42:12
A ma tante cherie Mwen chita an dedan kay la map panse avek ou,ma tante ou kite nou wale,lanmou sa ou te gen pou nou an pap jan-m gen peson ki ka ranplace'l,ma tante mwen konnen ki kote ou ale,min mwen konnen Bon Die tap fe gnou ti kite'w avek nou pi long toujou min se pa sa ke li fe.Ma tante sa ki pi du an, se le map antre nan ri la kay,map gade kay la mwen realize ou pa la tout bon,le'm so nan travay pou-m pase pou ba nou ti blague,pou fe nou ri,ma tante nan kisa ou kite nou la,ma tante san ou min-m ou pa konnen bagay la pa bon du tou du tou, bon sa pou-m fe.Gnou sel bagay nap mande bon Die pou'l ba nou fos pou nou ka kontinye avek bel travay ke ou kite deye,kounye-a la nou pa gen oken lot kote pou nou ale , se la kay Claudia ke nou te ale pou nale gade match Lakers avek Boston lot kote ke nou gengnen se la kay Rhode pou nou bay blague ou we bagay yo pa bon, ah se pa ti kras songe mwen songe'ou,gnou sel bagay mwen swete gnou jou kou jodia map fe efor pou'm ka rankontre ave'ou nan bel cite seles la kote lanj yo avek cherubin yo ap di bravo pou bel travay ke ou te fe, mwen pap jan-m regret gou jou nan vi-m paske ou te gnou ma tante, gnou konseye ,gnou zanmi anfin tout bagay. Map rete la,se te niece ou Edmonde ki remen'ou anpil.
Edmonde Abraham Faitien <amondly@yahoo.com>
Brooklyn, New York - Wednesday, June 18, 2008 at 22:4:46
Dear Meme, I love you and I really miss you. Everyday I realize that your not on Earth, but in a better place, I remember when you would pray for me all my life, I can't believe your gone, You were the best great aunt that I knew and to know you when I was growing up was the best gift that I could ask for, I wish you would visit from heaven down to earth so i could see your face again and that everyone who miss you would be able to smile again and rejoice about Meme because even though she's not here on Earth she's with God in Heaven and soon when we have our lives come to an end we will be able to be with God and Meme in heaven, I Love you Meme and I hope that when you look down from heaven at everyone you knew you would know that your time with everyone was worth it.From Your loving Great Nephew,Jethro Jonathan Abraham
Jethro Abraham <jethroabraham94@yahoo.com>
Brooklyn, New York - Wednesday, June 18, 2008 at 19:37:18
Dear Meme,
Meme I miss you so much,everytime my daddy went to the hospital I always asked him how she was doing,every year before we went to school she would pray for us,since now i remember when I was a baby she loved me so much and I always would pray for me,meme was a big part of my life and I will never forget herand I know your in a better place,no one can ever replace the empty place in my heart,I will never forget you,I LOVE YOU!!!Love,your Great niece Rebecca Abraham

rebecca abraham <angelgurlr23@aim.com>
Brooklyn, New York - Wednesday, June 18, 2008 at 19:28:37
Good Morning Meme. I just finish eating breakfast and was washing my bowl and then I looked up and out the window and saw your house staring at me. I can still hear your voice in my head I cant even stop crying long enough to time this. Oh my goodness the pain in my chest is overwhelming. Meme, I dont know where Im gonna get the courage to participate in the 3 day prayer. Please help me. I miss you, I miss you, I miss you and I miss you some more...i cant believe you're gone..........
Mafifi
- Wednesday, June 18, 2008 at 10:24:53
MEME, TELL me or SHOW me how COULD I or SHOULD I live with this PAIN! It HURTS sooooooo MUCH. I miss MY MEME.
natascha coeur <tcoeur@optonline.net>
B'klyn, ny - Wednesday, June 18, 2008 at 0:11:7
Im not even going to attempt to put my feelings in this book. I wouldnt know where to begin, and I doubt there would be enough memory on this website's Internet server. But I will say this. Im glad that my mother (Sr. Maurice Guillaume)use to force me to wake up early Saturday mornings to go to this basement on Newkirk to pray. At that age I just looked forward to the hot Coco and bread afterwards... LolAnyway... I wrote a song that I sing to myself when my days seem dark. It helps me to focus on the fact the God is still God and He is in control. THe Words are:
Though the tears keep flowing from my eyes Though the winds keep blowing in my life I'll forever give you praise for all the things you've done for me Though the mountians in my life seems high I will serve you until I die You will never give me more then I can bare My life has changed Since I placed all of my burdens in your hand
Those words has brought me through some really hard times. So I leave share it with you all here.Meme, rest well. The Trumpet will sound off soon and you will be dancing like we know you can dance after God whispers in your ear... "Well done".In the mean time... Rest wellLove you muchTi-son

Dickson Guillaume <dicksonguillaume@yahoo.com>
Brooklyn, New York - Tuesday, June 17, 2008 at 17:3:6
Hi Meme, I cant believe we're approaching your one month anniversary...so I've been crying for 30 days straight??!!!The pictures from your funeral are posted on your website...wow "your funeral" can you believe those words now apply to you? I miss you and I want to see you. Please help me to get a good night's sleep tonight; I really need it. I miss you so much at times I think Im having a heart attack. Cant wait to see you soon...I dont even care if its very soon.
Mafifi
- Monday, June 16, 2008 at 22:29:24
Happy Father's Day! I recall you telling me its not necessary to buy you a Father's Day gift. But as time went on you would call me early morning asking where's your gift? You were both Mom and Dad to me. I lost so much when I lost you. Happy Father's Day!
Mafifi
- Sunday, June 15, 2008 at 10:19:36
Meme we just came from the hospital,to thank the 6th floor ccu staff. It was so hard being @ the hospital I could not stop crying!Our favorite nurse Lela was there.I know you are please that we went.I smile when I remember you ask for your purse to tip the nurses.Meme your are ONE of a KIND! I missssss you and love you sooooooo MUCH .
natascha coeur <tcoeur@optonline.com>
B'klyn, ny - Friday, June 13, 2008 at 21:46:42
Good Morning Meme, I slept a little better last night...thank you! Please tell Mommy Happy Birthday for me. Today would have been the BIG 60! I guess that's another reason you had to go; mommy wanted to celebrate the big 60 with you. Please give her 6o kisses for me.P.S. The Celtics won last night...THANKS!!!!Forever missing you...Mafifi
Mafifi
- Friday, June 13, 2008 at 9:12:35
A Mme Mireille, Mirlande, M.Lyonel, Gerald, Mme Rhode et KettieValme, Recevez mes profonds regrets. Bien que tard que jamais.Adeline Pascal Denisfille de Soeur Sauveur Pascal.
Adeline Pascal Denis <wtden@hotmail.com>
la Romana, Rep. Dominicaine - Thursday, June 12, 2008 at 20:50:44
Hello Meme. Its 1am and I cant sleep. I think about you everyday. Meme, do you remember that rose bush that NEVER produced roses during years you lived at the house? Every year Tasha and I were tempted to chop it down. You always said no because one of these days it will produces roses. Well you were right! This year for the FIRST time the bush produced 6 beautiful roses. Can you believe it???!!!!!! Im so sorry you're not around to say "I told you so"!P.S. Meme, The Lakers won. You really have a problem with you home team losing. I love you!
Mafifi
- Thursday, June 12, 2008 at 1:52:55
MEME. TE SOUVIENS TU DE NOTRE SEJOUR EN HAITI EN DECEMBRE 2007? C'ETAIT FORMIDABLE:TE SOUVIENS TU DE NOTRE DERNIERE SOIREE A L'HOPITAL MAY 18,avec SR VIO. C'ETAIT MA PLUS GRANDE JOIE DE PASSER CETTE NUIT AVEC TOI . MERCI JE T'aime MEME. LOVE DODO.
DODO <fd,flowers@verizon.net>
NEW YORK, BROOKLYN, USA - Wednesday, June 11, 2008 at 19:48:17
Nous nous souviendrons toujours de toi "MEME".Tu n'es plus presnte avec nous,mais nous avons la ferme certitude que nous te verrons au ciel.Certes,physiquement nous sommes separes de toi,mais nous voulons te faire savoir que,tu fus,tu es,tu resteras toujours une MAMAN, une GRANDMERE, une conseillere.Nous te prometons le meilleur decor malgre ton absence a 1120 Flatbush,"NAN kay'y L'ETERNEL la.MEME, il nous a pris tout ce temps d'ajouter une pensee, non pas par indiference, mais uniquement parce qu'il nous etait trop difficile d'accepter ton absence,ton depart. MEME nous t'aimons beaucoup. Mille remerciements pour tes prieres, mille remerciements pour "Christ Alive Flower Shop" Located in brooklyn.Au Ciel,la ou tu resides maintenant,regarde nous, et nous te garantirons notre"LOVE" notre "D", notre comprehension pour pouvoir continuer ton oeuvre inachevee.En un mot"DEAR LOVELY MEME" TU es UNE MAGNIFIQUE,REMARQUABLE,INOUBLIABLE,AIMABLE, EXTRAORDINAIRE,AIMAMTE,FEMME DE DIEU, UNE EXCEPTIONELLE PERSONE QUI A ETE ENVOYEE DU CIEL POUR NOUS, SPECIALEMENT NOUS LES HAITIENS . MERCI, MERCI, MERCI, MERCI.LOVE ET GRANDS BAISERS A TOI AU CIEL.TES EXHORTATIONS RESTERONT GRAVEES POUR TOUJOURS NOUS T'AIMONS BEAUCOUP.LA FAMILLE BERTONI.HEY' MEME CHERIE, N'OUBLIE PAS , LES PETALES DE ROSES ROUGE ,NOUS EN AVONS, RESERVEES UNIQUEMENT POUR TOI,Ne le chuchotte a personne C'EST NOTRE SECRET.BYE . LOVE.US.
Christ Alive Flower Shop " The Bertoni's Family <fd.flowers@verizon.net>
New York, Brooklyn, USA - Wednesday, June 11, 2008 at 19:33:11
MEME you were a great person, you left a legacy behind in all our eyes. You stay true to your belief in God, You were faithful and Truthful. Now God has rewarded you by bringing you to heaven. The temple will never be the same without you, but one day we will be reunited with you in heaven. R.I.P MEME,rest in perfect peace.
Chrissy <chrissyh13@gmail.com>
Brookyln, New York, Lives in Delware - Wednesday, June 11, 2008 at 13:48:36
Ou té gin raizon ou té dim pa fé colé! Im trying not to lose it Meme, but its hard. I will try harder I promise.
Jean-Jean
- Tuesday, June 10, 2008 at 22:52:35
R.I.P. Meme, I am going to truly miss you. You were the epitome of a strong faithful haitian woman. I'm going to miss the phone conversations, everytime you prayed for me when I was caught up in the wrong. The temple won't EVER be the same without you. Even though you are gone, you will NEVER be forgotten.
"Neo" Nemuel Hilaire <Matrixboy688@yahoo.com>
Representin Brooklyn N.Y. but reside in Dover, DE, - Tuesday, June 10, 2008 at 22:13:3
Meme,One for the road....Cloze the door pleaze!
natascha coeur <tcoeur@optonline.com>
B'klyn, n - Tuesday, June 10, 2008 at 21:50:24
MEME!MEME!MEME! The WORLD will NEVER NEVER EVER KNOW WHO WE have LOST NOR will they understand OUR PAIIIIIIIIIIIIIIN!
natascha coeur <tcoeur@optonline.com>
B'klyn, ny - Tuesday, June 10, 2008 at 20:2:17
Meme, Once again I had a very difficult day I miss you so MUCH I don't know what to do with myself.You were our ROCK in which we got STRENGTH from but now OUR ROCK is no longer with us.GOD please give me STRENGTH! I NEVER heard MEME said WHY ME LORD! While she was in PAIN. MEME when I grow up I want to be as STRONG as YOU! I LOVE &MISS you . TASCH
natascha coeur <tcoeur@optonline.com>
B'klyn, ny - Tuesday, June 10, 2008 at 18:54:19
Hi Meme, another brutal day at the temple. I cant wait till this project is done cause I just cant bear it anymore. I had a tough time sleeping last night and it had nothing to do with the heat; you know how much I love the heat. I slept right through your 12:30 bathroom run but I was wide a wake from 1:52am on. You always said if we cant sleep at night pray and tell God "here I am" because he's probably trying to tell us something. Well I didnt pray, I dont have the strength to pray. After just a few words I start to cry. I would give ANYTHING to go back to May 18th 2008. I'd give more plus my left kidney, no make that both kidneys to go back to May 2007! I miss you so much, but then you know I would.
P.S. Meme, The Lakers are playing at home tonight...they'll be wearing WHITE jerseys. I know how you feel about a team losing at home but Meme, we want the Celtics to win! So cheer for the team in GREEN. Okay, GREEN Meme…think GREEN! Lol. Love you

Mafifi
- Tuesday, June 10, 2008 at 16:9:1
Soeur Valme,all I can say is that I truly can't believe you are gone...here I am sitting at work and still trying to understand why you had to go so quickly...It seems just yesterday you were telling me as always how I need God in my life.Soeur Valme I relly don't think you really gone for as long as there are people like me and your kids and evangelical family you'll only be resting.Even then I think if we truly want to see you all we have to do is open our eyes and you are there with us....I also want to thank you for all your boys and girls for they are truly my brothers and sisters even Rhode. lol
Yvon Michel <Pnkrck@aol.com>
Plainfield, NJ - Tuesday, June 10, 2008 at 12:51:5
I was at work today and I started singing one of the songs that was on the radio and I had to stop myself from crying at work. I can see you praying and giving God praise. I hear you saying my favorite word...Extraordinaire.You were extraordinaire to me. You had no HS Diploma or G.E.D, No Bachelors, No Masters, No Ph,D and you were able to teach us, sit and talk amongst Doctors and show us who G.O.D was...thats EXTRAORDINAIRE!
Jean-Jean <jwmichel77@hotmail.com>
- Monday, June 9, 2008 at 19:36:48
Meme, Im at the temple now. I need your strength and the will to continue because I just cant! I miss you and my heart is forever broken. I know you must be one beautiful angel! I cannot wait until I am up there next to you again.
Mafifi
- Monday, June 9, 2008 at 14:42:40
I am so greatful to have experienced a ceremony for a great Humanitarian Individual. I wished to have conversed with this person. I would have welcomed her deep rooted and genuine knowledge...indeed it would have touched my soul. Meme has moved on to a higher level where the blessings of GOD will continue to shower her.
Woodley G. Verdiner
- Sunday, June 8, 2008 at 19:59:12
I was very sad to hear about the passing of Fernande Valmé. I've known Meme all my life and have been going to the temple all my life. Meme was always there to pray for whenever I needed. One of the things that I remember the most was every year before school would start she would have these special services where the children could kind tell what they didnt like what our parents where doing. This was always fun for me and at the end of each service should would pray for us kids and anoint us with oil. No matter where I go I can never forget that. Meme will truly be missed and I know that her work will continue to go on. She has now gone to be with her creator and savior.
Anthony Hilaire <ahilaire07@yahoo.com>
Brooklyn, N.Y - Sunday, June 8, 2008 at 12:40:54
I love you!
Mafifi
- Saturday, June 7, 2008 at 15:28:7
With much Love from your Grand-daughter:Femme FideleEternel est son DieuReste pres de nos coeursNul ne peut te remplacerAme bien aimeeNee servante du Dieu Tres HautDefendresse des pauvres en espiritEntierement devouee aux affaires de Jesus ChristVertueuse en toute choseAttentionee aux besoins des autresLouer!, Elle aime faireMaman pour tousEvangeliste elue
Nadege Esperance <nadege_esperance@yahoo.com>
Brooklyn, NY - Saturday, June 7, 2008 at 13:34:9
This pain in my chest Meme, please take it!
Mafifi
- Saturday, June 7, 2008 at 0:55:40
Just to see the out pouring of love here is divine. Although I did not know her, I feel the love she spread through all of your words. Jean-Wesley, How lucky and blessed you are to have experienced such greatness.Please continue to keep her Memory alive and colorful. With Respect.....Nikki
Nikki <creamyblk2@aol.com>
Brooklyn, New York - Saturday, June 7, 2008 at 0:47:34
Good Morning Meme, I laughed so hard last night. I almost felt guilty. We watched the Lakers and Celtics game. Everyone was here...even the "Vwazin". We cheer and made fun of each other....we remembered you. We spoke of how you always cheered for the team in white, because you didn't think a team should get beaten at home. We always joke that you just like them cause they're in white. We laughed about how you would shout "chi poule" when you wanted someone to miss a shot! I remembered how you cheered during the NY Giants game and prayed for them to win..and they DID! Oh my gosh, I miss you Meme. I really miss you.
Mafifi
- Friday, June 6, 2008 at 8:20:10
Its Thursday and it feels weird to be home knowing that after work I would come and see you and sing to you. Im still gonna sing, but I'll do my best to make sure that I come and see you. Love you and miss you! We all miss you!
Jean-Jean <jwmichel77@hotmail.com>
Brooklyn, NY - Thursday, June 5, 2008 at 19:49:3
Hi Meme. I miss you Meme. I love you Meme. See you soon.
Vio
- Thursday, June 5, 2008 at 15:18:29
"A la traka pou Fernande...."
Mafifi
- Thursday, June 5, 2008 at 10:50:29
Hi Meme! I was just thinking about you and I said out loud "I Love You" and I could have sworn I heard you reply..."I'm love you too". You never did get the fact that its " I love you too" and not " I'm love you too" no matter how often I told..ha, haI think you had it right. Its the rest of us that had it wrong! I'm really, really miss you!!!!
Mafifi
- Thursday, June 5, 2008 at 10:46:43
MY MEME! as I sit here missing you soooooo MUCH,I can't stop crying I here your voice telling stop doing work around the house and come sit with you. I said Meme I have time I need to clean the house for you just the way you like it.WOW MEME I still have so much to tell you I'm ready to sit by you and stop cleaning but it" too late!Oh my GOD!I need MY MEME back.She has so much to tell.I'm 37 years old and I still do not now my bra size,Meme you spoil us so much.I've live more than half of my life without my mother BUT from the day I was born until 5/19/08 I've NEVER been without my MEME!GOD please HEEEEEEEEEELLLLLLLP!It hurt so much.
natascha coeur <tcoeur@optonline.com>
B'klyn, ny - Thursday, June 5, 2008 at 0:46:43
Hello Meme, I know youre doing just fine up there. Its me who's having a tough time on earth. I came to the temple Monday and Tuesday and broke down in tears. I CANT BELIEVE YOURE GONE! It's like youre here today and in an instant it was all over. I have this huge void and it hurts so much. I cant stop crying and my body keeps waking up at our usual times at night. I have so many memories of you. Pouchon stopped by the other night and we talked about you until 2am. He cant stop crying either. He recall being very sick and the lord leading you to lay your hands on him and he has been cured every since. At that moment I thought to myself that your not dead but hundreds and hundreds of "Ti Sr. Valme" has been planted and will flourish through out the country. I miss our 2am drives around the neighborhood until you got sleepy. I miss you tip toeing to the bathroom so you wont wake me up as I slept on the floor beside your bed. I remember us laugh when I would open my eyes and ask "kote ou prale". I remember standing behind you and wrapping my arms around your waist as we walked in harmony to the bathroom. I remember having to stand outside the bathroom door while you went because you wont let me in; you had such pride and dignity! I really miss you!
Mafifi
- Wednesday, June 4, 2008 at 11:24:34
Soeur Valme, A committed servant of God. Tireless in the mission set before her. I want to thank God for providing such a wonderful woman. And I also want to thank her children for sharing her with me. If I am able to be the woman that I am today, it is largely a result of her Ministry. Although, the void created by Soeur Valme’s absence is profound, I take comfort in knowing that God knows what is best and He does what is right and good. Sister Valme, you are missed and will never be forgotten. Until we meet again...Martine Alisca Nicolas
Mrs. Martine Alisca Nicolas
Baldwin, New York - Tuesday, June 3, 2008 at 12:46:49
Mèmè,Nous avions reçu beaucoup de grâce auprès du Seigneur Jésus par tes multiples intercessions. Toujours compatissante et prête a apporter nos fardeaux devant le trône de Dieu, ton grand frère. Pour toujours ton nom est gravé dans nos cœurs, et nous ne t’oublierions jamais. Fille de Sion, repose en paix, voici, ton Sauveur arrivera un jour pour les noces de l'Agneau. Tu t'es préparée. Et il te sera donné de t'habiller d'un lin pur éclatant. Ce lin représente les actions justes de ceux qui appartiennent à Dieu.Yves, Mimi, Nadine & Daniel Hyacinthe
Myrlène Hyacinthe <myrlene@gmail.com>
Medford, MA, USA - Tuesday, June 3, 2008 at 12:41:59
Mémé we did it, we finally did it. Ou té kon rélém tete du...mwen resi tandé. One down, one more to go!Love you!
Jean-Jean <jwmichel77@hotmail.com>
Laval, Brooklyn, Canada, USA - Tuesday, June 3, 2008 at 7:19:42
Grandma...where do i start? Now that your gone i dont often pray to the Lord, i have conversations with you for various times of the day and night. Im still coping with your loss grandma. The way i used to come over and watch football with you and you tell me all the time that you didnt want me playin this brutal sport. I watched it so much with you that you even fell asleep on me! Well grandma i know that your watching over me and i will continue to pray and talk to you! Love you Grandma! <3
Rodney "Prince" Joseph <outRagios1@yahoo.com>
Brooklyn, NY - Monday, June 2, 2008 at 10:54:52
Fernande: Ta fille Mireille Il me faut de la force a cette heure: Ce Samedi 5/31/2008
Mireille V Esperance <esperance1617@aol.com>
- Saturday, May 31, 2008 at 15:5:28
Manman,prend note:ta marraine, ta compagne de genoux, priere partner,il me faut de la force et du courage maintenant.Manman,take note: your Godmother,your prayer partner,yourcompanion needs strength right now
Mirelle V Esperance <esperance1617@aol.co>
- Saturday, May 31, 2008 at 14:57:24
Manman,notre heure de priere du Dimanche 3 Mars 2008 restera graver en moi....Un moment inoubliable.
Manman we spent one hour in prayer(you&I)on Sunday March 3rd, 2008 This sweet moment will never be forgotten

Mireille V Eperance <esperance1617@aol.com>
newburgh, NY - Saturday, May 31, 2008 at 14:40:23
To Valme familyI am very sorry that I was not at the funeral. The simple reason was that I did not know that she had died, but I knew about her sickness.My condoleances to everyone in the family. Once again I am really sorry. I will keep you in my prayer.Fifie
Fredeline Ostaing <lakers246@verizon.net>
Brooklyn, - Saturday, May 31, 2008 at 8:53:29
Hi Meme I went back to work finally, it was so hard to go to work. I try to stay out all day and work at least 15 hrs a day just so I dnt have to come home and realize tht your not upstairs.I had to catch myself today I brought a patient to the hospital, and I almost went upstairs like I usually do to come see you!
frero
Meme's house, - Friday, May 30, 2008 at 0:51:40
Meme, it is with great honor and pleasure to write on your behalf. Being your first grandson (I know you take pleasure when i say that, but it's true) I learned so much from you. It's very ironic that we became so much closer once i moved from New York to Georgia. I miss every Sunday when i come home from church, i would call you every Sunday. Although there is a big emptiness inside of me, but im thrilled to know you took a direct flight straight to HEAVEN. Thank you for being there for my family and I. Thank you for praying for my daughter "Belle" your great-grandaughter while herself was clinging to dear life. I do believe you used one of your life lines on her. I can write forever but the last thing I want to share is that because I was so far away, I couldn't see you often but Claudya would always put the phone on speaker so You can hear me and I can hear you too. I said and as usually, I LOVE YOU MEME and you responded I--- LOVE---You----too she utters.Love always,Your big boy as you always called me.
Steve E. Coeur <Stucoeur@aol.com>
Buford, USA/Georgia - Thursday, May 29, 2008 at 22:22:51
I wanted you to know that when I heard about the death of your grandma I was so saddend. she always had a great smile everytime you saw her.when you lose someone you love It's a personal emptiness in your wolrd my condolences to the valme family and the coeur family.
marie fleming(the fleming family) <ladylove25@optonline.net>
brooklyn, ny - Thursday, May 29, 2008 at 8:53:11
Je pense que soeur Valme restera vivante dans l'esprit de tous qu'elle avait touche durant vie sur le globe.Je ne regretterai jamais d'avoir fait sa connaissance.Dr. Philius Nicolas
Pasteur Philius Nicolas <drpnicolas@yahoo.com>
NY, USA - Wednesday, May 28, 2008 at 17:16:21
Hi Grandma, its me again. Yesterday I visited your grave site, wow I can't believe it...YOUR GRAVE SITE. Those words seem so odd to type. I can't believe you are no longer with us! The flowers are still so fresh & beautiful. Dodo and Russian did a great job. Meme, I miss you so much. I can't stay at your house because I can see you everywhere and in everything. Your favorite chair, the T.V. room..oh my goodness the T.V room still has your scent. I cry each night and my body is still accustom to waking up at 12:30am, 3:30am and 5:30am for our usual bathroom trips. I miss you so much.
Mafifi
- Wednesday, May 28, 2008 at 14:2:23
Dear SR. Valme,You were like my second mother if I'm here today after God, it's because of you. When my mom told me I couldn't believe it. It was like I was in a dream. The next day I had to go to school, and I couldn't stop crying. I loved you so much, and I still do. Going in the Temple will not be the same anymore. I won't see you in front when your always sitting down watching me and my family walk in. My mom cry's every single day she can't even work. I have so many pictures of you in my room and all over my house. I'm sorry to say, but I will not be in the temple all the time. Yes, I know if you were here you would say to come but it's to hard. Everybody in my family says you were like another mom for them. We are trying to stay strong, but we can't. I hope the family stays strong and continues the Sr.Valme ministries. I will never forget you, neither will my family. Love, Lisa Semexant(Sr.Hermanie's daughter)
Lisa Semexant <cutiepie6544557@gmail.com>
Brooklyn, New York - Tuesday, May 27, 2008 at 19:29:46
Meme, we buried you yesterday....Im so sorry! I know how much you hate to stay alone so it kills me to walk away and leave the cemetary. I feel as if someone punched me in the stomach. Please Meme please ask God to take away the pain; its too much
Mafifi
- Sunday, May 25, 2008 at 23:10:54
Nos sinceres condoleances a la famille Valme et amis affliges en cette penible circonstance. Que le tout puissant vous soit en aide et comble vos besoins, qu'il vous aide a tenir le flambeau de l'EVANGILE.
la famille Forges
Florida, USA - Sunday, May 25, 2008 at 22:59:1
Sister Fernande Valme was a real servant of the Lord. She was inspired by God and followed the will of God. In 1986, she spent time praying every day at noon with my sick daughter for two weeks. She was a good and faithful servant. May she rest in the bosom of the Lord. Gizele D. Francois
Gizele D. Francois
Rosedale, New York, USA - Sunday, May 25, 2008 at 17:11:1
The lessons you taught me were invaluable. If I'm a husband and father today, it's because you prayed for me and with me. I miss you!JJ
Jean-Jean <jwmichel77@hotmail.com>
Brooklyn, NY - Sunday, May 25, 2008 at 14:38:0
Meme it's now day 1, wow after yesterday I had to come home and realize that you are not upstairs; you know how I usually come thru the door and strip down my work clothes at the door and run upstairs to either put you in the bed or in the chair because we all know that I was the only one that could do it....pls we didnt want to break mafifi's back!
Meme I tried so hard to sleep last night. I remember when I asked you if it was alright to get dressed up for my wedding, me and my boys, in your house. I hope it's still ok, and I hope i'm strong enough. Meme pls give me strengh, its gonna be hard to get married w/o you physically there, its gonna be hard to get dressed up and hear you tell me " gadon belle petit gason "Day 1frero

frero
Brooklyn, - Sunday, May 25, 2008 at 13:49:25
Mes Condoleances a la famille Valme. I am deeply touched by this loss. But , I rejoice that one of God's Angels was here on earth caring for us, touching us, and blessing us in ways that cannot be expalined. Soeur Valme will continue her works from the Heaven's now. May God Bless the surviving family with strength , courage, hope , and above all, LOVE. May Soeur Valme's Mission and passion progress through her Family by continuing to spread the LOVE that Sister Valme so abundantly shared with everyone.I love you all.Ginette Rows and my Children
Ginette Rows <grows@verizon.net>
Huntington, USA - Saturday, May 24, 2008 at 1:42:35
Sincere regrets RN CPCU
Marie-Sania Khawly <misania@hotmail.com>
ny, USA - Friday, May 23, 2008 at 22:51:49
I would like to offer my condoleances to the Valme Family.sincerely, Jacquet Marthing, Rn from CPCU.....
marthing jacquet <mj72love@yahoo.com>
ny, USA - Friday, May 23, 2008 at 22:49:56
THIS IS WHAT IMMEDIATELY CAME TO MIND... Strength and dignity are her clothing and her position is strong and secure; she rejoices over the future [the latter day or time to come, knowing that she and her family are in readiness for it]!She opens her mouth in skillful and godly Wisdom, and on her tongue is the law of kindness [giving counsel and instruction].She looks well to how things go in her household, and the bread of idleness (gossip, discontent, and self-pity) she will not eat.Her children rise up and call her blessed (happy, fortunate, and to be envied); and her husband boasts of and praises her, [saying],Many daughters have done virtuously, nobly, and well [with the strength of character that is steadfast in goodness], but you excel them all.Taken from The Noble Woman eplilogue - Proverbs 31vs25-29 Amplified Bible (AMP)You are so much to so many people & because of that, your memory lives in your legacy.Thank you so much for your ministry,we love you,Sr (Jean)Balmir & the family
Stephanie on behalf of Sr Balmir & Family <stephanie@abakobleu.com>
Bklyn, NY - Friday, May 23, 2008 at 22:34:5
Meme,it's time to go to your wake now. I CANT!Going to the wake will make it final...and Im not ready for that just yet. I want to make you so proud of me but I am growing weak. My heart is beating so fast and Im finding it hard to swollow. Please continue to give me strength. I love you and miss you so much.
Mafifi
- Friday, May 23, 2008 at 16:42:15
Meme/Grandma you are an irreplaceable woman with so much accomplished. The day I heard your news, I mourned and did not talk about anything beside you for days. I know that you still had so much left to do here on earth. You are a woman that was so open and helpful. I will never forget the words you told me when you came to my house and saw me, may God Bless You. The day I heard you had to part with us, all I could see everywhere was your face and the words : How did Meme die ? You were like a grandmother to me. Your soul will rest in peace and I know you will watch over us and guide us. Please let your spirit guide us and lead the way for J.C. I will miss you soooooooooooo much!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Emmanuel Gerard <sebastienegerard@verizon.net>
Brooklyn, US - Friday, May 23, 2008 at 16:19:40
Dear Meme, You have touched so many lives and hearts. We thank you for the time you spent with us all. We thank you for teaching us how to pray and serve GOD. You are an angel in heaven looking down on us. We love you and will miss you. For old times sake (YOU NO SPEAKING CHIN, BUT ME, ME SPEAKING CHIN TO BLAIZE THE LORD MY GOD) Love you always and in our hearts.........
DD
Lumberton, NJ - Friday, May 23, 2008 at 11:22:35
We share in your lost and our prayers are with you and your family during your time of sorrow.Keep up the faithgaby & kathie
Emmanuel St Louis <estlo933320@aol.com>
New York, USA - Friday, May 23, 2008 at 9:10:26
qui me dira: tifi alle travail om pale trop nantelephone moun yo. Je te verrai, on aura beaucoup plus a se dire. Je te parfume mon amour, ta marraine Mireille v esperance
ta marraine <esperance1617@aol,com>
- Friday, May 23, 2008 at 7:44:44
Mémé, mwen pa gin mots pou'm di ki jen'm sonjéw!I feel like a part of me is gone and there will be no way to replace or even fill that void. One of the most important things you taught me, if not the most important thing you taught was how to pray. And it has been the greatest gift you have ever given me. Im learning the power in prayer, the power of prayer and Im learning how to pray with power. Because of our talks and your advice I am a better man, husband and father. M'ap essayé pou'm pa fé colé! I love you and thank you!
Jean-Jean <jwmichel77@hotmail.com>
Brooklyn/Laval, NY/Canada - Friday, May 23, 2008 at 3:52:52
I would like to send my condoleances to the Valme' family. She will truely be missed.
Sam Charles <samrcharles@hotmail.com>
philadelphia, USA/PA - Thursday, May 22, 2008 at 21:42:4
WE EXTEND OUR LOVE AND SINCERE SYMPATHY TO THE VALME FAMILY ON THE DEATH OF YOUR MATRIACH. MAY GOD RICHLY BLESS EACH AND EVERYONE OF YOU AND GRANT YOU THE GRACE AND COURAGE TO CONTINUE HER MINISTRY.
EULINE, WINSTON AND ALEX ROBIN
- Thursday, May 22, 2008 at 20:53:44
I will never forget all the thine Ms.Valme has taught me. She made me feel as if i was family, and although we did'nt no each other very long the working experience with her will always be remembered. All condolences to the family and thank you dearly for making me feel like I was apart of the family, especially Claudia, I hope that god gives you the strength to get through this harsh reality and best wishes to all. From - Marie Dyna Cetoute Djenna Bazile - Daughter Dyanna Denard - Daughter Carlynchia Cetoute - Daughter Marie Pierre-Louis - Mother Lynchie Bowlay - Sister
Marie Dyna Cetoute <Dyandra04@yahoo.com>
222 east 39th street , Brooklyn, Ny 11203 - Thursday, May 22, 2008 at 20:6:16
Meme was like a grandmother to me and my siblings. She was a great inspiration and had the ability to make anyone want to connect to God. She will be sadly missed. I hope and pray that her legacy and her love of God will live on on all of us.
Delta Barometre <atled2002@aol.com>
Pomona, NY - Thursday, May 22, 2008 at 20:0:1
Sr.Valme, we will miss you. You were a good example of what a true christian should be. You not only talk the talk but you walked the walk. Because of your example, the generations after you will have a model to follow. We can honestly say that we saw Jesus in you. Love always.
Rev. Yves Pierre and family <winniepierre129@aol.com>
Brooklyn, New York - Thursday, May 22, 2008 at 18:3:40
My deepest and profound condolences to the Valme family and extended family. I can not remember a day in my life without Sr. Valme there and I will never have to. She is still a part of so many lives, emotionally and spiritually.
Cindy Charles <evenar@hotmail.com>
Nashville, TN - Thursday, May 22, 2008 at 16:25:37
WOW!!! I can not believe you are no longer here on earth with me. Thanks for the chat we had Friday morning (5/16). You told me to stop crying because you're no longer in pain. You must have taken MY pain away because I dont feel any saddness...I ALWAYS knew I was your favorite.
P.S. Please let Nennenn (Rhode) know once and for all that I AM YOUR FAVORITE!

Mafifi
- Thursday, May 22, 2008 at 15:13:8
My deepest and profound condolences to everyone! It’s really hard to imagine Sr. Valme has past away and she is no longer “physically” with us! She will be remembered similar to Dr. King. People will speak of her name for years and generations to come. What a legacy she has left behind. How many souls has she guided towards the correct spiritual path?I can recall my mom overjoyed and singing when the Temple was having another 40 days of prayer, and my younger brother Sam taking his 1st foot steps in the Temple. What’s funny is; till this day I have a fetish for women’s toes and I think it’s partly due to going to the Temple as a child (smile)…lolWe are ALL disciples of Sr. Valme and her teachings”. Once again, I would like to convey my deepest sympathy.Best regards, Your friend Woodley
Woodley Charles
- Thursday, May 22, 2008 at 13:56:9
i miss you MEME/grandma i wish you never left us you were the best i cant stop crying knowing that you not goin to be here and more i miss when you talked to me you told me right from wrong and you help me with alot of thing you were sick and you still prayed for me i love you so much there are no words that can fully express my love for you i really with the bottom of my heart love you.......
abraham bertoni <abrahambertoni@yahoo.com>
brooklyn, united States - Thursday, May 22, 2008 at 12:17:8
You are a Great woman and your legacy will live forever! In a very simple non compromising way, you did what you came to do on this earth:the work of GOD. We should all be reminded how blessed we were to be around you.
A friend of the family
Brooklyn, New York - Thursday, May 22, 2008 at 12:6:34
MEME i love you. you have been the sweetest person i have ever known......each time i think of the way you use to talk to me, look at me and joke around and being strict at times with me i cant stop cryin when i rerember all these things...i miss you....i never meet someone like u so strong and determined to win souls for god and i dont think i ever will.... i will miss you soo much from my heart i love u....and i will promise u with the help of god that i will do everything right and always remember u with everthing i go thought....iam soo happy because i know you are in paradise. i truly love you grandma...and i will always remember what you told me...love you....
tabitha Bertoni <tabithabertoni@yahoo.com>
brooklyn, U.S.A - Thursday, May 22, 2008 at 12:5:50
Meme I know Im not suppose to cry but its sooooooooooooooooo hard I cant sleep because everytime I close my eyes I can hear your voice, " kote frero le poko veni" ok map tan le"Frero mwen bayswen al na caban! Me tem na caban!Mommy I miss you!frero.Oh meme pa bliye marriage la 5 juliet di Mommy petit gason pwal marrie! :(
Frero
Brook;yn, - Thursday, May 22, 2008 at 2:7:39
Meme....it's so hard to say goodbye.
Mafifi
- Thursday, May 22, 2008 at 0:53:42
Dear Meme,You are so dear to me, and I love you so much. Im glad your not suffering anymore. God took you home for a reason, but everybody still misses you.Hugs & kissesAbigail!
Abigail Apolon <RhodeValme@yahoo.com>
Brooklyn, - Wednesday, May 21, 2008 at 23:36:2
Hi Meme, its me Arhyele I miss you, and I wish you were here. I love you very much , I wish you didnt have to leave me to go to Heaven. May God Bless you in heaven and I know you're in a better place.Love Arhyele!
Arhyele Coeur <ArhyeleCoeur@TheCoeurs.com>
Georgia, - Wednesday, May 21, 2008 at 23:30:16
Hi Meme it Isabelle (belle), I knw tht your in a better place now but I still Miss you. I love You very much, and I know you love me to.Bye Meme say hi to grandma Suze for me, and tell her that im doing good in school!Belle!
Isabelle Coeur <IsabelleCoeur@TheCoeur.com>
Georgia, - Wednesday, May 21, 2008 at 23:24:27
Mom I love you, you're finally home Praise GOD well dnt have much to say because Ive been been talking to you for 25 years "what more can I say" well im glad you with Suze now tell mom tht I Love her dearly and the on July 5th.frero!
Abraham Coeur <Acoeur21@yahoo.com>
brooklyn, - Wednesday, May 21, 2008 at 23:13:30
To my Dear Mom, As you have passed onto a better place with God I have lost a major part of myself along with you. It is as if I have lost my arms and legs and what keeps me going is knowing that one day we will be reunited in heaven. I will deeply miss you calling me to drink coffee or asking if I ate today. Now I have no place to just go anytime. You will always be everything to me and you are and always will be my rock of security. I love you Meme
Sonny Abraham <Sonnyabraham62@yahoo.com>
Brooklyn, USA - Wednesday, May 21, 2008 at 21:19:42
God knows how much it would hurt me for not having a chance to see you before "the ultimate journey", that is why He made it possible for us to reunite just weeks before you returned home to Him.That day "satan perdu batay la, li anatheme". I was so happy to listen to your advices. I will cherish them forever and will apply them in my life. You served God so well that I can surely say "SEE YOU IN HEAVEN" whenever I get there. Love, Karine
Karine Antoine <k.antoine@hotmail.com>
Westbury, N.Y - Wednesday, May 21, 2008 at 21:10:19
Dear Ma tante, I have an empty space in my heart, but it comforts me to know you have gone straight to God. I realize how every route I go on leads to you, for you are my heart which is home that gives me strength through the wise words and sayings you have passed onto me. I will wait till the day I enter heaven's doors to once again hear you say Monmonde so I can embrace you once again. Till then I will deeply miss you and you will live on in my heart forever more.
Edmonde Abraham Faitien <amondly@yahoo.com>
Brooklyn, New York - Wednesday, May 21, 2008 at 21:6:40
i love you MeMe i wish you never left us i think about you every day you are a grandmother and a mother to me i love you and i know that you left this world and you open your eyes in heaven i know that you are in a better place sitting at the right hand of god i have never seen a women like you you are the strongest person i have ever seen and you are the best person i have ever seen i love you very much.
abraham <abrahambertoni@yahoo.com>
brooklyn, U.S.A - Wednesday, May 21, 2008 at 20:59:32
i love you and miss you i remember when you gave me money you used to say no but five mins later you gave it to me your the best grandmother in the whole world you left everyone with something in there hands we all miss you in the temple it is no the same without you there is somthng in my heart that is missing and there is nothing in the world he can replace that feeling when i was doing bad in school you were there and you helped me go through it and one more thing say hi to god for me i love you
peter <peterapollon@yahoo.com>
brooklyn, U.S.A - Wednesday, May 21, 2008 at 20:56:32
To Ma tante,You have been aunt to me like no other throughout your lifetime.Now that you have left the land of the living I have an empty space in my heart, but it comforts me to know that you have gone straight to God. I know this for a fact through the exemplary life you have led that has inspired many others to want to live a life closer to the Lord. I no more than ever realize how every route I go on leads to you for you are my heart, which is home that gives me strength through the wise words and sayings you have passed onto me. I will wait till the day I enter heaven's doors to once again hear you say Monmonde so I can embrace you once again. Till then I will deeply miss you and you will live on in my heart forever more.
Edmonde Abraham Faitien <amondly@yahoo.com>
Brooklyn, New York - Wednesday, May 21, 2008 at 20:51:55
My sweet mother that is what you are. If there is something sweeter than sugar it is you. No matter if the tears from my eyes are dry I am still crying inside.You are a friend,you spoiled me,and you are everything to me. I am always teasing you about gas money even if I dont need it ,now that you are gone I have no one to tease about giving me gas money.You have been a very good mother even in your sickness you showed me that you love me.Even in your last minute you did not want to die in front of me which showed your love even bigger.However, I know that there is someone that loves you even more. I am going to work really hard so one day we can meet again in heaven. Love you mother and my friend!!
Ketty Valme-Joseph <Kfny25@aol.com>
Brooklyn, USA - Wednesday, May 21, 2008 at 18:26:27
R.I.P. Grandma I love you and I miss you!! Life is never never going to be the same without you. After a while life may go back to the way it used to but there is still going to be something missing.No matter how hard I try I cant stop thinking about you grandma.I am never never going to have my friend sitting next to me and making me lay down on her lap when im tired at the temple. I miss you so much grandma.Life is going to be so hard without you but at least I know you are in a better place. May your soul R.I.P. Love you your grandaughter Katiana
Katiana Joseph <dgqgal2@yahoo.com>
Brooklyn, USA - Wednesday, May 21, 2008 at 18:1:12
Its so hard to know that many days will pass before I see you again. I love you with all my heart Meme. I will miss you saying to me "on se vois pas"....I will do my all to live up to your example in Christ. Please hook my mansion/room and prepare me some good ol legume w/crabs and du riz blanc, please! when I get there. See you soon, a plus tard....Junior
Serge Esperance, Jr. <SREsperance@aol.com>
Brooklyn, NY - Wednesday, May 21, 2008 at 17:6:16
Ma tres chere tante, je n'ai personne maintenant.tu vas rester dans mon coeur pour toujours.les habitudes que tu m'avais donnees depuis en haiti jusqu'a new york....,dans l'espoir de te voir dans le ciel un jour.sonny ton prefere
Sonny Abraham <sonnyabraham62@yahoo.com>
brooklyn, usa - Wednesday, May 21, 2008 at 15:51:36
God bless You sister FERNANDE. We will all miss You deeply.May we all take comfort knowing that You are at peace right now. You fought like a true soldier and now it is your time to rest in peace. May we all be encouraged.Love Claude and Marie-Anne Denis (Brooklyn,NY)
Claude & Marie-Anne Denis <den7cl@aol.com>
New-York, USA - Wednesday, May 21, 2008 at 15:20:26
For the short period of time i've known MEME, she's been an inspiration to my life, although i do not speak creole i love her like she was my own mother. MEME I WILL MISS YOU WITH ALL MY HEART. And to the family i extend my deepest sympathy.I LOVE EACH AND EVERY ONE OF YOU.
Shoylyn <phatii_gurl82@yahoo.com>
Brooklyn, New York - Wednesday, May 21, 2008 at 13:31:54
Ma Mèmè a toujours fait partie de ma vie par l’entremise de mes grands-parents, de mes parents et de mon mari, elle est très attachante et a toujours le juste mot pour nous encourager. Elle est un témoignage vivant de la grandeur de Dieu. Elle a fait preuve de courage durant toute sa vie sans se plaindre ne serait-ce qu'un seul jour. Sa joie était de nous savoir heureux. Je t'aime et merci d'avoir été dans ma vie. Elle est maintenant au près du Dieu tout puissant pour lequel elle a travaillé si fort. Gloire soit rendue à Dieu.
Gabrielle Merveille Michel <gabrielle_merveille@hotmail.com>
Laval, Canada - Wednesday, May 21, 2008 at 12:43:45
my MEME I will miss you more than words can ever say.I can't image my life without you.How can I live my life without MY MEME!
natascha coeur <tcoeur@optonline.net>
brooklyn, ny - Wednesday, May 21, 2008 at 11:45:42
I will miss the conversation, and the advice you always give me. Mèmè I love you and I will always remember you. Your Déb
Déb
- Wednesday, May 21, 2008 at 11:27:42
By God's grace and because of your prayers,I am who I am today. Everything I have is a result of the work you did, especially my 3 kids. For over 7 years I was having miscarriage after miscarriage, and now I have my son and my twin girls. Thank you, MEME! I will not and can never forget you. Love you with all my soul!PS - Between us, allow me God to say, it did not have to be so soon.
Manman 3 pitit la (Rose-Laure)
Brooklyn, NY - Wednesday, May 21, 2008 at 11:7:24
I can not bear the thought of not having Meme there at the Temple, especially early Tuesday and Thursday morning when I start working at the daycare center. I miss her even more when she comes inside the daycare later during the day asking me about the kids. She always has something to say to them "in creole". There are no words to express the sorrow and sympathy that I feel for myself and the family. I miss her so much and I will always carry her love and kidness with me. She was and still is a big part of my life; she was a true christian, a real fighter, a hero and this is a huge loss for all of us. Words are never enough at a time like this, but I know that she is in God's care. My thoughts and prayers are with the whole family and may God grant all of you the strength to carry on. May Meme's soul rest in peace. I love you Meme.
Tatiana
Brooklyn, New York - Wednesday, May 21, 2008 at 8:42:53
Les familles Saint Cyr, Rows, Faustin, Saieh me joignent pour exprimer notre profond regret et vous presentent nos sinceres condoleances en cette Circonstance. La Soeur Valme fut un modele pour tout ceux qui l'ont connue et elle nous a touches par ses oeuvres et son amour pour le Grand Dieu et Seigneur. Que vous puissiez du courage dans les souvenirs vivants qu'elle vous a laisses. Que Dieu vous benisse!Marie Marthe Saint Cyr
La famille Saint Cyr <sagesselifechanges@yahoo.com>
Huntington, New york, USA - Tuesday, May 20, 2008 at 21:14:7
Maman, ne pense pas que personne pourra détruire l'amour que j'ai pour toi, ni combler le vide que tu as laisse dans mon cœur.
Baby Doc (Myrlande)
- Tuesday, May 20, 2008 at 16:0:37
Meme, I love you and I will miss you. You were my heart, my soul...my life.
Mafifi
- Tuesday, May 20, 2008 at 15:33:18